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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by lebete3000: 12:06pm On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
You far from me

I can see you're in Lagos. I don't think that matters...
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 12:11pm On Mar 16, 2022
H4CK3R5:
Tramadol addiction no be better thing o,he might go Psycho if he decides to stop.

One way I know to help him is house arrest more like isolation for a month,give him food,and everything he wants buh he shouldn't have access to goo where he can get the drug and the ones with him should be taken away,I'm not sure you alone can do this

He will start having itching body and loss of appetite for some stuffs and sleepless nights. Buh he will be better In a month time without it

He also need to have the mindset that he needs to stop it. Trams dey give mumu motivation to do things wey Norma person no fit do ����

Talking from experience �
Bro you're right. You know i used to have a big phobia for driving but when i take Trams i hit the road with much confidence and care and drive perfectly well and come back home safely. Trams motivated me to learn how to drive perfectly, it gives me the confidence to drive outside anytime without considering what anyone or any driver with trailer thinks now I'm a very good driver.
But I'm hooked to the drug now and i can't even sleep without taking it and the Damn restless legs. Mehn i wish i never got to know about this shit. It eating me up so bad.
Damn Damn
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Aguilar(m): 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2022
It takes the divine intervention of God to stop his addiction.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by feeloscar(m): 12:17pm On Mar 16, 2022
Fedrick100:
Stopping the addition is not easy especially Tramadol.if he don’t take it aday he won’t have strength to do anything,to sleep sef will be difficult for him
I have cousin brothers that take tramadol and I can tell you how weak they always feel if they haven’t taken the drug
Withdrawal Syndrome crepts in when a drug addict tries to stop his or her addiction abruptly. Gradual reduction of the dosage works until they finally stop, but it takes some time because it's a gradual process.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by SoapQueen(f): 12:17pm On Mar 16, 2022
slickycee:
But why did you still decide to date him after everything.
Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused .

My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him.

The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities.
(Parents, church leaders, even the government )
From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict.

The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol.

Stop trying to control his life,
Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing.
Quit trying to save people, you can't.

The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him
.

He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him
Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now.
Which enables the addiction


The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention,
If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader.
Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful.

The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it.

So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones.


I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love.

So do as you please, may God see you through

This is the best comment.

One thing I learnt albeit late is that;

✓ I cannot babysit an adult's brain.

✓ I should never be caught up in the middle of someone's highs and lows. Why? Because I'm not a therapist and I have my own issues.

✓ Love and relationships should not be all about long suffering, stressful episodes, and whatnots. I find it worrisome that many of us women feel like we must suffer and go through stress first before love comes our way. There's a place called "Healthy" and "Unproblematic." Everyone should strive for that.

Las las, dem no dey give award for who suffer pass.

Op, follow your heart.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 12:17pm On Mar 16, 2022
shogsman:
Tell him to start tapering off tlhus dosage,in a few months he'll be fine,but I assure you once an addict always an addict,I take tramadol too
Same here. How do we kill this act bro. A pack of 225 is 5k now Damn.
It helps for real but we shouldn't be dependant on this shit.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by SoapQueen(f): 12:18pm On Mar 16, 2022
IKBARUTEN11:
Find a way and discourage him from abusing drugs or quit the relationship


Else, you will soon be abused by him

This comment!
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by TheGift: 12:18pm On Mar 16, 2022
One thing that may help Him is if you tell Him that transforms is a deal breaker for you because you do not want to raise your children in that environment, you don’t want to be dealing with husband health issues. And you don’t want to become a young widow.

If He insists, tell Him you will only reconsider if He agrees to see a therapist.

And mean it.

May God guide you and heal Him. ��
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Toyindiva(f): 12:20pm On Mar 16, 2022
sis run oh, 15 years of smoking and tramadol when someone is addicted to such it only takes by the grace of God.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by kayo8080: 12:26pm On Mar 16, 2022
Sammy101111:
Have deleted my post if you like listen and if you like dont listen .
Addiction is different from prostitution

People that even go to ara or yaba left are they not human being and the funniest thing is they end up being successful.

One of my relatives was a addicted to smoking he went to ara for 6 month now he works on a vessel . the lowest money he sent to me any time i wine him and ask for money na 30k . he will just tell me manage it but dont use my money drink oh lol..
If people dont change they can't become a better person

Addiction can be changed
Prostitution is a decision from the mind and body

True
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Stricher: 12:27pm On Mar 16, 2022
Tramadol...Forget him physical strength,he go kill him manhood.I'll comment later.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by shogsman(m): 12:28pm On Mar 16, 2022
Badadvisor:

Same here. How do we kill this act bro. A pack of 225 is 5k now Damn.
It helps for real but we shouldn't be dependant on this shit.
I get a fill for $40 that is 100mg and there is 200 inside a fill,I buy from Juarez, mexico though it's cheaper here in Cali it cost $145.
I used to use 800-1000mg per day and I've Been using it for 16years ,I tapered off times without number,it was tedious but I finally got it to work,now I can survive on just 100-200mg per day,last year I manage to quit for 8months but relapsed months ago.
It's a very big issue and we users just like to downplay it here because it is not really regarded as a serious opiate here and they don't take possession seriously because USA has a very serious drug problem, government is focused on rehabilitation of cocaine, heroin and fetanyl users not small drugs like tramadol.
However in naija the case is different and tm is really ruining a lot of lifes.
I'd pay millions of naira if there was a way to just stop easily and forget about it

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by kayo8080: 12:30pm On Mar 16, 2022
Maxie110:






The major reason she doesn't wana quit is S@X

I suspect so too. I know how it enhances performance.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by kayo8080: 12:34pm On Mar 16, 2022
luminouz:
Nawa

I wonder how guys and girls use this shiit for libido enhancement.

[b]The one time I used it as a pain reliever...I slept off like a new born baby. My dick no even rise at all. [/b]Same with NESCAFÉ that makes people stay up all night reading, I almost failed PHY 101 due to this. For 9am exam, I woke up by 8:30am after taking NESCAFÉ the previous night and ran to exam without bathing or brushing my teeth. I didn't revise or read for that exam.

Which Kain body I get sef. I'm sure if I ever use Viagra....na to sleep like a pregnant hippo too. grin

The enhancement is not immediate... It kicks in after you take a nap an wake up. You will first have a phase of what is called "up nepa" when everything slows down and shuts down, then you become hyper.

Please don't use it o. Just starting its effect.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Webstar2810(m): 12:37pm On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
if he really wanna stop get him to see a psychiatrist doctor ( those are available in most teaching hospitals) at mental health section ) while you go with him cause he might need some help to deal with the withdrawal symptoms, been there before anyway I’m sure get help that way and his gonna stop by gods Grace ……I feel your pain
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by airminem(f): 12:42pm On Mar 16, 2022
Badadvisor:

Hello why did you say this?
Does tm affect sperm or what?
Opiod affects the ejaculatory factory in men

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by babadee1(m): 12:52pm On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

He can't break a tramadol addiction without rehab and medical help. He has probably developed a physical dependence by now. Pls advise him to see a psychiatrist. And if you choose to marry him with this addiction then just know what you're getting yourself into.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by donMIG(m): 12:54pm On Mar 16, 2022
U know what u repose to do yet u come here to make noise

But wait Oo. Weitin d T. R dei do sef for body?
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 1:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
shogsman:

I get a fill for $40 that is 100mg and there is 200 inside a fill,I buy from Juarez, mexico though it's cheaper here in Cali it cost $145.
I used to use 800-1000mg per day and I've Been using it for 16years ,I tapered off times without number,it was tedious but I finally got it to work,now I can survive on just 100-200mg per day,last year I manage to quit for 8months but relapsed months ago.
It's a very big issue and we users just like to downplay it here because it is not really regarded as a serious opiate here and they don't take possession seriously because USA has a very serious drug problem, government is focused on rehabilitation of cocaine, heroin and fetanyl users not small drugs like tramadol.
However in naija the case is different and tm is really ruining a lot of lifes.
I'd pay millions of naira if there was a way to just stop easily and forget about it
Keep your head up bro. We'll get over this. I miss those days I would enjoy my afternoon sleep and still won't find it hard to sleep at night. These days sleeps seems very hard to find except with the help of tm.
We'll get over this for real

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 1:03pm On Mar 16, 2022
airminem:
Opiod affects the ejaculatory factory in men
Tm is really hard to quit. Try to help any one around going through such phase. Trust me they want to quit but it's almost impossible to stop trams without help from outside.
You'd find sleep and it would seem very far away with the Damn restless legs. It's hell for real
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by falcon01: 1:03pm On Mar 16, 2022
tctrills:
your science is faulty.
explain please cause i have friends who became epileptic after abusing Tramadol for long, I've seen more than 10 cases of seizure attack due to tramadol abuse just 2 weeks ago, one okada man collapsed on the road and was having seizure attack and yeah he was a Tramadol abuser. So please explain .
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Charx122: 1:08pm On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

I actually go my cousin out of this filty addiction last year I had to take him to Aro a rehab in abekota
It wasn't easy I tell you the rate at which he was popin the drugs,
was alarming he kept on increasing by a tab we almost lost him.
So anything that needs to be done do it quick .. He took more than a full pack which is 900mm daily
With extra..
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by treatise: 1:23pm On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Side effects: multiple organ failure.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by treatise: 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2022
falcon01:
explain please cause i have friends who became epileptic after abusing Tramadol for long, I've seen more than 10 cases of seizure attack due to tramadol abuse just 2 weeks ago, one okada man collapsed on the road and was having seizure attack and yeah he was a Tramadol abuser. So please explain .
Lil Wayne is a good example; seizure extraordinaire
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by olabrinks(f): 1:43pm On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
Fallacy of hasty generalization. Some women not all women, if you spend more than 10mins on me, I feel very uncomfortable
100% right, early cumming is not nice but anything more than 10 mins, you’ll be pounding a dry dessert.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by navzla(m): 1:58pm On Mar 16, 2022
Back then a guy used to be our football coach.He was so much deep into substance abuse.Though he was good at the job.We were young then ,he vehemently warn us to engaged in the act.Days past ,,I seek to know about him and I was been told that he was diagnosed with a liver disease which caused holes in his liver.
So that is the effects of drug abuse.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Kayode3747: 2:20pm On Mar 16, 2022
Leave him before he cut off your head and say is because of drugs he did it. Think before it too late.[color=#990000][/color]peace
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by VanuatuWycombe: 2:21pm On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:

I don't agree with you on this

It is true. It works, off label, in most people’s bodies as aphrodisiac and helps them delay ejaculation and relieve pain. But in some people’s bodies, it works the opposite. For the OP’s man to be taking it, it must be helping him delay ejaculation and he could be afraid of letting go off it.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by VanuatuWycombe: 2:30pm On Mar 16, 2022
Badadvisor:

Hello why did you say this?
Does tm affect sperm or what?

It delays ejaculation in most users. Not all though.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by luminouz(m): 2:30pm On Mar 16, 2022
kayo8080:


The enhancement is not immediate... It kicks in after you take a nap an wake up. You will first have a phase of what is called "up nepa" when everything slows down and shuts down, then you become hyper.

Please don't use it o. Just starting its effect.

I had no up NEPA or down NEPA phase...for 24hours.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by airminem(f): 2:31pm On Mar 16, 2022
Badadvisor:

Tm is really hard to quit. Try to help any one around going through such phase. Trust me they want to quit but it's almost impossible to stop trams without help from outside.
You'd find sleep and it would seem very far away with the Damn restless legs. It's hell for real
It's harder to get help quitting here in Nigeria. It can only get worst due to the lack of proper attention/therapy needed

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Halimat04(f): 2:39pm On Mar 16, 2022
Your guy is not ready to stop....
When his ready to stop, something will make him stop.
My younger brother was also addicted to drugs....but d day he fell from d stairs nd broke his shoulder....he learnt his lesson. Just keep praying that God should touch his heart
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

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