I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.
Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love
Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me.
Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.
I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone
Please how do I get over my ex

that guy doesn't love you and you should move on real quick , going back to him would add absolutely nothing to your life but take you backwards.

change to a new sim so he doesn't have your contact girl and run as fast as you can. he's out to ruined your life totally.

I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small,

I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs,

Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

The lazy motherfucker isn’t meant for you.
He’s just playing with your emotions because he knows you love him more than he does.
Move on and date someone else who will cherish you

pocohantas:


Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

I'll like to know too

Lifeisokay:

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.

I don't have an answer to your question, but I can definitely tell you that this right here is NOT love.

You can find another name for it though.

pocohantas:


Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

am very bad at money management,any help??

It's obvious he doesn't love you. He probably missed the goodies that comes with him dating you and probably sex with you. He's just probably trying to manipulate you by keeping you to himself while he keep on philandering with other ladies, knowing you love him more, so wanna capitalize on it. Remember, the one who has more control in relationship is the one whose love and commitment is less. The foundation of your relationship with him was even build on lies, so don't expect something good from such.

Meanwhile, just focus on being the better version of yourself for now, don't rush into any new relationship. Take your time to heal completely as time heals all wound. Rushing into a new relationship with the thought that it might let you overcome the feelings you have for him faster would only get things worst as the new guy would be the one to bear the rot. So, take your time.

Lifeisokay:
I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.
Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love
Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me.
Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.
I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone
Please how do I get over my ex

He is the cause of your depression.... bin him pls

pocohantas:


Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

Leave relationship and work on your mental health. You're suffering from a special brand of anxiety disorder with low self esteem.

E reach to know

pocohantas:


Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

My dear, it’s apparent you have a fragile mental state. I advise you to avoid that idiot you call ex. He sees you outside and pretend not to know you? Tell you not to call him because he need space? You want someone to finally tip you over the edge abi? Find your self someone who is mentally stable so the person can help settle you. Many Yahoo boys themselves are not mentally ok. Because you have to be completely insane to do what they do.

My dear break ups are hard. But you will be fine. First make sure he has no contact with you, and delete all his numbers. Take it one day at a time and you will start forgetting him in like a month. Focus on growing yourself and your career for now. Stay away from users and irresponsible people.

pocohantas:


Forget about the EX. Please share your money management skills.

Maybe she earns in dollars

" don't want to hurt anybody's feeling"

Sounds funny when u said that. In the end is it the guys feeling u are hurting or yours?


Better move on with your life and stop wasting time in a relationship that has no hope, future and essence

Lifeisokay:
I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.
Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love
Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me.
Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.
I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone
Please how do I get over my ex

You have to gather yourself and brace yourself up and decide if you want to suffer for a man that has no future

Or you want to struggle hard and establish yourself instead of wasting money for someone that only have you as an option

My dear girl, what you described here is not a normal male/ female relationship and thus the chances of it working out are slim. Pls forget this fellow. He is not even in a loving relationship with himself much less with another person. Focus on yourself. Build a solid relationship with Christ. read your bible daily, focus on the new testament as they contain the gospel of Christ and pray for the live of God to engulf you. The thing is this, life is hard, very hard and you cant go at it alone. You will be alright last last sha.

From the way you told the story, that guy does not love you. You better look for someone who does.

I am a mental health consultant. Let's talk

Lifeisokay:
I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.
Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love
Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me.
Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.
I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone
Please how do I get over my ex

He's playing games with you because you allow it.



Find some friends to hang out with and forget about this dead end.