You can't stop your father from marrying...... He hasn't done wrong, it's his right to remarry therefore, free him. Don't dictate to him or attempt to stop or thwart his ambition, that right is fundamental.
If you work against him, even ascestors will be angry with you. Don't deprive him of his joy.
Would you solve the problem of his loneliness ?
When u get to his age, you will know what he's passing through.

SILVERLINES:


He should have gone for fresher pussy
At least someone of early 40s

He might not be strong enough, 40 years is too active for ill papa in his 80s na. That's high way to the grave

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

ah ah e concern u? Abi u wan marry your papa?

Illuminatiship:
Na grave he wan for do honey moon.

Kiddo! Hope ur gonna get a good score in jamb this year.

No big deal since a 60 year old woman can hardly conceive. So I think it's for companionship. Old man rest na.

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

why not Bwana,he should go on with it if such who bring him happiness

saphiere:
I am suspecting that your dad was having extramarital affairs with this women before your mum passed on.

Learn to use it. You know what I am talking about

And seun is still single. This life no balance at all

A Widower, YES.

You see serial divorcees, they should never try that.

yommen:


Kiddo! Hope ur gonna get a good score in jamb this year.

thank God say I write jamb I nor end up for ashawo quarters like your sister.

SlyfoxxjReturns:


Who told you this? The late Chief Wahab Folawiyo was expecting a child with a woman as at the time of his death at age 80. He has a daughter that is barely 15 years old today. Many men remain virile way into their 80’s. Or you haven’t heard of Hugh Hefner before?

I am fully aware bro..But who expects a child with a 60yr old woman?

Few men keep pumping above 80...These ones that started taking viagra and other performance pills at 20s no go fit pump again above 80...Diminishing returns will happen.

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

av u provided alternative arrangements for his wellbeing?he needs somebody to cook and take care of his domestic needs!av u done that?if u avnt,then,let the oldman take his wife!

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

Looks very good on the surface, people a calculative. Thus, the only caveat is that he should organize his affairs, precisely, his assets. His estate could become the subject of litigation between you, (his children) and wife upon his demise. He may choose to enter a pre-nuptial agreement with her that all properties he acquired before the marriage are solely his. He can also cede whatever wants to give her whilst alive. That way, you won't pay a heavy price for you father's nanny/wife. The new wife could display amiable mien now, but take over/ferociously fight over his assets when he dies. It very common o, don't be fooled!

Do discuss these issues with him, and encourage him to consult his lawyers before the marriage.

As the legally married wife of your father, she is the next in line on/in inheritance list... She has the power to siphon or channel you fathers wealth to other places, if your papa kick bucket, kiss your inheritance good bye, na papa kapenta pikin go inherit am...

Offer your own side of blessings to their union while you advice him to be careful, so as not to witness "death in active service"

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

In theory, there is nothing wrong with him getting remarried since he lost his first wife (your mom). Sorry about the loss of your mom.

In practice, I am just wondering the kind of marriage they had that he is willing to remarry so soon after her death & at his age.

I would rather he gets a male/female nurse/nanny/companion.

If the woman loves him, no problem with that.

I'm 58, living in Benin City. I lost my darling wife in April last year to cardiac arrest.
I'm presently looking for a companion who I would later take as wife.

If interested, contact me on WhatsApp number 0 7 0 8 4 7 9 3 0 7 8

Dating scammers, please keep off my lane oh because I know your format.

Yes. If the old man lives to be 110 years, it will be a lot of years of loneliness and neglect without a companion.
My maternal grandfather, who lived to 115 years, was wedded to a much younger woman who helped to tend to his needs.

Gee64:
I'm 58, living in Benin City. I lost my darling wife in April last year to cardiac arrest.
I'm presently looking for a companion who I would later take as wife.

If interested, contact me on WhatsApp number 0 7 0 8 4 7 9 3 0 7 8

Dating scammers, please keep off my lane oh because I know your format.

Sorry about the loss of your first wife. I pray that the Good Lord leads you to a nice woman who you will be very compatible with.

Johnnycastro18:
I expect you to be happy for your dad, there is a kind of love and companionship your dad would benefit from this woman( not necessarily sex) to which you the kids may not have time for that, she would also take good care of him.

Right on. The most reasonable comment av seen so far.

Ghester:
Mine married at 70 to a woman in her mid forty.

Allow him

A 70 year old is still very young.

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

Yes.

Please do all within your power to make it happen.

then treat your step-mother with the love and respect you have for your father.

May the good Lord grant your father sound health till he breath his last.

Congrats to the new couple.

Yes he needs it. It's not good that a man should be alone. Not necessarily sex, but companion.

For companionship maybe

Mathiasa:
I wish my dad do the same. I lost my mom long time ago and dad still looks young but no woman at all. I feel sorry for him at times.
You should be happy for him.

your dad is a good man. Mine got married 6 months after my mum demise. I always feel bad each time i remember this.

Yes of course.

He must be lonely.. Let him be thank your stars he's not deceived by slay queens he went for much older woman!!

stixxy:
Akrika papa, allow him to enjoy himself and knack pussy except you are jealous

He is jealous.

I don’t see any problem with it. He’s close to the grave. She may add seventeen more years to his lifespan.