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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Image123(m): 10:57am On Apr 22, 2022
OGwales:


Shut up

So many frustrated souls, still Jesus Christ is the answer for you.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Karleb(m): 11:03am On Apr 22, 2022
phemmyfour:
We were never bold enough to practice them. A lot were going through our minds but we were never bold enough to practice them

Speak for yourself. lipsrsealed
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Dagger111(m): 11:07am On Apr 22, 2022
Lamanii22:
When there was no internet there was access to vcd porn…. Some of my friends had it in their house, they would bring it over to another of our friend’s whose parents are not always around, we would all watch it… but I never practiced lol, I have this fear in my heart and maybe cause I have a strict mom but I watched porn at a younger age…..

U go don do self pleasure wella. I swear...

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by phemmyfour: 11:25am On Apr 22, 2022
Karleb:


Speak for yourself. lipsrsealed
Argue with yourself
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Karleb(m): 11:28am On Apr 22, 2022
phemmyfour:
Argue with yourself

"speak for yourself" means that don't say we were never bold enough to practice it.

Say, I was never bold enough to practice it.

A lot of people practiced it.


Everything is not fight, shey you get. wink smiley
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by phemmyfour: 11:31am On Apr 22, 2022
Karleb:


"speak for yourself" means that don't say we were never bold enough to practice it.

Say, I was never bold enough to practice it.

A lot of people practiced it.


Everything is not fight, shey you get. wink smiley
Argue with yourself means that your statement is invalid. Your definition of "a lot" is probably 5%

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Karleb(m): 11:38am On Apr 22, 2022
phemmyfour:
Argue with yourself means that your statement is invalid. Your definition of "a lot" is probably 5%

You didn't know what was going on in the street when you were young.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by phemmyfour: 11:44am On Apr 22, 2022
Karleb:


You didn't know what was going on in the street when you were young.
Not when you're talking to the street itself. You don't have a clue of what my childhood was like growing up in lasgidi
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by BRATISLAVA: 12:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
topboss:
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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by CAPSLOCKED: 12:45pm On Apr 22, 2022
HardMirror:

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved


THE EXACT COMMENT I WAS GOING TO DROP HEADING TO THIS THREAD UNTIL I READ THROUGH YOUR OPENER. THIS IS THE UNDILUTED TRUTH. BUT NO, LET'S CONTINUE TO BLAME MEN FOR EVERYTHING GOING WRONG WITH SOCIETY WHILE JOINING IGNORANT WOMEN IN MISLEADING OTHER WOMEN AND CHILDREN INTO MISBEHAVING PUBLICLY FOR MALE ATTENTION UNDER THE GUISE OF WOMAN EMPOWERMENT AND THE "MY BODY MY CHOICE/WE DO IT FOR OURSELVES" BULLSHĮT.

THE OTHER WING OF THESE LUNATĮCS ARE THEIR MALE COUNTERPARTS THAT ARE PUBLICLY PROMOTING AND APPROVING FRAUD, BLOOD MONEY RITUALS, WOMEN OBJECTIFICATION, CULTISM AND OTHER RELATED IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIORS.
IF WE'RE LUCKY TO NOT DIE EARLY, WHEN WE'RE IN OUR 50S TO 70S WE'D SURELY LOOK BACK AT THE LIVES WE LIVED AND WISHED WE DID BETTER FOR THE MORALLY DECAYED YOUNGER GENERATION, WILL WILL SURELY GO ON TO BECOME BIGGER IDĮOTS THAN WE ARE.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by cococandy(f): 12:47pm On Apr 22, 2022
It’s the usual way.
Anytime they want to fix society, it almost always inevitably becomes something women aren’t doing right

BRATISLAVA:


From his second point, trying desperately to discredit rape allegations, his thread simply became an opportunity to divert and bring up the usual refusal to believe rape because statistically it is his gender responsible for it and he doesn't want them to receive any flak whatsoever. The usual pretence of caring for the girl child. Very old approach—threads reasonably against this and that buuuutttt dedicate the bulk of the message against females under topics that seen well-meant.

Notice how only 1 point is dedicated to whatever he has to say, and the rest is his true agenda. Where did we go wrong? Only with women, of course. Lol.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by GloriousGbola: 1:16pm On Apr 22, 2022
EgunMogaji2:
We? You meant where did the erring family go wrong. This is not an epidemic.

it is.

all those laws and restrictions in obodo oyibo where small pikins are blocked for registering on services do not exist here
Nigerians are also not hands on in monitoring and controlling their kids internet access
the ISPS are not rolling out family safe data plans so that you can lock out some services for your kids from source
there is no media specifically tailored towards children, and nigerians do not recognize this is a potential market
just as we looked up to rappers in our childhood, kids today are looking up to davido, wizkid and social media stars

this is just a case that got out because of a foolish woman who tried to change the narrative to rape for reasons only she knows.

these things are playing out in private and public schools
they are also playing out among tween groups
for months we had a family friends 12 year old shaking booty and posing in her whatsapp status. the missis and i could not tell if the parents were aware or not . matters came to a head in a bad way , and now the devices have been seized and sanctions applied
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by EgunMogaji2: 1:23pm On Apr 22, 2022
GloriousGbola:


it is.

all those laws and restrictions in obodo oyibo where small pikins are blocked for registering on services do not exist here
Nigerians are also not hands on in monitoring and controlling their kids internet access
the ISPS are not rolling out family safe data plans so that you can lock out some services for your kids from source
there is no media specifically tailored towards children, and nigerians do not recognize this is a potential market
just as we looked up to rappers in our childhood, kids today are looking up to davido, wizkid and social media stars

this is just a case that got out because of a foolish woman who tried to change the narrative to rape for reasons only she knows.

these things are playing out in private and public schools
they are also playing out among tween groups
for months we had a family friends 12 year old shaking booty and posing in her whatsapp status. the missis and i could not tell if the parents were aware or not . matters came to a head in a bad way , and now the devices have been seized and sanctions applied

I continue to disagree.

It's an individual family issue and not an epidemic. Society did not cause this. If so all 10 year olds will be on social media carrying on.

I will not join in providing a soft landing for the parents.

PS: I lived in Nigeria for 18 years before leaving and now back for almost 4 years. I know Nigeria very well. Even in my absence I was still involved with Nigeria. I post in default as a Nigerian and from a Nigerian perspective.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by BRATISLAVA: 1:29pm On Apr 22, 2022
cococandy:
It’s the usual way.
Anytime they want to fix society, it almost always inevitably becomes something women aren’t doing right


It's really sickening that Nigerian men cannot take responsibility for their actions. They are men, they say, it's their world, they say, men on top and women are beneath them they say; yet once anything goes wrong their only action is to blame women. Yet another thread from a man who has done nothing, yet expects women to be behind and do everything. If they don't blame women, what else do they live for?

Their mass delusion is real.

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Niwdog(m): 1:44pm On Apr 22, 2022
Levinas:


What is your argument really? People shouldn't criticize juvenile delinquency because it has been happening before? So if a thief is caught red-handed, his defence should be 'why arrest me when others have been stealing before. It is just that you have not caught them? grin
my argument is that, don't make it seem like these present generation is corrupt or that the internet has damaged the society
The world has always been the same just that those who choose to do the right thing or wrong is still there,just that the population is increasing
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Niwdog(m): 1:54pm On Apr 22, 2022
@ UpLoyo
Who said you should normalize it?
The pure truth is that don't make it seem like this immoral acts started today
That I got spoilt at the age of 8 doesn't mean that they weren't righteous guys between my age bracket so it is in this crops of juvenile

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by Contagious100d(m): 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2022
HardMirror:
I understand you sir. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

One chilled 5alive for you ma nigga.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by syntekelite(m): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2022
[quote author=HardMirror post=112139063]1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved
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Everything you said is all from your own one sided knowledge.. there is no justification for your take on ladies who twerk and whatever on social media..the issue you or we should really address is the training both physical,mental,and spiritual that parents should give their children to withstand the world while living in the world...you cant stop oloshoing, runns, yahoo, twerking, bluefilms or porn cams,they are the prerogatives of both the person who chooses to perform such act and those who chose to watch..it has been so from the beginning of time..its the training parents and guardians give to their wards that becomes the armour against such temptations..i personally have lil ones i caught watchin porn at the age of 7-9 with a laptop given to them by their uncle..how i handled the matter is a story for another day..
My point is there will always be vices and peer pressures ,no need for any blame..what matters is solutions , prevention before cure and that falls into the hands of everyone in the society...

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by syntekelite(m): 3:11pm On Apr 22, 2022
HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

Everything you said is all from your own one sided knowledge.. there is no justification for your take on ladies who twerk and whatever on social media..the issue you or we should really address is the training both physical,mental,and spiritual that parents should give their children to withstand the world while living in the world...you cant stop oloshoing, runns, yahoo, twerking, bluefilms or porn cams,they are the prerogatives of both the person who chooses to perform such act and those who chose to watch..it has been so from the beginning of time..its the training parents and guardians give to their wards that becomes the armour against such temptations..i personally have lil ones i caught watchin porn at the age of 7-9 with a laptop given to them by their uncle..how i handled the matter is a story for another day..
My point is there will always be vices and peer pressures ,no need for any blame..what matters is solutions , prevention before cure and that falls into the hands of everyone in the society...

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Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by topboss1: 3:16pm On Apr 22, 2022
cococandy:
It’s the usual way.
Anytime they want to fix society, it almost always inevitably becomes something women aren’t doing right



THE PERSON U ARE QUOTING IS ALSO THE OP AND SEUNOSEWA, THE SAME IDIOT OPERATING UPLOYO/ETHICALLYrlght:.





HE HAS SO MANY ALTERNATE ACCOUNT THAT HE USES TO PUSH OUT SO MANY RUBBISH TO DRIVE TRAFFIC.



HE HAS BLOCKED ALL MY ACCOUNT, THE MAN IS VERY OBSESSED WITH ME.


BUT, HIS MISSION HERE WILL ALWAYS BE EXPOSED AND FAIL.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by ibkonekt(m): 3:16pm On Apr 22, 2022
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by sowilli: 3:23pm On Apr 22, 2022
You think children don’t know the kind of life their parents live. When the Bible said train up your child, it meant you should be the example. A married man has numerous girlfriends, the wife sleeps around also and has no manners and they think they will raise good daughters and son that won’t err..... what you are seeing is the rot in the adult populace. Where do you think a child learns bullying from? From his father oppressing his neighbor. It’s simple, no child has any knowledge or experience. He or she learns it from someone older... we should all check ourselves
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by bobbythegreat(m): 3:35pm On Apr 22, 2022
if to say buhari don pay salary , i for don dash u my april salary.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by credon: 3:44pm On Apr 22, 2022
Government schools are worse, because no one cares to check them
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by topboss1: 3:56pm On Apr 22, 2022
BRATISLAVA AKA SEUNOSEWA, THIS IS 2022, CHECK HOW LONG I HAVE DEALT WITH U ON YOUR OWN SITE EFFECTIVELY.



IF U BAN MONTHS, THEIR IS STILL MONTHS1



IF YOU BAN TOPBOSS, THEIR IS STILL TOPBOSS1.



AND IT GOES...
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by 123papas(m): 5:41pm On Apr 22, 2022
Boys were already combing at JSS. I remember my classmate trying to convince me that touched a girls clit during a smooching session.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by PARADIZEPRIEST: 6:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
YOU YOUTHS OF TODAY ARE GLAMORIZING WAYWARDNESS,
YOU FEED ON VULGAR MUZIK,RITUALISTIC NOLLYWOOD,
YOU RELISH HARD DRUGS LIVING EMPTY LIFE OF ESTASY,
YOU SING MENTALLY DISBURBING SONGS WHILE HYPING THE DEVIL
YOU PRIDE IN RITUAL MONEY,DESPERATE FOR RICHES OVER NIGHT AND LIVING WRECKLESS LIFESTYLE OF GODLESSNESS AS NORM.
YOU ARE MISGUIDED WITH MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND LOST .THAT IS WHERE YOU WENT WRONG,LIVING DEVIOUS AND DIVISIVE LIFE OF VANITY AS SMARTNESS undecided
YOU BETA MAKE A U-TURN AND EMBRACE GOD DEEPLY FOR REFORMATION OF YOUR MINDS AND SPIRITS BEFORE YOU DESTROY YASEF TOTALLY. angryPASS THIS MESSAGE ON ASAP,SAVE SOME SOULS!!!
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Apr 22, 2022
grin Lol that’s not true
topboss1:



THE PERSON U ARE QUOTING IS ALSO THE OP AND SEUNOSEWA, THE SAME IDIOT OPERATING UPLOYO/ETHICALLYrlght:.





HE HAS SO MANY ALTERNATE ACCOUNT THAT HE USES TO PUSH OUT SO MANY RUBBISH TO DRIVE TRAFFIC.



HE HAS BLOCKED ALL MY ACCOUNT, THE MAN IS VERY OBSESSED WITH ME.


BUT, HIS MISSION HERE WILL ALWAYS BE EXPOSED AND FAIL.
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by topboss1: 9:50pm On Apr 22, 2022
cococandy:
grin Lol that’s not true


HE HAS BEEN HIDING POST AND EVIDENCE THAT I POST HERE.


COCOCANDY, I KNOW AND HE KNOWS, DONT SAY I DID NOT WARN YOU.


CLICK ON MY PROFILE AND EXPLAIN WHO TOOK THOSE DOWN SELECTIVELY?
Re: Christland Sex Scandal: Where Did We Go Wrong? What No One Is Talking About by cococandy(f): 9:54pm On Apr 22, 2022
topboss1:



HE HAS BEEN HIDING POST AND EVIDENCE THAT I POST HERE.


COCOCANDY, I KNOW AND HE KNOWS, DONT SAY I DID NOT WARN YOU.


CLICK ON MY PROFILE AND EXPLAIN WHO TOOK THOSE DOWN SELECTIVELY?
I don’t doubt that someone hid your post.
But Bratis is not Seun is not Ethicallyrite

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