ufuosman:
Yes of course. They maybe be friends for long b4 d guy got married
Some people mindset is too negative

There's nothing wrong with it most especially if the lady is drop dead gorgeous

Ere ki laja bekun se (which kind of play, dog play with a lion)

The truth is that plenty women do like married man than single guys coz of the care they are getting from them

But they will not boldly say out

Carcholce:


God I kneel down dey beg, don’t let me reduce myself to be calling a single lady at night when I’m married. I mean I can marry two wives and a third one when the first two are getting old, instead of hiding to call at night.

Fact. why men just reduce themselves to a girl's level. no boundaries, just feelings. eew

No

LoveGifted:



You don't know our relationship. There is no secrecy. Believe me.
I'm not here to convince anyone.

PLEASE STOP LYING THAT THE HUSBAND SUPPORTS OR IS AWARE OF WHATEVER "FRIENDSHIP" YOU THINK YOU HAVE WITH HIS WIFE

Nope

Kennedyli:
I have a female friend who's single. She's a good person, but I noticed an unusual closeness with this man, who happened to be married.

She says the man was just a friend from church and they had nothing going on.
She said the wife was suspicious at first; but the husband explained to her and now they are fine.

However, I noticed that they call each other everyday; which was okay.
I warned her to stop allowing the man call her, especially at night. Which she promised to work on.

I was trying to check something on her phone, when I noticed that not only was the man just calling her. She calls him close to midnight, sometimes, repeatedly until he picks.

My question is, can or should a lady have such relationship with a married man. Kind of a married man bestie who she go places with and calls in midnight?

I can swear with my life that the man I sleeping with her.
An average Nigerian girl between the age of 21-28 has between 3-8 BODYCOUNT INCLUDING AT LEAST WITH ONE MARRIED MAN.

Aaaaarghmed:
100 shades of wrong.i recently found out that 90percent of Nigerian ladies have slept with married men both knowingly and unknowingly.Guys just ask your female friends and you will be dead shocked.

100%FACT

ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN GIRLS

faithfull18:
No, there should be boundaries.

the lady is crushing on the man and it is the man that is still holding on to his self control and dignity,for me I cannot be just friends with a woman without sucking the breasts and manhandling the kpekus,what will I talk with a girl at midnight?she is mad,infact she is supposed to be punished with 24 strokes from a big gbola.

how on earth should we tell you explain to you is wrong.. fuq

jimetagambo:

Some of my female friends from Uni are still not married. I graduated from uni in 2006, so does that means they won't be my friends anymore because they are unmarried while I am married?

All these yeye unintelligent Nairaland topic sef.

If ur wife male friends in university, who are yet to marry, are close friends to ur wife, calling her at will and in anytime of the day, taking her to Mr Biggs alikes to whining away time, visit her frequent as they want in the office and at home ,how will you feel sir?


Anybody who wants married person to still be close friends with single, most especially single lady has ulterior motive.

Aaaaarghmed:
100 shades of wrong.i recently found out that 90percent of Nigerian ladies have slept with married men both knowingly and unknowingly.Guys just ask your female friends and you will be dead shocked.

Unknowingly ke?

Carcholce:
You are just worrying yourself over two grown adult that are very aware of what they are doing.

Or you want them to tell you the truth where this is going?


God I kneel down dey beg, don’t let me reduce myself to be calling a single lady at night when I’m married. I mean I can marry two wives and a third one when the first two are getting old, instead of hiding to call at night.


OP, just leave that your friend. Either She successfully breaks the man’s home or the man successfully use his hand to break his home, or the man uses his senses to “hit and run” and break her heart. The latter is even better, las las you will give her your shoulder to cry on and continue from where the man stopped.

Na @op he happen to
Nor be her friend
Na scope she Dey use

Karleb:
The man and woman know say one day dem go chop each other, so what's your headache?

One day dem go chop each oda? Guy dem dne chop each other reach bone..

Carcholce:
You are just worrying yourself over two grown adult that are very aware of what they are doing.

Or you want them to tell you the truth where this is going?


God I kneel down dey beg, don’t let me reduce myself to be calling a single lady at night when I’m married. I mean I can marry two wives and a third one when the first two are getting old, instead of hiding to call at night.


OP, just leave that your friend. Either She successfully breaks the man’s home or the man successfully use his hand to break his home, or the man uses his senses to “hit and run” and break her heart. The latter is even better, las las you will give her your shoulder to cry on and continue from where the man stopped.

That's the truth right here

Kennedyli:
I have a female friend who's single. She's a good person, but I noticed an unusual closeness with this man, who happened to be married.

She says the man was just a friend from church and they had nothing going on.
She said the wife was suspicious at first; but the husband explained to her and now they are fine.

However, I noticed that they call each other everyday; which was okay.
I warned her to stop allowing the man call her, especially at night. Which she promised to work on.

I was trying to check something on her phone, when I noticed that not only was the man just calling her. She calls him close to midnight, sometimes, repeatedly until he picks.

My question is, can or should a lady have such relationship with a married man. Kind of a married man bestie who she go places with and calls in midnight?

Sure... ON THE PROFESSIONAL LEVEL, why NOT? If you set boundaries and don't allow your hormones to dominate you.

Midnight phone calls from a married male bestie to a pretty unmarried lady and vice versa... Then that gets more complicated.

Kennedyli:
I have a female friend who's single. She's a good person, but I noticed an unusual closeness with this man, who happened to be married.

She says the man was just a friend from church and they had nothing going on.
She said the wife was suspicious at first; but the husband explained to her and now they are fine.

However, I noticed that they call each other everyday; which was okay.
I warned her to stop allowing the man call her, especially at night. Which she promised to work on.

I was trying to check something on her phone, when I noticed that not only was the man just calling her. She calls him close to midnight, sometimes, repeatedly until he picks.

My question is, can or should a lady have such relationship with a married man. Kind of a married man bestie who she go places with and calls in midnight?

You are a man
You already know where such friendship leads to

If you can't hold her firmly and stop her from such communication then there is no need blaming the man

But be very careful, you may not be aware that the same man sends money to her

Upworkwriter007:
The married man don dey chop am. They're just deceiving us.

God bless u

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