I wouldn't blame him that much people always takes him as the eldest when we walk together even though am older than him with 3years when we were kids... we use to fight then alot and I'm ashamed to say he does overpower me sometimes but always gets scolded by our parent's. fast forward to now he still does same act, challenge me at any giving time.. what happened yesterday evening made me ask God why was I created this way, because I know if I was someone who had strength he wouldn't have dared to say those awful words to me.
I hate it everytime people stand to defend me just because my younger brother is abusing me always.. it's so painful and i wish theys something I can do for myself.

. Sorry bro but if you have money like that midget El Rufai they will start respecting you

You can relocate far away from him

Just have to learn how to class yourself.

Fahdiga:
. Sorry bro but if you have money like that midget El Rufai they will start respecting you

There are things money cannot do.

To earn someones respect begins with how you carry yourself around them

Totilopussylick:


There are things money cannot do.

To earn someones respect begins with how you carry yourself around them

So true

Hustle up and be more responsible. He'll always have reservations for you. Thank you

Lol.

What are your ages?

I won't be surprised if it is his refusal to always put you on a pedestal that has always been the main cause of his supposed disrespect towards you - check well - because most Nigerians have a poor concept of respect and love. To you lots, being always put on a pedestal equates to being respected or loved, which is balderdash. And that, by extension, is one of the reasons most people have frenemies than they can realistically imagine among family members, friends, companions, etc.

You lots that always expect and appreciate others putting you on a pedestal, and vice versa, always prompt them to be showing you the false good side of themselves, something a maverick can't be caught doing. I guess your little brother might be a fellow maverick.

In summary, eschew the mentality of having your brother putting you on a pedestal under any guise and strive to be conscientious always; then, compare your relationship with him after two-three months of going through this route. If nothing changes for good after this period, it means that your brother isn't healthy.

Your brother is not wise. Why should your height or stature determine whether he should respect you or not.

My younger brother is four years my junior, taller than me, and more financially stable, yet he calls me 'Aunty' and gives me maximum respect that is due me. There is nothing I cannot do for my brother and he knows it. I love him so much and we have a beautiful sibling relationship.

Me, I don't know what to advice you on this case except to pray about it, then let him be. Stop joining issues with him, stop arguing or quarrelling or insisting on respect with him. Do your duties as his elder sibling, and show him love. Have conversations with him, but don't let it turn to quarrel or power tussle.I believe with time, your relationship with him will improve.

Just have money
Leave the rest...

The smally no wise. Just ignore him.. Small stature has its own advantage. So,no regret anything.. Try dey excercise, so that you go get stamina.But I no say make you go dey fight o..

Ruby458:
Your brother is not wise. Why should your height or stature determine whether he should respect you or not.

My younger brother is four years my junior, taller than me, and more financially stable, yet he calls me 'Aunty' and gives me maximum respect that is due me. There is nothing I cannot do for my brother and he knows it. I love him so much and we have a beautiful sibling relationship.

Me, I don't know what to advice you on this case except to pray about it, then let him be. Stop joining issues with him, stop arguing or quarrelling or insisting on respect with him. Do your duties as his elder sibling, and show him love. Have conversations with him, but don't let it turn to quarrel or power tussle.I believe with time, your relationship with him will improve.

did you say Pray?

Bluish44:
did you say Pray?

Yes o, he needs to pray for wisdom to do the right thing, and to handle the issue wisely. If two of them continue like this, it can turn to something else in the future.

Me, I pray about everything no matter how small, that's why I believe he should pray about it.

Bluish44:
did you say Pray?

When I saw the pray, I was shocked.