As the topic said, please how do I stop this as it's getting unbearable

Grow up first.

Pay your own bills if you don't want disrespect. Until then, stop disturbing us.

Kriss216:
Pay your own bills if you don't want disrespect. Until then, stop disturbing us.

I pay my bills bro, from my clothes to my first phone to even my first laptop, all bought by myself but my junior ones have been disrespecting me because I stay with them at home.

If you can't learn to enjoy the company of your younger ones now, when will you learn it? When you move out? Try to sop looking for respect, it's childish. Try to earn it by loving your younger ones and enjoying their company

Ajay7411:


I pay my bills bro, from my clothes to my first phone to even my first laptop, all bought by myself but my junior ones have been disrespecting me because I stay with them at home.

Buying things for yourself is not paying the bills, pick up a bill from the house and pay.

Ajay7411:


I pay my bills bro, from my clothes to my first phone to even my first laptop, all bought by myself but my junior ones have been disrespecting me because I stay with them at home.

Buy little things you can afford for your bro here and there,it brings respect

Don't be a stingy and good for nothing elder

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Ajay7411:


I pay my bills bro, from my clothes to my first phone to even my first laptop, all bought by myself but my junior ones have been disrespecting me because I stay with them at home.

You are actually the problem not them

Try to understand them and tolerate them to a certain level

You are measuring standards with them and by do doing you failed them for not being a brother

Be calm with them, share what you have with them and talk with respect to them

It's not easy to be a senior you have to be there for them

I believe boogyman557 and slawomirr have something to say

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frozen70:


You are actually the problem not them

Try to understand them and tolerate them to a certain level

You are measuring standards with them and by do doing you failed them for not being a brother

Be calm with them, share what you have with them and talk with respect to them

It's not easy to be a senior you have to be there for them

Thanks for your advice...

But I think it's best to move out.


Because as a young man, I need to experience life.


And I'm not enjoying it here.

Ajay7411:


Thanks for your advice...

But I think it's best to move out.


Because as a young man, I need to experience life.


And I'm not enjoying it here.

It's alright dear

Move out as you have made up your mind and come back as a successful man for them to understand that you have realy arrived

go get your own place. even if na face-me-i-slap-you.

Ajay7411:


Thanks for your advice...

But I think it's best to move out.


Because as a young man, I need to experience life.


And I'm not enjoying it here.

You'd be a very tough person to deal with just like my elder brother.
Seems like you're the first born,most of you guys can be very annoying, bringing almost nothing to the table but go dey find respect up and down. Dude these are your siblings not your friends or slaves.
When you start acting like a reasonable elder brother you'd automatically start getting the respect you deserve. Until then you really need to grow up and embrace your siblings with open heart and be completely free with them. You guys always carrying respect on the head in this part of the world haha

Badadvisor:

You'd be a very tough person to deal with just like my elder brother.
Seems like you're the first born,most of you guys can be very annoying, bringing almost nothing to the table but go dey find respect up and down. Dude these are your siblings not your friends or slaves.
When you start acting like a reasonable elder brother you'd automatically start getting the respect you deserve. Until then you really need to grow up and embrace your siblings with open heart and be completely free with them. You guys always carrying respect on the head in this part of the world haha

I'm getting the respect now, the issue was about money

I'm dropping funds for them now, even though it's not part of my responsibilities

Badadvisor:

You'd be a very tough person to deal with just like my elder brother.
Seems like you're the first born,most of you guys can be very annoying, bringing almost nothing to the table but go dey find respect up and down. Dude these are your siblings not your friends or slaves.
When you start acting like a reasonable elder brother you'd automatically start getting the respect you deserve. Until then you really need to grow up and embrace your siblings with open heart and be completely free with them. You guys always carrying respect on the head in this part of the world haha

This your name sha at least, you no de follow

Move out and get your own place abi them tie you with ropes.

Skyview01:
Move out and get your own place abi them tie you with ropes.

I'm moving out next year boss

I gats put some things in place

P3kdudurq:

Pack out of ur parents home.
Get a job
Get useful.
Mind ur business
U will get respected.
U talk too much.
And u ar too ignorant.
Get back to school.
Read som books

Shut up and get out with your bad grammar.

Bye.

Ajay7411:


I pay my bills bro, from my clothes to my first phone to even my first laptop, all bought by myself but my junior ones have been disrespecting me because I stay with them at home.

Go and rent your own place.