As a parent, one of our jobs is to teach our children how to behave. It's a job that takes time and patience. But, it will help to learn effective and healthy discipline strategies. The guides will promote positive development in children and positive parent-child relationships.

These Guides are for the Parents��.

Don’t make your daughter's assistant parents to their brothers

If he scatters the room, tell him to arrange it. If he rough handles his clothes, he should wash them. Never make them feel that their sister is there to SERVE them.

Your boys should be fully involved in domestic chores

There should be a timetable — the day he sweeps cleans the house, and also cooks. You should let your sons know that everyone that loves eating should know how to cook! Let them know it’s a basic survival skill!!!!

Do not ask your girls to respect their brothers because they are boys. I see this a lot in homes

The parents will tell the girls: “why would you talk to him like that? He’s a man..”. No! Let your boys know that if they want respect from their girls, they must earn it!

Do not stop your boys from expressing vulnerability

Don’t tell them to man up. Don’t shame them for crying. Let them express their full humanness. Boys are humans. Boys have emotions. Boys should not suppress emotions.

When your girl child makes a mistake, do not say things like: “Is this how you’ll take care of your husband?”. Her life is more than having a man, teach her that things should be done right not because of having and ‘keeping’ a man!

Don’t compare your kids based on gender. Some parents do this

When their girl child is doing better than their boys, they say things like: “Are you not ashamed that your sister is doing better than you?! And you’re a boy...”. You‘re teaching him that excellence isn’t for women.

Make your boys feel accountable

Some parents will scold their girls over something they’ll ignore the boys when they do it. Don’t make your boys feel that their standards are lower, & women have higher moral standards! You’re breeding spoilt boys who become terrible partners.

Parents, you need to realize that more than you’re grooming your children, you’re almost grooming someone’s friend, wife, husband, and we have many imbalanced marriages because boys were groomed to feel so entitled, and not accountable.

We have many women suffering in marriages because they end up with grown men who can’t do anything that offer the barest minimum and expect maximum results. These women keep sticking with abusive men because as kids their parents made them feel keeping a man was all... Please Forward this to our parent platforms. Watch out for Part 2

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As a parent, one of our jobs is to teach our children how to behave. It's a job that takes time and patience. But, it will help to learn effective and healthy discipline strategies. The guides will promote positive development in children and positive parent-child relationships.

These Guides are for the Parents��.

Don’t make your daughter's assistant parents to their brothers

If he scatters the room, tell him to arrange it. If he rough handles his clothes, he should wash them. Never make them feel that their sister is there to SERVE them.

Your boys should be fully involved in domestic chores

There should be a timetable — the day he sweeps cleans the house, and also cooks. You should let your sons know that everyone that loves eating should know how to cook! Let them know it’s a basic survival skill!!!!

Do not ask your girls to respect their brothers because they are boys. I see this a lot in homes

The parents will tell the girls: “why would you talk to him like that? He’s a man..”. No! Let your boys know that if they want respect from their girls, they must earn it!

Do not stop your boys from expressing vulnerability

Don’t tell them to man up. Don’t shame them for crying. Let them express their full humanness. Boys are humans. Boys have emotions. Boys should not suppress emotions.

When your girl child makes a mistake, do not say things like: “Is this how you’ll take care of your husband?”. Her life is more than having a man, teach her that things should be done right not because of having and ‘keeping’ a man!

Don’t compare your kids based on gender. Some parents do this

When their girl child is doing better than their boys, they say things like: “Are you not ashamed that your sister is doing better than you?! And you’re a boy...”. You‘re teaching him that excellence isn’t for women.

Make your boys feel accountable

Some parents will scold their girls over something they’ll ignore the boys when they do it. Don’t make your boys feel that their standards are lower, & women have higher moral standards! You’re breeding spoilt boys who become terrible partners.

Parents, you need to realize that more than you’re grooming your children, you’re almost grooming someone’s friend, wife, husband, and we have many imbalanced marriages because boys were groomed to feel so entitled, and not accountable.

We have many women suffering in marriages because they end up with grown men who can’t do anything that offer the barest minimum and expect maximum results. These women keep sticking with abusive men because as kids their parents made them feel keeping a man was all... Learn more

Please Forward this to our parent platforms.

op, this your for make homepage if you post everything here and then add your link under the post instead of you trying to redirect us to one website.
so you never hear of LA click LA bend! ?
abi uu be JJC for nairaland?

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op, this your for make homepage if you post everything here and then add your link under the post instead of you trying to redirect us to one website.
so you never hear of LA click LA bend! ?
abi uu be JJC for nairaland?