Sexual intercourse is a form of physical activity controlled by one's emotions and body language of their partner. Though there people with different sexual urges; their is probably nobody that completely dislike the ecstasy from love making.

You must have seen junk of articles attempting to explain how to enjoy sex with your partner, telling you to find a private environment, look sexy, mourn, make first move etc., these tips may work, or may not work, depending on your luck or who your partner is.

Just the way we have different food choices and hobbies, our sexual lifestyles varies, and may oscillate from time to time; or may change completely.

Some people see sexual intercourse as intimacy (especially introverts), while other people fantasize exploring different partners just for fantasy. Your ability to enjoy sexual intercourse, strictly depends on some criteria such as

Your sexual urge before the act
Your partner's knowledge about it
Your emotional health
Body language, and
Health status

For each tip highlighted below, we try to look at the sexual lifestyles of both partners. It's not just about self satisfaction; our interest is to ensure you are well tipped to satisfy your partner too.

Sexual intercourse is all about what you can give, how much you give, and how much you receive back...once there's an equilibrium between the level of sexual excitement and satisfaction of both partners. Just know you both did a good job.

Study your partner

Though every point contained in this article is essential, but the first thing to consider is to study your partner's body language, your perception about sex, what it feels like to them, and most essentially what they want.

You can decide to have an online chat with them before the act, or carefully observe them during sex. Each move you make, you observe their responses. This tip will help you avoid unnecessary stress that may spoil your mood or make you exhausted untimely.

Finding a quiet or isolated environment for sex may not be necessary, some partners get turned on more while making love in a tight corner or hidden spot where people are nearby e.g. hotel toilets, offices, hospitals, etc.

Some people get more Hot during a fight ( mostly verbal arguments) with their partner and end up having hot sex while breathing heavily. While other people may see attempts to have sex with them during an argument as "manipulation"

The fact that someone doesn't moan during sex do not mean they don't enjoy it. That's their body physiology. Your partner may find it weird, you just have to talk to them about it.

Also, other people may prefer watching pornography before the act, while some people prefer getting sexually aroused by watching their partners unclothedness.

We have more instances illustrating variations in sexual lifestyles, but let's leave you to learn from your partner, hence each tip may not work for them.

Be Hygienic

There's probably nobody that is comfortable with having intercourse with a partner who has bad breath or does keep their room tidy. Rather, a clean and safe environment enhances sex vibes

There are common cases of people getting turned off because of bad odour or a hot, dirty room during sexual intercourse.

Good personal hygiene not only improves our reproductive health but also prevents risks of contracting diseases or infections.

Keep fit

Exercises are important too for yourself, and to meet your partner's needs.

Personal reasons may include to fight infections that affect performance, or for flexibility during the act. Some partners sexually appreciate physical statue or well built body shapes.

Use multiple stimulation techniques

A man's penis becomes erect mostly by thoughts from his head of what he sees or ears, or from touch, so does a woman's to become wet. Sexual stimulation continues, or may even increasing during sex. Except after orgasm or ejaculation.

You will find sex boring once there's no sexual stimulation, there's no to continuously romance your partner, tell them exactly what you feel (without exaggerations), and how you want them badly.

Confidence during sex is recommended. Do not be afraid to try something new, probably a stimulation technique or a sex position. This needs to be a bit disobedient, sometimes your new move may be appreciated by your partner.

Do not repeat any new move they do not appreciate; as we said earlier, everybody is unique in a way.

Don't be selfish

It's not just about your feelings, some people just want to be in control without minding what their partner feels. You don't have to make it look like submissiveness is a favour they are doing you.

Like the traffic lights, listen to your partner and allow them to control you too.

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