What is your take on this?
As a woman, would you use your money to funish the house if your husband would not do it? Maybe because he barely live in that house or because his salaries is small and he wouldn't want to make sacrifices? you're married and he basically wouldn't do that? For your comfortability and that of your children, would you use your money to buy chairs, fridge, TV and many other items in the house ?

For married men, would you let her?

What would you advise?

Dainy1:
What is your take on this?
As a woman, would you use your money to funish the house if your husband would not do it? Maybe because he barely live in that house or because his salaries is small and he wouldn't want to make sacrifices? you're married and he basically wouldn't do that? For your comfortability and that of your children, would you use your money to buy chairs, fridge, TV and many other items in the house ?

For married men, would you let her?

What would you advise?

..which women go follow you live inside house with no chair, tv, fridge in the first place.

This is not a big deal. Furniture is small. There are women that support their husbands financially in building a house.

I will furnish the house if he built it or he's the one paying rent or bond.

Dainy1:
What is your take on this?
As a woman, would you use your money to funish the house if your husband would not do it? Maybe because he barely live in that house or because his salaries is small and he wouldn't want to make sacrifices? you're married and he basically wouldn't do that? For your comfortability and that of your children, would you use your money to buy chairs, fridge, TV and many other items in the house ?

For married men, would you let her?

What would you advise?

Papa done die.no be first son kill am.who get money make him bury am.

The house is also for the wife. She can always render assistance to make the house a home.

Samantha123:
I will furnish the house if he built it or he's the one paying rent or bond.

And the south african has arrived......

those women with the ideology that "my money is for me alone, but my husband's money is for the entire family including inlaws" will not agree

Well, we're all entitled to our own opinions.

advanceDNA:


And the south african has arrived......

those women with the ideology that "my money is for me alone, but my husband's money is for the entire family including inlaws" will not agree

Lol

Dainy1:
What is your take on this?
As a woman, would you use your money to funish the house if your husband would not do it? Maybe because he barely live in that house or because his salaries is small and he wouldn't want to make sacrifices? you're married and he basically wouldn't do that? For your comfortability and that of your children, would you use your money to buy chairs, fridge, TV and many other items in the house ?

For married men, would you let her?

What would you advise?

Well for me, there is no big deal about that, so far we are married and have children

I will furnish our house and put those things I think is needed

The only place I will have problems with him is if he spends for another woman outside

frozen70:


We'll to me, there is no big deal about that, do far you are married and have children

I will furnish our house and put those things I think is needed

The only place I will have problems with him is if he spends for another woman outside

mama Mia you be tey tey asset...what we have these days na new liabilities ...

Wizywiz:
mama Mia you be tey tey asset...what we have these days na new liabilities ...

Lol
Hahaha

You funny no be small

frozen70:


Lol
Hahaha

You funny no be small

life no supposed hard..abeg make tey tey asset like u help dey give orientation to this younger ones ..many of Dem na liabilities Dem be...ok check out now wey be say things tight for ur guy and area rough... imagine even d ones wey be ordinary friends don vamoose ooo ... tomorrow now Dem go wan pitch der tenth ooo...try dey reason Dem oooo..life no supposed be like dat...no money no friends.....mama Mia...as my new godmother asay tuale for you... odogwu nwanyi

Dainy1:
What is your take on this?
...
For married men, would you let her? What would you advise?

Would a husband allow his wife and partner to contribute to what is their own home?

Or would a husband who sees himself as a Lord and ego first over his wife(servant/slave) allow her to contribute to what is his home alone?

Kobojunkiee:
Would a husband allow his wife and partner to contribute to what is their own home?

Or would a husband who sees himself as a Lord and ego first over his wife(servant/slave) allow her to contribute to what is his home alone?

I don't understand

Yes, I would totally do that
and furnish it to my taste.

Wizywiz:
life no supposed hard..abeg make tey tey asset like u help dey give orientation to this younger ones ..many of Dem na liabilities Dem be...ok check out now wey be say things tight for ur guy and area rough... imagine even d ones wey be ordinary friends don vamoose ooo ... tomorrow now Dem go wan pitch der tenth ooo...try dey reason Dem oooo..life no supposed be like dat...no money no friends.....mama Mia...as my new godmother asay tuale for you... odogwu nwanyi

Thanks once again for your statement

You see those girls in that category, don't blame them much because they are fair Weather friends

They believe that they can only rip they don't care about labouring with any guy

So if at the end they are now left out, they will now calm down and have sense

By then they have gotten a bitter experience

frozen70:


Thanks once again for your statement

You see those girls in that category, don't blame them much because they are fair Weather friends

They believe that they can only rip they don't care about labouring with any guy

So if at the end they are now left out, they will now calm down and have sense

By then they have gotten a bitter experience

well sometimes they allow life teach them without learning from those it has taught...goodafternoon godmother, hope your weekend is going on fine?

Wizywiz:
well sometimes they allow life teach them without learning from those it has taught...goodafternoon godmother, hope your weekend is going on fine?

Its going fine
Happ weekend

Life it's self is a teacher

frozen70:


Its going fine
Happ weekend

Life it's self is a teacher

..have a fun-filled day

If a man cannot furnish his house, how can he cater for his family? I can't even be in that situation,

Reminds me of a story I heard of a man that told his wife to leave his house before he got back from work if not, he would kill her, he eventually got back home to an empty house, nothing was left, because she bought everything in the house, it took him 2 years plus squatting with friends before he got back to his feet.