Kholiwe:
Nigga is really trying to compare his broken country to Southy. Your country men are here begging for scraps and looking for jobs like people without a country. List of literacy rate in Africa Southy top 2, Nigeria 34th, list of educated population in Africa Southy top 3, Nigeria nowhere to be found, best universities in Africa Southy has 5 in top 10, Nigeria none. Life expectancy in Africa you are ranked 54th my nigga. Why am I wasting my time dabbling with a well known sexiest.


https://lists.ng/list-of-african-countries-by-literacy-rate/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1321961/adult-literacy-rate-in-africa-by-country/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1218173/life-expectancy-in-african-countries/

raumdeuter:


If you don't say a No how will someone know you object

Without any threat, I ask you give me 5k you gave me. How will I know that your consent means a No

Why are guys held to a higher standard that he should know when a Yes is actually a No.
So the guy would be worried if the Yes was because she was scared of safety, if the Yes was because she was scared of losing him, if the Yes was because she was scared she won't get the money he promised? Or the Yes was because he might not drop her at home in his Bentley?

So how do these guys know when a Yes is an actual Yes and an adult making a decision on what she wants to do at that point? Are men expected to be mind readers

I can understand the saying "No means No". The one I am struggling with is when "Yes actually means No"


One of the popular rhymes in primary school ends with "Do not say Yes when you mean to say No:

Amigoss:


The guy has a point sha...

It makes me remember hundenyin story about burna boy in a nightclub.... The girl said no to burna in front of his boyfriend and things still went violent,imagine her boyfriend and friends were not there,she could have succumbed to burna advances out of fear cos he was with policemen and his cultist looking team..

With all the violence that went down that day,burna bought them off so they would not say anything to the press..

This footballers,musicians,celebrities and highly placed people dey sometimes overdo cos they have money and power

In some cases, consensual can be as a result of coercion...

Emaprince:
Una still dey entertain this attention seeker.

Some one that is rejected and couldnt get any attention in real life from their weak men who fight Nigerians for having the best game that snatches all their women away, is here trying to get attention and una dey oblige her.

In a section full of Nigerian men..her panties is wetting already.

Ignore this girl, people.

Bombblacks:

I used coerce to encompass a variety of situations In which an individual can be alleged to give consent. A girl in the midst of a group of boys in a room can consent to one of them because she fears for her safety if she refuses. In this scenario the boys didn't even do anything and to them she give in willingly but unknown to them just their sheer presence forces her into saying yes. What do you call that? A girl visit a guy and sleeps the night with no intention of sex but then the guys asks for it and like in my earlier example she gives in. They are so many examples and scenarios I can bring up.

donjazzet:


Your posts were very self explanatory. Anybody who read it will immediately understand what you meant.

There are different nonverbal forms of coercion. Some people may have sex without any physical violence but the decision to have that sex didn't come from common ground between the 2.

This place is an overwhelmingly predominantly male dominated space so the toxic masculinity on display is expected with everyone trying to outdo themselves in hyper-masculinity. Except of course when it comes to addressing the ills of a fellow member.

Shegzdave:
Then locate Romanceland where your fellow Ladies are found

raumdeuter:


Are you sure Declan Rice wanted to join Arsenal abi na coercion and threat to his family make am dey sign while smiling and vibing to Odumodu

raumdeuter:


Are you sure Declan Rice wanted to join Arsenal abi na coercion and threat to his family make am dey sign while smiling and vibing to Odumodu

donjazzet:


Your posts were very self explanatory. Anybody who read it will immediately understand what you meant.

There are different nonverbal forms of coercion. Some people may have sex without any physical violence but the decision to have that sex didn't come from common ground between the two.

This place is an overwhelmingly predominantly male dominated space so the toxic masculinity on display is expected with everyone trying to outdo themselves in hyper-masculinity. Except of course when it comes to addressing the ills of a fellow member.

iamoyindamola:
My parents coerced me in being a Nigerian
God knows my consent country was Canada

Jodera:


An average Nigerian parents are guilty of this na.

Most men never intended to be born into this country. Imagine law com dey like that

Jodera:
I just hope that this Consensual Coercion is not in law sha..

I mean, with such law, a man can never win a case when accused.

If there's violent assault and threat... Rape justified

If there's no violent assault, threat and force, then there must be certainly be Consensual Coercion... Rape justified.


Men go just dey pray make one Delilah no get am for mind because ordinary seduction by the female folks can land men in jail for rape case.

izzou:


Oasis, what's your opinion on this?

Especially when he related it with how we spend?

Emaprince:
Those mocking him for his legitimate hustle have somehow put him on the spotlight of favour.

https://www.nairaland.com/7766392/stephen-mouka-eluu-p-signs

OasisX:


I agree with him, our Politicians are indeed heartless, we are simply hoping for lesser evils amongst them to lead us well.

₦70B for less down 500 Nigerians while Millions are expecting to drag 500B?! 150m for just a car when a full grown married man with wife and kids is expected to doing praise and worship for 8k monthly for just 6 months?

PBAT pls ẹ má bo ju mi jẹ́.

KingTom:

I honestly don't even understand people mocking an artisan who fixes gearboxes, do these fools even realize how noble that profession is? Congrats to the young man we might not be on the same side but I would never diss a man who works hard for his money rather than wait for handouts

Kimbeast:

The people who created and designed the Blockchain algorithm works for them. Gone are the days when Bitcoin transaction was untraceable

MorataFC:
Hmmm
https://www.nairaland.com/7766763/tinubu-pept-nullifying-election-over

Ibime:


Every crypto transaction is on the ledger and can be seen, yet there are thousands of unsolved hacks and crimes.

One easy way to hide crypto is get one of your accomplices to send payment to a virgin wallet which you will ever use to transact with any of your other accounts. There is no way in hell anyone will know it's you. Till today they are yet to find Satoshi because he refused to transact.

Another way used to be tornado cash - you send find to tornado cash and it's mixed with so many other little funds that the origin is untraceable.

Another way fraudsters use is stake.com where they wash trade funds - bet on two opposing outcomes eg bet on Lakers win and Lakers lose at the same time making funds harder to trace and I'm sure they would be able to withdraw to a different account on a whole different chain. Therefore their clean account has not interacted with the dirty one and may not even be able to interact, each has only interacted with stake. Below is how one scammer scammed me and my guys of some ETH we thought we were putting into a presale and sent to stake.com to wash trade

Not to mention ICOs where he could have pledged Bitcoin or ETH on private presale and received coins to a different address on a different chain. The truth is the authorities are fighting a losing battle, they can catch some but not all. Woodberry will be stupid to have 1.5k Bitcoin and the ability to get it from multiple accomplices and not have a group of addresses that are clean and untraceable for when kasala burst.

OasisX:


I agree with him, our Politicians are indeed heartless, we are simply hoping for lesser evils amongst them to lead us well.

₦70B for less down 500 Nigerians while Millions are expecting to drag 500B?! 150m for just a car when a full grown married man with wife and kids is expected to doing praise and worship for 8k monthly for just 6 months?

PBAT pls ẹ má bo ju mi jẹ́.