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| What Should I Do? by Skillsmaster(m): 12:49pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Please ignore any grammatical and typographical error. I am planning on getting married to my fiancee. We have done our introduction. We were s to go to her village for the payment of the bride price to the father. Though her mother is in Abuja here. The mother later changed her mind that we shouldn't travel to the village due to spiritual matter. But I told my fiancee that the bride price must get to the father. She suggested that we do a court wedding and later church wedding. Please house, is it possible to do a court wedding before paying the bride price first and also before collecting the list from the bride's family? In addition, how much do court in Abuja collect for the court wedding? |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Candidlady: 12:50pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
 Her mum telling you not to travel knows what she is saying Court wedding in abuja should be around 55 thou to 70 thou Not sure 1 Like |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Skillsmaster(m): 1:00pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
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| Re: What Should I Do? by ahnie: 1:06pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
The mum is hiding something.pls make sure the brideprice gets to the father. Pls do not go ahead with the court wedding,you would regret it later in life. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? by madridguy(m): 1:16pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
You don meet your fiancee papa at all? Make we know make e no be say the lady and her mama want to carry you handikappu  Skillsmaster: |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 1:45pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
You can't count 2 before 1 buddy... But this one that u are driving into a family with unnecessary spiritual drama... hope your car got headlamp  3 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Carcholce: 3:47pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Richy4: Na fence he dey go jam so. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? by GboyegaD(m): 4:48pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
If she's suggesting you guys not traveling for spiritual reasons and you believe it, discuss with the father to see if there's any other location he's comfortable with besides the village for the traditional marriage to hold if you want it. As for Court, you can do that whenever you want it. It is for you and your fiancée to decide on that. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Helpout12345: 4:54pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Both the mother and her daughter are hiding something. Don't proceed with anything court weeding until you have found out what they are hiding. You might not even know the lady you are marrying yet. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Candidlady:Why does it cost that much to obtain a marriage license in Abuja? Is that the same cost nationwide or just in Abuja?  |
| Re: What Should I Do? by ibechris(m): 5:06pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
A woman told u about spiritual matters and u are nit taking heed. After wedding comes marriage/reality. Don't fall for this tricks...gk and find out more about the spiritual matters. It is wrong to fight a battle that isn't yours. Think twice...marriage is not an easy venture, there is something they are not telling u here. |
| Re: What Should I Do? by meathewstiell5: 6:52pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: i just heard about this that it cost too much to register your marriage because in other counties like asians there is no policy to register your marriage after paying hard cash mostly they get online invitation to register and they do this from home within 10 minits. |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
meathewstiell5:I think costs such as these should be made affordable to allow people to register their marriages and enjoy the benefits of having them legalized. |
| Re: What Should I Do? by cavreek: 9:31pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
If the father is not involve make sure he's aware of what is happening and carry him along Do not be deceive by any body, her father should be ur concern |
| Re: What Should I Do? by culf: 9:55pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
this one dey surprise me ooo, baba go pay bride price first. Call the man or travel to go see him, nothing go do you. |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Only virgins deserve bride price is all I can say. So which is she? |
| Re: What Should I Do? by frozen70(f): 12:00am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Skillsmaster: How well do you know this lady you want to marry How come at this point they are playing hide and seek with you Let's assume the father and mother are not in talking terms, does it mean the lady's father should not be aware, partispate in his daughter's marriage, does it mean that you too don't have elders in your family that are supposed to be the one negotiating for your marriage instead of you and you alone Where are your parents are they aware of this manipulation I think you need to stop all plans and involve your family properly and do the right thing before this woman and her daughter will turn you to Mumu Love is not enough to hold marriage, But character is the major thing Worst case you invite the father and lodge him in the hotel if they don't want him in their house then you guys can hire a hall But left for me You are not even aware of what you are going into You may be scammed by these women 1 Like |
| Re: What Should I Do? by Candidlady: 8:07am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Idont know bout other states A family friend did hers in lagos last two years for 30 something thou |
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