oz4real83:

VandalSavage:
Na you send them go abroad?, The day you leave Nigeria to a more developed country is the dey you would understand their need to always balance out their spending

You want them to be sending you money and gift you didn't work for abi , your not serious

And I don't think any abroad based guy would be bothered about you "brother zoning" them

When they can easily get their self a foreign girl,that would love and support them rather than try to ruin him with Billings like the typical naija girl

VandalSavage:
Na you send them go abroad?, The day you leave Nigeria to a more developed country is the dey you would understand their need to always balance out their spending

You want them to be sending you money and gift you didn't work for abi , your not serious

And I don't think any abroad based guy would be bothered about you "brother zoning" them

When they can easily get their self a foreign girl,that would love and support them rather than try to ruin him with Billings like the typical naija girl

oz4real83:
OP also made a post sometime ago asking girls who married husbands or dating guys who were earning 100k and below how they were coping. That post and this one show that OP is into financial begging ministry, she relies on guys and also people abroad for a living. She doesn't contribute anything in a relationship. All her posts is always about the other party giving, not she. She has an entitlement mentality.

oz4real83:
OP also made a post sometime ago asking girls who married husbands or dating guys who were earning 100k and below how they were coping. That post and this one show that OP is into financial begging ministry, she relies on guys and also people abroad for a living. She doesn't contribute anything in a relationship. All her posts is always about the other party giving, not she. She has an entitlement mentality.

Rozross:
Spending on your partner in a relationship is not a big deal, it doesn’t have to be expensive things, very little gifts here and there means you are part of the person’s life and you are valued. My kind of person will be very excited over a 500naira gifts, does that mean I can’t afford them? He’ll no. So just try and grab my points

VandalSavage:
firstly,you didn't imply on dating in your original post

And secondly,you know they are in a new environment and may not even have enough,aren't you the one that is supposed to send to him...or is it just one sided

Ohh sorry I forget ,it is spiritually forbidden for you guys to ever help you man financially
Only to drain him...that isn't love

Abeg,if you don't like the fact that he isn't giving you money just free him so he can meet a foreign girl that will rather support him

This life no hard

Rozross:
Are you abroad based? Why are you unnecessarily been defensive

VandalSavage:


Not yet,but I'll be moving to turkey by December for study

And I've heard stories,it's really not easy for guys there

Rozross:
Wrong of you to have concluded that. I’m not materialistic but wanting gifts from a partner is part of a relationship, this gifts must not be expensive. Be expressive with your love. There’s no gift I can’t afford myself but then a popcorn from a partner can make me feel so excited

Rozross:
Why turkey? What caught your interest there

oz4real83:
things are getting more difficult especially for guys who are living honest lives. The only guys enjoying Nigeria today are mostly those into Yahoo or politics. When a guy has to buy love, added to the already difficult situation, it makes life more unbearable. Ladies must learn to love and respect unconditionally.

Rozross:
Thread closed, the vultures are here

VandalSavage:


My mom's friend live there ,so I'll be living with her

She helped me get admission in a University there with affordable tuition and even a job

Plus the visa processing time is quick,with complete documents you can get your visa in just a month

And most importantly.....naija don tire me

Rozross:
That’s good, but NIGERIA can be sweet sha

VandalSavage:
yeah...for girls ,Yahoo boys and politicians

But for the average youths,it's not

Rozross:
I had to delete the post because of the misconception, I’m not even a materialistic person but I can cry if you didn’t get me gifts on your trip, I guess it’s part of me. I won’t ever love someone based on his pocket, I’ve seen money and still rejected the love because of the lifestyle that surrounds it. Is it normal for a guy to make such trip and at least not get her anything? Haba

Rozross:
Thread closed, the vultures are here

VandalSavage:
yeah...for girls ,Yahoo boys and politicians

But for the average youths,it's not

juri:


@ Rozross, Thread Opened for discussion on the way forward on outstanding issues. Seriously, you need to attend to.

Rozross:
Juri juri lol

juri:


Do you know I even left you a Birth Day message last year in that mail. Didn't even know you no longer had access if not now that you mentioned it few conversations ago.

Anyway, I think you know exactly what I want. So can you pls respond to the DM request so we conclude with the conversations we had with your previous account and mail?.

Rozross:
I will check. Good morning and thank you for the message. God bless you

juri:


Hi checking up on you again. I am not fine, and you are responsible for this. Pls, try and resolve all outstanding issues quickly by getting back to me, 60+ and 5 kids not withstanding.

juri:


I thought I have already answerd this very question of yours in previous conversations on this very tread. NO WIFE AND KIDS

Why are you always deflecting whenever conversations on this outstanding issue is raised?. Is not that complicated is it?