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Men Also Cry!!! by Omokowa(m): 2:51pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
MEN HAVE PAINS TOO A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a super human. I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone" A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?". Men always try to hide their pains. Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything. Most men are married but they have lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think. You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him. Sometimes, your husband doesn't have things you want. Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love... 7 Likes
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Kriss216: 3:01pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everythingThat's me. All my neighbours think I'm a billionaire. One Nigerian girl billed me 300K last week. I was shocked. Was wondering the part of my lifestyle that made her think I have 300k to waste on a fish brain! 6 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Richy4(m): 3:07pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
I like your post OP... But so u know, a lot of us don't pretend anymore... We kind of speak out nowadays... The era of suffering and smiling has passed.. it's a new dawn It doesn't matter if one is living a lowlife or a highlife... As long as you are living your life to the fullest...Cry, smile, laugh in your relationship.. all are emotions as long as you are not faking it to please your spouse... 7 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Ahmed0336(m): 3:17pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
I only pretend to live below my means. I don't show off because it is not necessary. Make nobody quote me abeg, I don't have money 2 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Klass99(f): 3:30pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by emmanuelbrown26: 3:46pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Watch out as this thread go dey dry like dry crayfish. U won't see ladies commenting on this thread, u won't see ladies being objective, if it's not favourable, that means that thing is nonsense and u want me to believe on such specie? |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Jeon(f): 3:50pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
I THOUGHT MEN ARE ROBOTS, I THOUGHT THEY LACK THAT SALTY LIQUID PRODUCED IN THE LACRIMAL GLANDS THAT COMES OUT OF THE EYES ... SILLY ME, DAMN SO THEY HAVE EMOTIONS . SO THEY ARE NOT MADE-UP OF ROCK.. h........mmmmmm WHAT A NEW PHILOSOPHY. 10 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Richy4(m): 4:11pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Klass99: Some of us are just cool and collected though deep down, the pain is so unbearable... it's safe to say some hides their emotions better than others.. And unfortunately for me, I don't know how to hide my emotions... My family will only look at my face and they can tell when I'm sad.. Even in my place of work, I'm always cheerful but some times it's not really easy... It will take a lot to make me cry though...The last time I cried, I was 11.. the first day I set my foot in boarding school... The school was serving Amala and dry Okro soup for dinner.. I have never seen Amala before, nor ever tasted dry Okro...I walked out of the dinning Hall in a dignified manner with hot tears as I was imagining what my siblings were eating at that time... That was my last cry... It's memorable If they say men don't cry, it might be true because many are extremely good in hiding emotions not that they don't feel pains .. trust me we all do... 6 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by RightToReject(m): 4:40pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Klass99: Stop saying trash and taking direct or indirect swipes at men always. As much as I do not hold brief for any wannabe woke man and person, the fact remains that to be disposed to emotional expression is different from living on emotion. On the latter - living on emotion - women are accustomed to it, while men are accustomed to living on logic. Of course, there is always an exception. On the former - to be disposed to emotional expression - however, which is what the thread is all about, any man (or woman), no matter how seemingly hard of soft he appears, who does not exhibit it where and when necessary and expected is simply a pretender who masks his real self with a disingenuous demeanor and will always have a penchant for living in regret, constant crying in secret, and meting out treacherous and pernicious acts in general, especially when least expected. By the way, on this "most of us (sensible women)," I wonder who gave you the impression that you are sensible, lol. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:05pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
[s] RightToReject:[/s] How far your bend-down boutique business? Hope you don't chase away customers with your dictionary induced grammar or you only show your word cramming talent here? You love fight mister man, when everyone has forgotten someone like you exists, you come out of nowhere to exchange words with yourself, be calming down, if you lack drama in your life, fight with the walls around you now Klass99 it's been a while, been seeing your mentions, was on ban so I couldn't reply.... but now I'm back....for more trouble seeking as usual 19 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Klass99(f): 5:16pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Richy4(m): 5:17pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
JovialJune: How was your cool off period? And they have to lift your ban on a Holyweek? 6 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:18pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
RightToReject: Oga me and you know say your job no pass market square, no dey argue And you just replied me with emotions na, abi your aggressive reply is not an emotion, "cam dan" nobody is e-fighting with you, learn to accept and counter comments without insults either subtle or direct, e no hard. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Klass99(f): 5:21pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:25pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Klass99: Easter plans are with my family, no energy to travel anywhere, time away from this place was not that bad to be honest, it was necessary But my being back is to ignore some trolls and bully some to Oblivion, but I get you, some are not worth the time and energy Enjoy 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:31pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Richy4: it was heavenly, they had to lift my ban out of respect for Jesus' death, this place was becoming boring really and in need vawulence....mind provoking ones 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:31pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Klass99(f): 5:32pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 5:35pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
RightToReject: Lord(let me sweeten your -2 ego small) You dey shalaye, nobody will beat you if you let your guard down, your stiffness no necessary at all, na online we dey....but let me rest here...we live to argue another day....till then.....adios man. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by faithfull18(f): 6:50pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Before, shey he cried at birth 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by JovialJune(f): 6:50pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Klass99: 8 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Acidosis(m): 6:55pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Men cry for the right reasons. |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by akmath: 6:56pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
OP nice piece I must confess. But the problem most times is that African men don't really know what they want. You don't marry a woman that doesn't have a job and expect miracles to happen overnight. Those whose wives are jobless complain about them not contributing financially at home and those whose wives are working and contributing financially at home complain that their wives don't do house chores. If you want a house wife be ready to provide the money for the running of the home . And if you want a working class wife be ready to assist her in doing some house chores. And if enough money is flowing in from both ends then get house helps. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by postmann: 7:39pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Wimpish! There's an ongoing campaign at demystifying men, bridging the gender gap on the emotional, psychological, mental and physiological levels. Real men don't cry. Doesn't matter how few they are left in a world where balls are now surgically modified to be holes. Omokowa: |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Nobody: 11:30pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
I don't lie about my pain to my woman. In fact I broke down and cried in front of her the day I heard my boss and mentor at work for the last 9 years died. Na she comfort me and if I broke I tell her hoha I no get money, no playing super hero when I don't have. Omokowa: 2 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by cococandy(f): 11:42pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Framed: Perfect. There’s need for a balance. There are times to be strong and be the hero and there are time to be vulnerable and let yourself be taken care of. It’s just human. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by cococandy(f): 11:43pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
postmann: Men are not mysterious. Just human Things like this are why men have a higher successful suicide rate than women. Also the reason why young boys will die before they talk about their sexual assault at the hands of older men and women. Because they feel they can’t be seen as weak. Whereas it’s nothing to do with weakness. #thepartriarchyhurtsmentoo 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Also Cry!!! by Nobody: 11:51pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
cococandy: Correct. I agree. The first man who went blind on my street where our family house is, was told by the doctor that part of his problem was caused by holding back tears over many years. Doctor said tears is a cleansing therapy for the eyes. I no shame that day the news hit me hard, grateful for my girl as well. 2 Likes |
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