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I want to ask if I have a mental problem. I have been humiliated by my late father, siblings,uncles and aunties about as far back as when I was a kid. Due to that,I graduated and since I became jobless things took diff turn. The new friends I made,were all after what they will gain from me,both males and females.

I stay in ibadan,and so far I have been here,I have not been able to mingle with them because they all speak yoruba,they hardly speak English and they see me as an outcast. So the few friends I have,I go check up on them every now and then. But it dawn on me that all these years I have been showing kind gestures to ppl and not getting anything in return. Rather I get humiliated and blackmail. I dated a girl for 2 years and she told me I have mental disorder,that I am a ghost, that my siblings don't call me. So many ppl have asked my siblings what exactly I did to them,and they have no answer. They all bullied me,beat me ,made me do mental jobs, humiliated me even infront of everyone. So since some years ago,I decided not to talk to any one of them. But now I am tired . I mind my own business,I go my own way,I don't find anyone problem. But they are all saying I have ment disorder. I want to now ask,how can I have a mental disorder just because I choose not to communicate with my siblings due to past experience while growing up . For this reason,I cannot find any lady to understand me. I feel I I lost in nigeria.

sorry oooh.

I have mental disorder because I hate disturbance from people who like to beg for favour. When I was poorer and hopeless,no one looked at my face. I dont have a mental disorder. I had been expecting 50m since 2019,till now the person handling my money,ran into thin air and I've not been myself. I now distance myself from people,esp strangers. I do chase girls and sleep with them,but I can't find the one to love. The one that will love me will be ugly,the fine ones will be doing shakara. I don't really have time for approach because I work almost 8hours and when I'm done,heading home. I am not anti social,just that I have realised everyone is out for something . No similar views ,esp females. Or should I turn gay

Nospayce:
I have mental disorder because I hate disturbance from people who like to beg for favour. When I was poorer and hopeless,no one looked at my face. I dont have a mental disorder. I had been expecting 50m since 2019,till now the person handling my money,ran into thin air and I've not been myself. I now distance myself from people,esp strangers. I do chase girls and sleep with them,but I can't find the one to love. The one that will love me will be ugly,the fine ones will be doing shakara. I don't really have time for approach because I work almost 8hours and when I'm done,heading home. I am not anti social,just that I have realised everyone is out for something . No similar views ,esp females. Or should I turn gay

Your matter na only God fit solve am..

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Silentgroper:
Your matter na only God fit solve am..

Nospayce:
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Meaning he is advising you to advise yourself Mr. Man.

Meet a psychiatrist for full evaluation.

Mr. man you are not mentally sick, that's your fate deal with u.

I get you to a certain point.
It called growing up (that what I call it)
It shows that you're different and people in the society don't like different people.
Also this might be an issue because it's effecting the way you socialise with people.
Omo if any of your friend is disrespecting, that is not your friend.
Push anyone who is talking rubbish around you,
Your mental health is very important to you, so fk everyone and choose peace.
I remember being diagnosed with anxiety some time ago and my best friend (gf) laughed at me and called me a joker and a confused person, jezz.
People in Nigeria don't understand what mental health is.
If you feel like you have a childhood trauma, try and fix it by researching for some technics or read a book.
Bros nothing is wrong with you.

I feel terrible sometimes,sometimes I felt like I am dead and nothing is moving around me. My phone rings once in a while,the ppl I cling to don't return their appreciation, rather they will mock and blackmail me. So once I get a new number,start calling and I notice some things,I delete and don't pick calls again from that number. I have been doing this for at least 3 years. I only call my mother and some of my loyal friends who sometimes I might need their help. But the ones I showed love to and financial support,always mock me . So I left everyone to his or her faith. They call me weird, but I found myself stuck here in nigeria,with a black skin but a civilised white man's mentality. I know God has my back and I won't feel bad anylonger.