pendo89:

Ok Da Doc you have talked from exp. Am not a student but this is what I can tell you.

Ladies who get their degrees/masters horizontaly (I mean by lying down) are the same ladies who get promoted at work horizontally as well.

Once you lay the wrong foundation you build from there.Its a continous cycle.

Haven't you ever come across a lady with her Masters but she cannot articulate herself well or be creative in the office? They suck at decision making.

She has to sleep around to climb up the corporate ladder cz her head is full of egusi.

These are the ones that fail a company bcz the promotions they get are nothing more than titles and they fail miserably.

Good thing is the company gets tired of you quick cz theres always fresh graduates waiting to be employed. What will make you last is your knowledge not your V.

So any wise lady out there Please work up those brains not the V. cz you will need them in future

190:

My ex GF had exactly the same notion and ideas

that with that HOLE in between her legs - she could get anything, anywhere in life

I don talk tire - wen e be like say i wan begin crace - I had to let go!


She would always say " dearie u dont know me" I can walk into chevron, shell and by the time im through with the MD

he'll have no choice than to land me that JOB!

my response was always - if that MD sleeps with 11 other women, what's the possibility of you getting that Job and she wud keep numb!

deep down i knew this one was liablity so i simply evaded while i still had life in my hands

pendo89:

But Da Doc this is a common problem in almost all universities worlwide .Its roots are soo deep in the soil uprooting is impossible.

You will stop stressing the moment you realise that there are people who never want to study at all! They want everything on a silver plate.

They believe life should find them not the other way round.Even if passmark is lowered they will still sleep around. It will only end when prostitution ends.

Infact this is initiation into the world of prostitution but who wants to hear the truth? Nobody.We try to justify evrything.

purpose100:

When i was in school,this thing was very rampant. Those girls just believe that they can get any thing with their thing. But what i always ask is this; for how long will they do this for? Perhaps for life,or they will stop after marriage? but just like pendo89 rightly say,it is the foundation that will determine how your whole life will turn out.

St_gab:

Upendo, dat of naija unis is jst a trend(reigning tin), for 95% of female student dis is where "charity bigins at home",read proverb 22v6.you cn image a girl goes to club during exam den slept off de next morning seeks advice from friend (peer group),peer pressure is de big challege every student pass through in campuses

St_gab:

Da doctor, you sounds more of unibuja lecturer,from perpective of your post

sexkillz:

Very nice write up you have here! I agree to all facts presented. . . . . BUT! I say NO to it being a female affair only! I also disagree when you said that “LETS NOT FORGET THAT WHEN A LADY IS IN NEED OF A THING SHE CAN GO ALL OUT TO ACHIEVE IT.”<<<<HELL NO! Your arguments on this post SINGLE HANDEDLY DEFEATED the TOPIC! As you also mentioned the GOOD SIDES! Why should female students alone be brought to the fore front? Didn’t you say Males were guilty of this offense too? When are we going to learn how not to look at situations from a gender bias angle? Instead of you to channel and attribute your grievance’s to the rot in the educational system, not just in Nigeria alone, and as someone pointed out, THE WHOLE WORLD; you just presented the Females under a NEGATIVE LIGHT! To that I say CAPITAL REJECTOMENTA! Or are guys exempted too? Don’t they go clubbing? ETC? Or harass lecturers too? Even though it may not be intimate? Harassment is Harassment my Brother! Let’s not see a SPADE and confuse it with a SHOVEL!
These are Just my VIEWS! Doesn’t take away the fact that it was a nice WRITE UP! KUDOS!

what was this topic clearly bout
"you just presented the Females under a NEGATIVE LIGHT!"
what negative light - get on an OKADA - head to the nearest university, Sit a couple of uni guys you find around and ask them whats up with the ladies in that institution, then come back here and give me the results u've conducted! @tymes i tend to wonder if you Have you ever been to a NIGERIAN UNIVERSITY Before
I don tire for you my guy

190:



what was this topic clearly bout
"you just presented the Females under a NEGATIVE LIGHT!"
what negative light - get on an OKADA - head to the nearest university, Sit a couple of uni guys you find around and ask them whats up with the ladies in that institution, then come back here and give me the results u've conducted! @tymes i tend to wonder if you Have you ever been to a NIGERIAN UNIVERSITY Before
I don tire for you my guy

sexkillz:

Very nice write up you have here! I agree to all facts presented. . . . . BUT! I say NO to it being a female affair only! I also disagree when you said that “LETS NOT FORGET THAT WHEN A LADY IS IN NEED OF A THING SHE CAN GO ALL OUT TO ACHIEVE IT.”<<<<HELL NO! Your arguments on this post SINGLE HANDEDLY DEFEATED the TOPIC! As you also mentioned the GOOD SIDES! Why should female students alone be brought to the fore front? Didn’t you say Males were guilty of this offense too? When are we going to learn how not to look at situations from a gender bias angle? Instead of you to channel and attribute your grievance’s to the rot in the educational system, not just in Nigeria alone, and as someone pointed out, THE WHOLE WORLD; you just presented the Females under a NEGATIVE LIGHT! To that I say CAPITAL REJECTOMENTA! Or are guys exempted too? Don’t they go clubbing? ETC? Or harass lecturers too? Even though it may not be intimate? Harassment is Harassment my Brother! Let’s not see a SPADE and confuse it with a SHOVEL!
These are Just my VIEWS! Doesn’t take away the fact that it was a nice WRITE UP! KUDOS!

kpolli:

SEXKILLZ my man,

The poster has a point in his post. . . but like u said, its both ways. . . so can u ppl stop fighting?

Boyloaf:

@da doc, why r u attackin sexkillz? I really do nt see anytin wrong in his opinion. your write up is quite impressive but i must also add here that both male and female are guilty of d above. As a product of one of d most respected nigerian uni i hav seen guys who smoke weed, do all sorts of cult activities,clubbin,live their lifes recklessly on campus YET they come to exam hall hopin to pass d exams by all means. I also wonder where such act will lead them to in future. Conclusively,i say both male and female are guilty as charged! Lets nt make it a gender issue.

Da Doctor:

There is something called 'context'. Hope u know that?

refer to my previous post and see that i did say that the premitisation will be different if i were to analyse male students.

but in all the female students  have been x-rayed in the post above and i culled it from my reply to a guy claiming his gal is being harassed by his lecturer and i gave the defensive side for me colleagues. GET IT CLEAR NA!