Richy4:
OP, I have a question for u...

<<Is it compulsory that everyone must get married?... Or are u asking this question based on the society's dictate that everyone must be married?

Just your honest opinion

englishmart:
Let me take it that your reason is simply that, everybody mustn't get married" There must be a reason, and this is one.

Ok.. if after reading/ seeing question mark and u still summarised it to be a statement and not a question,... Then it's 'wonderful'... People understand things differently I guess

Lol. If you know the kind breakfast they serve some of these guys ehn, you will know the battle is not for the weak. All these 200L girls dey show them shege o.

Forget what you read online, all these small girls with tiny handbags don’t really like to marry way older guys as such. Except she is from a very disadvantaged family. If they date you, they will be hiding you from their friends and chopping your money. Time for commitment, they will disembark. That is why at a point, the tune of 36+ men would change. They will na tell you they can’t date below 28yrs.

Some have also gotten very comfortable with being single. Small thing body go dey scratch them. You must be very strong and patient to hold them down.

Some don’t want to marry. Even if they will, they will take their time, no pressure.

Some might have been married or had arrangements with semblance to marriage.

Some have had their fair share of relationships that ended for reasons beyond their control. No energy to chyke woman again sef.

bigjackass:
body odor

pocohantas:


Lmao. That could be a thing too. Not everything is spiritual.

Acidosis:


Some of them have more kids, have more sex, and spend more on women/kids than married men.

So I don't see any issue. They're technically married.

cococandy:
How do you not see any issues? I thought sex was only honorable within a marriage? Or is it an instruction only reserved for women?

Acidosis:


Lol. Coco the women defender.

The rule applies to both men and women. I was only trying to say that many 40-year-old single men do what married men do. So the "relationship" status of a single man at 40 should not be mistaken for celibacy, lack of responsibilities, or poverty.

cococandy:


You said you saw no issues.

I’m Just trying to make sure you keep the same energy of seeing no issues when we are talking about unmarried women having indiscriminate sex and having kids with men who aren’t their husbands

Acidosis:
Do your findings. Some are separated (divorced), baby daddies, engaged, on in a relationship.

Some of them have more kids, have more sex, and spend more on women/kids than married men.

So I don't see any issue. They're technically married.

Hammyaladin:
this ur siggy Carry weight o

englishmart:
Don't mind the siggy. She's in her late 20's

englishmart:
Don't mind the siggy. She's in her late 20's

SeaTrade:
Early 30s...or 30.

englishmart:
Abi? Shey you know her in person?

SeaTrade:
Maybe,maybe not.
But you'll know that phase is over for her following the recent stance changes.
Posterity decides for us all I guess

englishmart:
Posterity is not scripted.

SeaTrade:
Some certain aspects of it is...
Not really into back and forth.

englishmart:
Whatever, mehn.

pocohantas:




This made me laugh.

Lol. Your siggy is nothing but sarcastic. You even said you bring nothing to the table, not even your phone?

Richy4:
OP, I have a question for u...

<<Is it compulsory that everyone must get married?... Or are u asking this question based on the society's dictate that everyone must be married?

Just your honest opinion

englishmart:
Lol. Your siggy is nothing but sarcastic. You even said you bring nothing to the table, not even your phone?

pocohantas:


Nothing at all. Just my old sef coming to enjoy what he has worked for. At least you guys won’t accuse me of pretending to get the ring.

The ring isn't even available in the first place . Meanwhile, enjoy while stock lasts.