Ahmed0336:
Let him rent a room self-contained if he can and be visiting time to time until he is able to put himself together.

With all those characters she's been exhibiting, living with her would be hell and might result to early death.

If he moves in with that woman, he will commit suicide in less than 6 months due to every second humiliation by the Jezebel

advanceDNA:



Lol....thank God it's Friday...having a relaxing evening is always the aim....

As in ehn, see, I just want to take joy in all God has done for me and be thankful.



Have a great weekend.

Axis313:
As it happened in my neighborhood,a family friend.This man has a family his wife and children,he and his wife had a well paying job,and the husband is taking a very good care of the family,a very good husband and a caring father,but along the line he lost his job.
Now,all the responsibilities fell on the laps of the wife,feeding,house rent,children school fees and others.
A little time after the husband lost his job,the wife's attitude change dramatically towards the husband,but the man keep enduring everything,including all the insult and abusive words being hurl at him by the wife.Please note that the man didn't sit idly,he is trying his best to secure a job but all to no avail,but he is doing some odd jobs,so as not to be staying at home all the time and not to be asking everything from his wife.
Now,after nearly two years after the husband lost his job,the woman told the husband that she has already bought land and built house on it,the house is near completion and very soon she would like the family to move out of the rented apartment to her house.
The man is in a dilemma,especially whenever he remember all the humiliation and insults from the wife.Meanwhile,before he lost his job,both him and the wife were developing their own site,and he is the major contributor to the development of the site,but along the line,loss of job happened.
The man is seeking my opinion,but I don't know what to tell him other than to ask his wife for him to be in charge of the land's documents.
How will you advice the man,or if you are in this situation,what will you do?

Lalasticlala,what will you advice the man to do.

Funke Akindele comes to mind.

A jobless and broke man has no pride left.

This is pure humiliation, he should move in for more humiliation hopefully he gets back on his feet soon.

U can't fight without money in ur pocket.

God and money two things u can't do without in this world otherwise u are finished

RightToReject:
The fact that he did not foresee her exhibiting these negative attitudes beforehand in the kind of present circumstance shows that he is not a discerning man; the fact that he has not devised a way to change it for her all this while and make her subjugable on top her money shows that he lacks grit; just as the fact that he is still contemplating what to do after all these discoveries, insults and abuses shows that he doesn't have a healthy standard. Tell him to follow his conscience

Meanwhile, the subject question of the thread didn't do justice to the body of the thread, given that in a healthy union and circumstance like this, there is nothing wrong if a man lives in his wife's just house, if his condition necessitates it, but that isn't the case here.

This always happens when a man works and earns almost same salary with the wife then he asks his wife not to contribute to family upkeep at all, he bears it all for 15years while the wife is having excess savings then she buys land and starts building while dependent on the foolish man.

15 years later life happens to the foolish man and he loses his job while the wife has millions saved then the worst happens. The man is maltreated and looks irresponsible almost immediately.

Almost every woman cannot tolerate a broke man, so as men we should diversify our sources of income when the cash is flowing. Teach ur woman to learn to bear some responsibility in the house.

Life is full of ups and downs

etrouble:
If he moves in with that woman, he will commit suicide in less than 6 months due to every second humiliation by the Jezebel

He has been living with the woman for the past 2 years with no suicide but suddenly because they will be moving to a new place, he will commit suicide in 6 months?

etrouble:


If he moves in with that woman, he will commit suicide in less than 6 months due to every second humiliation by the Jezebel

Where did you get the jezebel from...??

If she was a bad wife...she would have looked to a way to fight with the man so that he won't move in with her into the new house...but she didn't....she supported him, built a house for them to live togeda but she's a jezebel

The only problem here is his mountain Everest sized ego...his ego is making his see every move of his wife as insulting him.....

the story didn't even mention one she specific thing the wife did that he tagged humiliation..

I bet you with his state of mind ..if his wife asked him to help her with dishes...he would call it humiliation....something that doesn't mean anything on a normal day...
. all his worries is in his head...cowards die many times before they really dies....the nigga will just kill himself with worries over nothing

All he should be doing is getting back on his feet financially...instead of lookimg for how to collect his wife's building document ....