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Making Wise Decisions by yommyuk: 7:12pm On Jul 22, 2011
Modern life is filled with choices. What career, ministries, and hobbies will you pursue? Should you continue your education, and if so, where? What friendships should you invest in? Which charities should you give to? The endless options can be overwhelming. Thankfully, God’s Word provides guidance on how to know His will. Here are four valuable sources for making wise decisions:

THE COUNSEL OF SCRIPTURE

As believers, we already know God’s will for us in most areas of daily life. Why? It is contained in His Word. We don’t have to pray about whether to spread rumors, tell lies, entertain lustful thoughts, or be rude to family members. We know to avoid stealing from our neighbor and cheating. Steering clear of such sins won’t make our lives problem free, but they will enable us to avoid the painful consequences associated with deliberate wrongdoing.

Psalms 119:44-45
I will keep on obeying your instructions forever and ever. I will walk in freedom, for I have devoted myself to your commandments.

Joshua 1:8
Study this book of instruction continually. Mediate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.

When Joshua took Moses’ mantle of leadership, God commanded him to meditate on Scripture.  This included Israel’s foundational law codes as well as God’s moral and spiritual instructions. Likewise a Christian is to think and speak God’s instruction DAY AND NIGHT.

Put this to practice and observe the benefits. I can assure you that the blessing of Psalms 1:2-3 will be yours

But they delight in the law of the Lord, meditating on it day and night. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do.

Let say a big Amen to that brethren!

THE COUNSEL OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

The night before His crucifixion, Jesus told His disciples that He would send the Holy Spirit, the Helper, to comfort them and remind them of His teaching (John 16:7, 13). Through the Spirit, Christ dwells within each born-again believer, speaking to our hearts and guiding us in His will.

John 10:3-4
The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep recognize his voice and come to him. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. After he has gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow him because they know his voice.

Do you believe that you hear the voice of the Lord?  The Spirit of the most high God leads his sheep, he never drives them. When they recognize his voice, they trust his leadership and follow him. Are you willing to trust in God? Do his will and you will never regret it.

God’s direction sometimes contradicts common sense or doesn’t line up with our desires. For instance, Paul wanted to go preach in Asia, but the Holy Spirit forbade him from doing so (Acts 16:6-7).

THE COUNSEL OF WISE FRIENDS AND MENTORS

Spiritually mature friends and mentors can be wonderful resources in decision making. Consult wise believers about major life choices such as choosing a spouse, beginning a new or risky business venture, or moving across the country for a job opportunity.

Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise, associate with fools and get in trouble.

Psalm 1:1 says, “How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked.” Sometimes our friends couldn’t be described as “wicked,” but they aren’t passionate about God, either. How does spending time with lukewarm believers affect a person’s priorities? If you don’t have committed believing friends or mentors in your life right now, what steps could you take to develop such relationships?

While it’s wise to consult other believers, remember that ultimately you are the one responsible for obeying God. In Acts 21:10-14, Paul remained committed to preaching the gospel in Jerusalem, although someone warned him prophetically that he would experience harsh persecution there.

THE COUNSEL OF PEACE

When the Bible is silent on a specific matter, make sure you feel a sense of peace before God regarding your decision. That means that when you are alone in His presence, your conscience is clear. Righteousness and genuine spiritual peace go hand in hand.

For instance, you may know you need to confront someone, but feel apprehensive about it. Fret not. 
Meditate on Proverbs 3:21-23

My Child, don’t lose sight of common sense and discernment. Hang on to them. For they will refresh your soul. They are like jewels on a necklace. They keep you safe on your way, and your feet will not stumble.

Common sense and discernment go hand in hand. They are fruits/tools of wisdom. Use them properly.

2 Timothy 2:22
Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, purse righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.

What are those things that make you step out of line with God. Identify them and make a dash from them. Turn around and do the opposite.
Another way is to associate with mature Christians who fear the Lord. It will keep you in check.

CONCLUSION

Are you wrestling with a particular decision? First, submit to the counsel of God’s Word on the matter. Listen to the Holy Spirit and seek the advice of more mature, committed Christians. Make sure you are at peace with God about it, and then follow through on your decision, confident that you are within the Lord’s will.

God bless wink
Re: Making Wise Decisions by Sweetnecta: 7:23pm On Jul 22, 2011
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tell me whats wise about the decision to say there are 3 person [bad grammar] in 1 God?

@wetu; if you are a woman; this is not directed to you.
if you are a man; chill. let yommyuk answer.

either way; watch how he will run around in circle on a very simple issue.
straight and practical answer will not come from the reader of God is not the Author of confusion book. how non confusing is 3 passing for 1?



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Re: Making Wise Decisions by yommyuk: 7:35pm On Jul 22, 2011
Pls ignore the above ranting spirit cool
Re: Making Wise Decisions by Sweetnecta: 7:40pm On Jul 22, 2011
yommyuk cant answer a simple direct question, he resorted to name calling.

shakara man. we know 1 to be 1. how is 3 equals1, man?
Re: Making Wise Decisions by JeSoul(f): 8:28pm On Jul 22, 2011
Sweetnecta, stop derailing threads now. If you want to discuss trinity open a new thread or else vacate these holy premises asap. That's an order dude cheesy

yommyuk:

Modern life is filled with choices. What career, ministries, and hobbies will you pursue? Should you continue your education, and if so, where? What friendships should you invest in? Which charities should you give to? The endless options can be overwhelming. Thankfully, God’s Word provides guidance on how to know His will. Here are four valuable sources for making wise decisions:

THE COUNSEL OF SCRIPTURE

As believers, we already know God’s will for us in most areas of daily life. Why? It is contained in His Word. We don’t have to pray about whether to spread rumors, tell lies, entertain lustful thoughts, or be rude to family members. We know to avoid stealing from our neighbor and cheating. Steering clear of such sins won’t make our lives problem free, but they will enable us to avoid the painful consequences associated with deliberate wrongdoing.

Psalms 119:44-45
I will keep on obeying your instructions forever and ever. I will walk in freedom, for I have devoted myself to your commandments.

Joshua 1:8
Study this book of instruction continually. Mediate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.

When Joshua took Moses’ mantle of leadership, God commanded him to meditate on Scripture. This included Israel’s foundational law codes as well as God’s moral and spiritual instructions. Likewise a Christian is to think and speak God’s instruction DAY AND NIGHT.

Put this to practice and observe the benefits. I can assure you that the blessing of Psalms 1:2-3 will be yours

But they delight in the law of the Lord, meditating on it day and night. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do.

Let say a big Amen to that brethren!

THE COUNSEL OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

The night before His crucifixion, Jesus told His disciples that He would send the Holy Spirit, the Helper, to comfort them and remind them of His teaching (John 16:7, 13). Through the Spirit, Christ dwells within each born-again believer, speaking to our hearts and guiding us in His will.

John 10:3-4
The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep recognize his voice and come to him. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. After he has gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow him because they know his voice.

Do you believe that you hear the voice of the Lord? The Spirit of the most high God leads his sheep, he never drives them. When they recognize his voice, they trust his leadership and follow him. Are you willing to trust in God? Do his will and you will never regret it.

God’s direction sometimes contradicts common sense or doesn’t line up with our desires. For instance, Paul wanted to go preach in Asia, but the Holy Spirit forbade him from doing so (Acts 16:6-7).

THE COUNSEL OF WISE FRIENDS AND MENTORS

Spiritually mature friends and mentors can be wonderful resources in decision making. Consult wise believers about major life choices such as choosing a spouse, beginning a new or risky business venture, or moving across the country for a job opportunity.

Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise, associate with fools and get in trouble.

Psalm 1:1 says, “How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked.” Sometimes our friends couldn’t be described as “wicked,” but they aren’t passionate about God, either. How does spending time with lukewarm believers affect a person’s priorities? If you don’t have committed believing friends or mentors in your life right now, what steps could you take to develop such relationships?

While it’s wise to consult other believers, remember that ultimately you are the one responsible for obeying God. In Acts 21:10-14, Paul remained committed to preaching the gospel in Jerusalem, although someone warned him prophetically that he would experience harsh persecution there.

THE COUNSEL OF PEACE

When the Bible is silent on a specific matter, make sure you feel a sense of peace before God regarding your decision. That means that when you are alone in His presence, your conscience is clear. Righteousness and genuine spiritual peace go hand in hand.

For instance, you may know you need to confront someone, but feel apprehensive about it. Fret not.
Meditate on Proverbs 3:21-23

My Child, don’t lose sight of common sense and discernment. Hang on to them. For they will refresh your soul. They are like jewels on a necklace. They keep you safe on your way, and your feet will not stumble.

Common sense and discernment go hand in hand. They are fruits/tools of wisdom. Use them properly.

2 Timothy 2:22
Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, purse righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.

What are those things that make you step out of line with God. Identify them and make a dash from them. Turn around and do the opposite.
Another way is to associate with mature Christians who fear the Lord. It will keep you in check.

CONCLUSION

Are you wrestling with a particular decision? First, submit to the counsel of God’s Word on the matter. Listen to the Holy Spirit and seek the advice of more mature, committed Christians. Make sure you are at peace with God about it, and then follow through on your decision, confident that you are within the Lord’s will.

God bless wink

May the God of heaven and earth, full of mercy and love bless and reward you for this post. I love it! Thanks for sharing my brother.
Re: Making Wise Decisions by Sweetnecta: 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2011
@JeSoul; « #4 on: Today at 08:28:46 PM »
[Quote] Sweetnecta, stop derailing threads now. If you want to discuss trinity open a new thread or else vacate these holy premises asap. That's an order dude Cheesy[/Quote]very cheesy indeed. you know your order is empty order.

you know its hard to order a man around [woman], a married woman should know that. thats a fact.

abeg woman, stop helping this dude spread weak lies when he can't defend the big lies of three gods for One God. what decision, what wisdom is in 1, 2 , 3 to be 1?
Re: Making Wise Decisions by nuclearboy(m): 9:37pm On Jul 22, 2011
@Yommyuk:

Nice, very very nice BUT wouldn't the counsel of Scripture be same as that of the Holy Spirit?
Re: Making Wise Decisions by yommyuk: 10:39pm On Jul 22, 2011
nuclearboy:

@Yommyuk:

Nice, very very nice BUT wouldn't the counsel of Scripture be same as that of the Holy Spirit?



They are inter-related.
The counsel of Scripture is about taking reference from the Word of God and applying it to your situation. While the counsel of the Holy Spirit about taking “relevant” reference from the word of God and applying it to your situation.
The difference is the word “relevant”.
Example
John the Baptist choose the speak the truth about King Herod illicit relationship and got beheaded for it. Was he led by the Spirit to speak up?
Another good example is the Good Samaritan.

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