QUIZ: The husband has N2million while his wife has N4million, who pays the rent of N1.5million


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Husband of course.... very simply

There is a deduction from the husband account...

2000,000 + 1500,000=3,500,000
After the deduction it remains 2000,000 in his account....

Husband will be left with N500K.

fabinfos:
QUIZ: The husband has N2million while his wife has N4million, who pays the rent of N1.5million
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▪︎If huband is head of household/African husband, then he would to be responsible for all financial burdens just as the title he wears stipulates.
▪︎ However, if the marriage is born of a partnership, then the couple can compute the right ratio by which they share the bills based on whatever reasons they come up with.

It depends on the level of communication between them.
If the husband is an abusive, irresponsible husband that's always domineering, his wife will pay.

If the husband is a 'simp', he will pay and incur debts trying to please his wife.

If the two of them have mutual relationship, they will consider their present and future expenses and pool their resources together to settle their debts.

They won't be more concern about who pays or who does not. The most important thing in mariage is communication.

Through communication, all things are possible.

Kobojunkie:
▪︎If huband is head of household/African husband, then he would to be responsible for all financial burdens just as the title he wears stipulates.
▪︎ However, if the marriage is born of a partnership, then the couple can compute the right ratio by which they share the bills based on whatever reasons they come up with.

If husband pays the rent what will be left for the family to depend on if the wife don't show support

In marriage both becomes one and not two again so responsibilities ought to to be carried by both partners and not just one person in the name of husband alone.

Lamasta:
1. If husband pays the rent what will be left for the family to depend on if the wife don't show support

2. In marriage both becomes one and not two again so responsibilities ought to to be carried by both partners and not just one person in the name of husband alone.

1. Again, if the man wants to play "Head of Family/African husband", then it is his cross to bear. Simple as that!

2. Marriage is defined as an agreement between a man and a woman. So it is that agreement that defines how the two can become one. In the typical submission type marriage, a Master/Slave union, the man, who occupies the role of Master in this kind of union, reasonably shoulders much of the financial burden and rightly so..

My own be, why are they renting a N1.5m house?

They should add the money together and build a house

Mkelv0106:
They should add the money together and build a house

common sense no go kill you.

But assuming their rent were due where would they stay and build the house?

They have multiple options. I will highlight 2 here.

Option 1:
Combine the money into a single joint account. That way the family has N6 million and they still have N4.5 million after paying N1.5 million rent

Option 2:
They pay according to a percentage.
The total money they have is 2million + 4 million = 6 million. 2million is 33.3% of 6million while 4 million is 66.7% of 6 million. This should be the sharing formula for bills.

Using this method, the man can pay N500K while the woman pays N1.5million

I recommend option 1. If the woman can’t help the man with bills, I recommend she doesn’t marry him. Instead look for a richer man who can take care of 100% of her bills.

Exmilitant:
common sense no go kill you.

But assuming their rent were due where would they stay and build the house?

Lol
If it's due, they'll get quit notice from the landlord, which will give them a 6 months period, that is enough time to build d houz. Anywhere money stop, they move in like that, and complete it small small

fabinfos:
QUIZ: The husband has N2million while his wife has N4million, who pays the rent of N1.5million


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If they are living peaceful and they are happy with themselves

They can do the following

Husband should pay house rent from that money

Then start looking for a land to buy and the name on the land will be Mr - - - and mrs---

Then the wife will be given the landed documents to keep for safety

Since her salary is bigger, she will contribute more to the building and when completed, they pack into the apartment as a family

The reason why the wife should hold the documents are

First, Because she will be contributing over 80% of her salary while the husband bought the land with his money

Secondly, incase the man decides to leave his marriage and go to another woman, she and the children will have the building as she can't be a looser at both ends, after all the children belongs to him and both of them

Third reason is that, the money that went into the building will definitely be bigger than the cost of land considering the higher price of building materials

How does it make any sense to share private parts together , exchange saliva, sleep together, eat together, do almost everything together but your money is not together? As a family your money should be together and bills and needs to be addressed together. If you are not ready for this then remain single.

addictiv:
How does it make any sense to share private parts together , exchange saliva, sleep together, eat together, do almost everything together but your money is not together? As a family your money should be together and bills and needs to be addressed together. If you are not ready for this then remain single.

I like the fanciful use of the word Share there.

Let me ask this of you. Does it make sense to share financial burdens while one person is relegated to Slave-status in the union?

Kobojunkie:
I like the fanciful use of the word Share there.

Let me ask this of you. Does it make sense to share financial burdens while one person is relegated to Slave-status in the union?

Why will someone want to be in relationship where they are treated as slaves? The purpose of a relationship is to share everything with each other, there is nothing fanciful about that.

addictiv:
Why will someone want to be in relationship where they are treated as slaves? The purpose of a relationship is to share everything with each other, there is nothing fanciful about that.

Well, the predominant bonding type in relationships, even between Parents and their children, in a place like Nigeria, happens to be that of submission- a Master/Slave bond - so?

Kobojunkie:
Well, the predominant bonding type in relationships, even between Parents and their children, in a place like Nigeria, happens to be that of submission- a Master/Slave bond - so?

Well this thread isn't about submission or parent/child relationships, if you want to have a conversation about submission, open a thread let's talk about it.
In Nigeria today its very difficult to force someone into a relationship or marriage and there are laws with serious consequences for anyone who tries to force anybody into something they don't want. So almost everyone has and exercises their right to make a choice to a great degree. If you are treated poorly in a workplace, you have the choice to leave. If you are treated poorly in a relationship, you have the option to leave, in a marriage, you can divorce. If you choose to remain where you are treated like a slave then endure the suffering because nobody will rescue you if you don't want to rescue yourself.

That being said, a relationship where a woman earns twice her man and yet expects him to bear the entire cost of upkeep which is almost greater than his earnings is absolutely unreasonable and unacceptable. If your argument is that if she's treated like a slave she shouldn't contribute her finances, I'd completely agree with you. Then again someone being treated like a slave will not be given the opportunity to earn more than her master because it would put the master at a great disadvantage. So obviously in this case she's not a treated as a slave and proof of that is she makes more money than him. And in most cases the person with more money has more power and influences the direction of the relationship.

addictiv:
1. Well this thread isn't about submission or parent/child relationships, if you want to have a conversation about submission, open a thread let's talk about it.

2. In Nigeria today its very difficult to force someone into a relationship or marriage and there are laws with serious consequences for anyone who tries to force anybody into something they don't want. So almost everyone has and exercises their right to make a choice to a great degree. If you are treated poorly in a workplace, you have the choice to leave. If you are treated poorly in a relationship, you have the option to leave, in a marriage, you can divorce. If you choose to remain where you are treated like a slave then endure the suffering because nobody will rescue you if you don't want to rescue yourself.

3. That being said, a relationship where a woman earns twice her man and yet expects him to bear the entire cost of upkeep which is almost greater than his earnings is absolutely unreasonable and unacceptable . If your argument is that if she's treated like a slave she shouldn't contribute her finances, I'd completely agree with you. Then again someone being treated like a slave will not be given the opportunity to earn more than her master because it would put the master at a great disadvantage. So obviously in this case she's not a treated as a slave and proof of that is she makes more money than him. And in most cases the person with more money has more power and influences the direction of the relationship.

1. You are right that it isn't about submission but the response to questions asked depends on the dynamics of the relationship between husband and wife..

2. Indeed, it is a matter of choice.

3. I give you evidence A - the Osinachi case. She earned more than her husband yet she was in what amounted to a submissive, and equally abusive relationship with him.

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