Reality is what you make of it; after all, it's all in your head. That notwithstanding, life goes on.

But, with life comes other comfortable and uncomfortable happenstances with far reaching consequences for individuals. Whatever you decide to call it, reality check is what it is.

1. Not all Relationships will Lead to Marriage

Self-interest rules from the beginning, and therefore it's easy to estimate how things are likely to turn out except something exceptional alters that course. This is to say that people can always tell where a relationship will lead from the beginning unless they're just exploring and casting a wide net.

The power of self awareness cannot be overstated or underestimated. Being self aware will always make you look out for your self-interest.

2. Personal Happiness is not Selfish

Admittedly, people do sacrifice their personal joy for the happiness of others. But, it's not a bad idea to look out for yourself if you need to.

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5. Your university degree will get you a job. High income skills will get you financial freedom.