Why is the Nigerian society so judgmental of people? How do I deal with this and just be my own person and not care at all what people or society think or say about me? Especially when it concerns my personal life (dating and relationship choices, sex life, etc).

If you don't have anything to hide then it won't irritate you.

aisha1314:
Why is the Nigerian society so judgmental of people? How do I deal with this and just be my own person and not care at all what people or society think or say about me? Especially when it concerns my personal life (dating and relationship choices, sex life, etc).

Your dating/relationship or sex life is not as personal as you think. Everyone you come across today is a product of sex. Criminals are products of sex. Industry chiefs are products of sex. So if society feels that your sexual life is likely to produce a "threat" to society, then the stakeholders in societies reserve the right to react the way they want (it's your choice to pay attention to what society has to say about you).

OP,SEE SOMETHING THE NIGERIA SOCIETY IS MADE UP OF UNRALLY PEEPS , SO MY ADVICE FOR U IS TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS DON'T CARE WHAT THEY SAY.
IF YOU FEEL SOMEHOW MAYBE IRRITATED,WHY NOT JUST GET YOUR BY BIBLE AND START TO READ THEN I THINK YOUR ANGER WILL BE LEST KINDLED AGAINST PEEPS.
NEVER FEEL DOWN AND IRRITATED CAUSE DEPRESSION AND HATE WORDS BRINGS D SOUL DOWN

MY OPINION NO SHADES