MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Dude you're talking rubbish. You sound like a bitch. There's one captain on a ship shekina. How come the Latinos and other families still understand this principle in marriage. How come their men still run their families EVEN AS FACTORY WORKERS AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS. Is their culture backwards too or ? Ofcos we all know their marriage rates and nuclear family are still miles ahead of blacks. The truth is our girls go abroad and decide to emulate the ratched black community. They wanna ve like black America.

This partnership bs doesn't work ANYWHERE. sadly if the woman becomes the leader she still throws you out.
Your self defense approach is only practical in comics as the man would have to get every video evidence during a scuffle. If he deals her a fatal blow when she rushes to pick up a knife( as that's the number one blackmail weapon they use) he goes to jail.
The truth is .... that message of doing what makes you happy by feminists ... is the most toxic destructive message. Marriage isn't happiness ... its duty to family. Look at where our community is... there is a reason why the nigerians that go abroad succeed.. then when they have kids... the kids become exactly like the black Americans. You know why ? Cos most of their mothers have kicked their husband's out and raised them as single mothers like their role model black American queens. We know how that ends

Not to defend anyone but some men can drive a woman crazy. Forget climes, imagine a grown human being whose only job is to take a bath and dress himself..

Will wait for the wife on all chores, every single thing and still expect to be served his meals...

Nurses have one of the stringent work hours and ethics in the US. If u now marry a child Na God go help you. Imagine that many hours take the train back home and someone still expects a hot meal.... Personally would prefer to be single..


And which house, she probably pays more on the mortgage. He has more free time, but would be surprised how men can form busy..


Make we just de reason am. Cos if the man be the nurse, he fit no let him wife work just to serve him...


Make we de reason am sha. Marriage is a partnership requiring concession and a lot of assistance.


The funny thing is if Nigerian men marry white nurse, Na these men de tie apron pass.

RaptorX:
Only weak pussy ass men still marry in this Western countries. The satanic globalists started the experiment with the African Americans in the 80's, now they have 80% out of wedlock birth, no father's in the house to instill discipline, most of their children are running wild on the streets commiting crimes and killing each other rotating in and out of prison.

When they saw it was successful now they have tried to implement it to other races especially the Caucasians, but men over there are now refusing to marry again because of the horrible anti man laws, they have all swallowed the red pill. Once they achieve their objective of total destruction of the family structure, all this rights they gave women will be quickly taken away, because it is not about women but a larger and bigger agenda of population control.

You are partly correct.

But the reason for high rate of children born out of wedlock among African Americans is not becos of anti men marriage laws but rather a black culture that promote promiscuity and welfare dependance on government.

If you understand very well, the globalist plan and agenda you would understand that the Caucasians are the greatest enemy and target.

U have time to argue with ignorant people who don't have any experience living abroad

MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Save ur strength,they don't know Jack about American judges and law. They're just inter State Nigerians with television airports. I know some crazy US judges that don't give a damnn about gender

MrBrownJay1:


all you people who never set foot outside Africa, (let alone the US), and/or ever dealt with the US law on domestic violence, should stop writing nonsense online.

Just say you want a slave and shut up.

Who in their right mind wants an unhappy wife/husband?
Her duty is to be your slave and not your partner? Sounds so corny

revolt:
Dude you're talking rubbish. You sound like a bitch. There's one captain on a ship shekina. How come the Latinos and other families still understand this principle in marriage. How come their men still run their families EVEN AS FACTORY WORKERS AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS. Is their culture backwards too or ? Ofcos we all know their marriage rates and nuclear family are still miles ahead of blacks. The truth is our girls go abroad and decide to emulate the ratched black community. They wanna ve like black America.

This partnership bs doesn't work ANYWHERE. sadly if the woman becomes the leader she still throws you out.
Your self defense approach is only practical in comics as the man would have to get every video evidence during a scuffle. If he deals her a fatal blow when she rushes to pick up a knife( as that's the number one blackmail weapon they use) he goes to jail.
The truth is .... that message of doing what makes you happy by feminists ... is the most toxic destructive message. Marriage isn't happiness ... its duty to family. Look at where our community is... there is a reason why the nigerians that go abroad succeed.. then when they have kids... the kids become exactly like the black Americans. You know why ? Cos most of their mothers have kicked their husband's out and raised them as single mothers like their role model black American queens. We know how that ends

Most nairalanders are xtupid. They talk so much BS with so much authority. Don’t even bother trying to make sense to them because it’s futile.

They stand strongly by their nonsense too.
It’s amusing and sometimes frustrating to see how so many people can believe nonsense all at once. Not a shared brain cell amongst all of them.

You have tried. Just ignore them

MrBrownJay1:


what law in the US says that your wife can throw you out for no damn reason and make you sleep outside?
stop writing rubbish online!



stop putting the carriage before the horse.... the man broke no law therefore his wife has NO VALID reason to ask him to sleep outside his own home.
stop writing rubbish online!



nobody awarded her the house... thus she has no right to ask him to sleep outside!
stop writing rubbish online!



fair enough, but remember that your kids will learn from your actions...and therefore you must ask yourself: is the the kind of value you wanna teach them. to let yeye people walk all over you because they suddenly lost their goddamn mind?!?



you sir dont know shiit about the world.... get out of Nigeria and live a little, then you will understand that its very easy to film a yeye woman who suddenly lost her goddamn mind! any woman who claims ANYTHING must bring proof to her accusations. if you believe that a woman can claim whatever nonsense and the law just accept it, then you sir are more daft than you sound. it will be YOUR words against HERS...and if you have marks over your body and she has none over hers, then they will believe YOU before her, duh!



you people dont know shiiit about US laws, and are just writing arrant nonsense online!!!!.... no woman can throw her husband out his own house, unless a court orders it, NONE!
stop writing rubbish online!




only a court can ask you to leave your own house....no woman has that power to throw you out your own house, for no damn reason, just because she says so!
stop writing rubbish online!



beating her will surely get him in jail... why would a man do such a foolish thing?! the only way he can beat her is if she attacks him first and he has to defend himself.



just because the aw favours women, doesnt mean a woman can throw you out your own house with no valid reason whatsoever. only a court order can ask you to leave your own house, and certainly not a yeye woman who lost her damn mind.



no cop has the right to escort you out your own house, just because your wife wants you out... there needs to be proof of domestic violence from your part before they would take you to jail.... without a court order, they have NO VALID REASON to ask you to leave your own house.
now, if your wife has a black eye and marks that you beat the hell out of her, then you aint leaving that house, you are GOING TO JAIL...and thats a different matter.... but no wife can get up one morning and decide that you must get out, and police will say you need to go, NONE!!!



what does the above got to do with anything?! unless there is proof of domestic violence, and/or a court order to get you out the house, how is she gonna get you out? by showing her blue eyes or what? what will she even tell the cops in order for them to remotely think of removing you from your own house?!?!? you people are just daft!!!!



i do feel sorry for people like you who know nothing about the west, yet write arrant nonsense online! straight to jail because some yeye woman wants you out and he doesnt want to leave his own house, bwaaaaaaaah! you guys must be comedians!



you are the ignorant one here , who obviously dont know anything abouy US laws, writing arrant nonsense online. a woman has NO RIGHT to demand that you leave your own house, for no damn reason...and even if she has a valid reason, she needs a court order to get you out.
you people should use your damn brain abeg!!!! so you actually believe that a woman gets up today, says you must go sleep in the street (for no damn reason), and the law will agree with her and throw you out your own house?!?!?!?

HERE IS A SIMPLE QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YEYE BRAINLESS IGNORAMUS why is there domestic violence shelters all over the US, if a wife could just call the cops and get her husband out his own house?!?!?!

RaptorX:
Only weak pussy ass men still marry in this Western countries. The satanic globalists started the experiment with the African Americans in the 80's, now they have 80% out of wedlock birth, no father's in the house to instill discipline, most of their children are running wild on the streets commiting crimes and killing each other rotating in and out of prison.

When they saw it was successful now they have tried to implement it to other races especially the Caucasians, but men over there are now refusing to marry again because of the horrible anti man laws, they have all swallowed the red pill. Once they achieve their objective of total destruction of the family structure, all this rights they gave women will be quickly taken away, because it is not about women but a larger and bigger agenda of population control.

You are too much.

I am so glad when I come across knowledgeable posts like this.

BlueAir:
Save ur strength,they don't know Jack about American judges and law. They're just inter State Nigerians with television airports. I know some crazy US judges that don't give a damnn about gender

Judge Judy for one.

Dshocker:


I believe you went to school and should be able to comprehend the meaning of "assumption"

when you are using the word assume in a public space like nairaland and knowing the mentality of your audience, in this case, Nigerians (a people whose ignorant majority still think when an actor dies in a nollywood film, he is dead in real life) - you chose your words carefully. You have no idea what an ignorant person reading your post will think of his relative who has spent 20 years in America - that Uncle or Aunty New York has access to $10m and he has refused to build a house for us here in Nigeria - know your audience, and even if you are assuming - $10m is too much to assume with - it's like you want to tell a story and you are saying your poor neighbor should assume he is Dangote, no matter how honest your intentions are as regards the motive of telling that story, your neighbor will never relate to it, because it is absurd, but when you tell him, assuming you are Baba Landlord, what will you do? he may understand... thank you!

MrBrownJay1:


what law in the US says that your wife can throw you out for no damn reason and make you sleep outside?
stop writing rubbish online!



stop putting the carriage before the horse.... the man broke no law therefore his wife has NO VALID reason to ask him to sleep outside his own home.
stop writing rubbish online!



nobody awarded her the house... thus she has no right to ask him to sleep outside!
stop writing rubbish online!



fair enough, but remember that your kids will learn from your actions...and therefore you must ask yourself: is the the kind of value you wanna teach them. to let yeye people walk all over you because they suddenly lost their goddamn mind?!?



you sir dont know shiit about the world.... get out of Nigeria and live a little, then you will understand that its very easy to film a yeye woman who suddenly lost her goddamn mind! any woman who claims ANYTHING must bring proof to her accusations. if you believe that a woman can claim whatever nonsense and the law just accept it, then you sir are more daft than you sound. it will be YOUR words against HERS...and if you have marks over your body and she has none over hers, then they will believe YOU before her, duh!



you people dont know shiiit about US laws, and are just writing arrant nonsense online!!!!.... no woman can throw her husband out his own house, unless a court orders it, NONE!
stop writing rubbish online!




only a court can ask you to leave your own house....no woman has that power to throw you out your own house, for no damn reason, just because she says so!
stop writing rubbish online!



beating her will surely get him in jail... why would a man do such a foolish thing?! the only way he can beat her is if she attacks him first and he has to defend himself.



just because the aw favours women, doesnt mean a woman can throw you out your own house with no valid reason whatsoever. only a court order can ask you to leave your own house, and certainly not a yeye woman who lost her damn mind.



no cop has the right to escort you out your own house, just because your wife wants you out... there needs to be proof of domestic violence from your part before they would take you to jail.... without a court order, they have NO VALID REASON to ask you to leave your own house.
now, if your wife has a black eye and marks that you beat the hell out of her, then you aint leaving that house, you are GOING TO JAIL...and thats a different matter.... but no wife can get up one morning and decide that you must get out, and police will say you need to go, NONE!!!



what does the above got to do with anything?! unless there is proof of domestic violence, and/or a court order to get you out the house, how is she gonna get you out? by showing her blue eyes or what? what will she even tell the cops in order for them to remotely think of removing you from your own house?!?!? you people are just daft!!!!



i do feel sorry for people like you who know nothing about the west, yet write arrant nonsense online! straight to jail because some yeye woman wants you out and he doesnt want to leave his own house, bwaaaaaaaah! you guys must be comedians!



you are the ignorant one here , who obviously dont know anything abouy US laws, writing arrant nonsense online. a woman has NO RIGHT to demand that you leave your own house, for no damn reason...and even if she has a valid reason, she needs a court order to get you out.
you people should use your damn brain abeg!!!! so you actually believe that a woman gets up today, says you must go sleep in the street (for no damn reason), and the law will agree with her and throw you out your own house?!?!?!?

HERE IS A SIMPLE QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YEYE BRAINLESS IGNORAMUS why is there domestic violence shelters all over the US, if a wife could just call the cops and get her husband out his own house?!?!?!

From your mad perspective and deluded response, I strongly believe you must have been a victim or you are seriously sick. In your stupid mind, you didn't reason that before he is thrown out that the woman must have given the authority true or false facts to effect the eviction and if their are kids in the house, the man must leave the house pending when the case is settled or fully investigated. The oyibo priority is the safety of the kids which I did capture in my first response. Olodo feeling intelligent abi funky.make e no be say na Malawi you dey,dey type this rubbish.

Ckonnet:
From your mad perspective and deluded response, I strongly believe you must have been a victim or you are seriously sick. In your stupid mind, you didn't reason that before he is thrown out that the woman must have given the authority true or false facts to effect the eviction and if their are kids in the house, the man must leave the house pending when the case is settled or fully investigated. The oyibo priority is the safety of the kids which I did capture in my first response. Olodo feeling intelligent abi funky.make e no be say na Malawi you dey,dey type this rubbish.

if the above is remotely what happened then there will be a COURT ORDER in this effect, thus this issue would be closed. stop writing yeye assumptions online, you ignoramus!

SKIBiNSKI:
Yes, he would be bundled out at that time to avoid more risks of harm to either of them.

Yes, a tenant can do that to a landlord but eventually the tenant must leave, when the case has gone through the courts and baillifs involved, tenant cannot take over landlord's house it is not their house.


In family courts man don't always takes last, man has rights also, both parties gets what they deserve.

You've agreed with everything I've said, so what's the new point in your argument?

What a disaster.

Yankee101:


You've agreed with everything I've said, so what's the new point in your argument?

you were insinuating that the wife would take the house, or that tenants can take landlord's house. The husband would lose his house to his wife or landlord would lose his house to tenant.


As i said, courts would ussually decide and all parties gets what they deserve, all parties has rights.

SKIBiNSKI:
you were insinuating that the wife would take the house, or that tenants can take landlord's house. The husband would lose his house to his wife or landlord would lose his house to tenant.


As i said, courts would ussually decide and all parties gets what they deserve, all parties has rights.

The wife will (not can) get the house

And stop insinuating what I didn’t say. I said a tenant can stay for 6months without paying. I don’t see how that equates to taking the house

fredpaul:


That is not completely true, if i live in America for 20 years and buy a house of $10m, then get married, nobody touches my $10m house. we will only calculate assets i have acquired since we got married, and its a two way calculation. If after we get married and i stopped earning and my wife goes ahead to buy a $10m house, i still get half of her property. That's why you should never marry someone with less earning capacity as yours, cos you will end up shooting your self on the foot once divorce starts.

You dey use American law dey play

cococandy:
Just say you want a slave and shut up.

Who in their right mind wants an unhappy wife/husband?
Her duty is to be your slave and not your partner? Sounds so corny

Dumb ass .. how about the man carrying the whole load and responsibility of the home. You bitches want to eat ur cake n hve it. You want all the benefits but no responsibility. It's cool when the man breaks his back... its his duty but when it's yours ... it how you feel...

MrBrownJay1:


what law in the US says that your wife can throw you out for no damn reason and make you sleep outside?
stop writing rubbish online!



stop putting the carriage before the horse.... the man broke no law therefore his wife has NO VALID reason to ask him to sleep outside his own home.
stop writing rubbish online!



nobody awarded her the house... thus she has no right to ask him to sleep outside!
stop writing rubbish online!



fair enough, but remember that your kids will learn from your actions...and therefore you must ask yourself: is the the kind of value you wanna teach them. to let yeye people walk all over you because they suddenly lost their goddamn mind?!?



you sir dont know shiit about the world.... get out of Nigeria and live a little, then you will understand that its very easy to film a yeye woman who suddenly lost her goddamn mind! any woman who claims ANYTHING must bring proof to her accusations. if you believe that a woman can claim whatever nonsense and the law just accept it, then you sir are more daft than you sound. it will be YOUR words against HERS...and if you have marks over your body and she has none over hers, then they will believe YOU before her, duh!



you people dont know shiiit about US laws, and are just writing arrant nonsense online!!!!.... no woman can throw her husband out his own house, unless a court orders it, NONE!
stop writing rubbish online!




only a court can ask you to leave your own house....no woman has that power to throw you out your own house, for no damn reason, just because she says so!
stop writing rubbish online!



beating her will surely get him in jail... why would a man do such a foolish thing?! the only way he can beat her is if she attacks him first and he has to defend himself.



just because the aw favours women, doesnt mean a woman can throw you out your own house with no valid reason whatsoever. only a court order can ask you to leave your own house, and certainly not a yeye woman who lost her damn mind.



no cop has the right to escort you out your own house, just because your wife wants you out... there needs to be proof of domestic violence from your part before they would take you to jail.... without a court order, they have NO VALID REASON to ask you to leave your own house.
now, if your wife has a black eye and marks that you beat the hell out of her, then you aint leaving that house, you are GOING TO JAIL...and thats a different matter.... but no wife can get up one morning and decide that you must get out, and police will say you need to go, NONE!!!



what does the above got to do with anything?! unless there is proof of domestic violence, and/or a court order to get you out the house, how is she gonna get you out? by showing her blue eyes or what? what will she even tell the cops in order for them to remotely think of removing you from your own house?!?!? you people are just daft!!!!



i do feel sorry for people like you who know nothing about the west, yet write arrant nonsense online! straight to jail because some yeye woman wants you out and he doesnt want to leave his own house, bwaaaaaaaah! you guys must be comedians!



you are the ignorant one here , who obviously dont know anything abouy US laws, writing arrant nonsense online. a woman has NO RIGHT to demand that you leave your own house, for no damn reason...and even if she has a valid reason, she needs a court order to get you out.
you people should use your damn brain abeg!!!! so you actually believe that a woman gets up today, says you must go sleep in the street (for no damn reason), and the law will agree with her and throw you out your own house?!?!?!?

HERE IS A SIMPLE QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YEYE BRAINLESS IGNORAMUS why is there domestic violence shelters all over the US, if a wife could just call the cops and get her husband out his own house?!?!?!

go home homo

MrBrownJay1:


if the above is remotely what happened then there will be a COURT ORDER in this effect, thus this issue would be closed. stop writing yeye assumptions online, you ignoramus!

Oyibo police don't need court order to effect such eviction if their are kids around, I dont even why iam wasting my time with a block head, not quite long ago, a video was circulated here about the same issue in the uk and this guy was even begging to wear his clothes.

Ckonnet:
Oyibo police don't need court order to effect such eviction if their are kids around, I dont even why iam wasting my time with a block head, not quite long ago, a video was circulated here about the same issue in the uk and this guy was even begging to wear his clothes.

again, STOP WRITNG RUBBISH ONLINE....the cops cannot throw you out your own house, just because thats what your yeye wife wants. if you committed a crime to which their life is in immediate danger, then yes they will take you to jail....but they certainly wont ask you to leave the house, just because thats the desire of your yeye wife.

furthermore A) dont confuse UK laws with US laws and B) dont confuse a court ordered eviction with some yeye wife deciding that she doesnt want you around her no more.

HERE IS A DAMN CLUE: if we cant even easily evict squatters from our own homes, why do you foolishly think it will be easy to evict a house owner (who did no crime) from his own house?!!? you yeye people need to travel and discover the world a little, intsead of living off yeye fables from your imaginations!

Yankee101:


Obviously you haven’t travelled

MrBrownJay1 hasn't travelled?

Man has been to almost all the four corners of the earth. He's well-known globetrotter on Nairaland.

The law is good. It protect the mother and children.
But not that all his investment on the house is lost o.
He can go to court.