You are a function of the information you receive into your system, the people around you, and the environment where you live. Take it or leave it, they are the primary instruments that will contribute to your life (your successes and achievements). If this information has recorded anything into your consciousness, then you have to rethink the kind of person you are. What have your achieved? What success have you recorded for yourself? In any case, where you do not like yourself, you may rejig your life to give way to the kind of information, people and environment that will make you better.

Get yourself around strong people, strong ideas, powerful environments. That’s where your strength lies. Living in the presence of strength enables you to grow stronger. Like the Bible records, “iron sharpens iron; sp a man sharpens the countenance of his friend” (Proverbs 27:17). In fulfilling your purpose, in achieving any set goal, in finding solutions to personal problems, in recording any milestone, you need the information, the people, and environment to draw strength, inspiration, guidance, support, and counsel from.
The earlier you appreciate the need for these strengths is the better because you will begin to experience these strengths in the needed areas of your life. It will inspire, encourage, and guide you to develop and expand new strengths within your set goals.

You see that the ocean is beautiful and inspiring, and at the same time powerful, unforgiving. Walk beside the ocean, let its waves dance with your feet, and make some of its strength your own. Station your life where you can find inspiration and watch yourself grow. Listen to a passionate speaker making a strong, sincere, and compelling argument. Whether you agree or not, you can draw strength from the ideas and the competent way they’re presented.
Instead of always feeling resentful or fearful, doubting the strength you encounter, seek to be inspired by it. Let its best attributes resonate with you, challenge you, and increase your strength. Go where there is strength that you can see, hear, feel for, it is in the presence of strength, that you will grow stronger.