Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

In all truth, I do not know how God created the girl child, the boy girl problem, relationship ...love issue, these seems to be "MOST OF THEIR LIFE GOAL" please I said most, not all ladies.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.


Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Toriagirl:
Since she wants her own life, you guys should let her be, sometimes experience is the best teacher, if she's 18 and above, you guys should let her be.

Ok....thanks

Na dick she go collect when she get tired she will come back



Those that said experience is d best teacher said it 4 a reason.talkin to her will be a waste of time let her taste d bitter street a little

you wanna pick an innocent girl with police for questioning? don't let me use bad words on you right now! was she the one who asked your sister to run away?

since the whole house with grown adults can't break down the wings of a stubborn kid sister then there is nothing we can advised you that would be more effective.

your family should continue to spoil and talk softly with her, nobody has an iron hand to mend her to the ground i supposed.

leave her with the boyfriend, she will come back when she is tired and continue her nonsense over again, it's obvious nobody in the family have guts enough to tame her.

This is the effect of over pampering and freedom.

Na initial gragra dey worry her, just wait till life starts to hit her on all fronts then she will understand watsup..

How old is she?So no one in your to give her good mending to take her brain back to default settings?

If you continue to treat her with kids gloves,a lot of ills may befall her.

She dey pursue preek

Just let her be,when she's tired she will find her way back to the house... ... By then she will be wiser


The main prayer you all should be praying is by the time she realizes it hope it won't be too late .... Damages won't have been plenty


It is well

Instead of you to manually reset her brain, you dey type English dey explain. God no go allow me born girl.

jamesversion:
Instead of you to manually reset her brain, you dey type English dey explain. God no go allow me born girl.

So nah only girls be the pikin wey dey spoil?

Arrerrgh..... Where's my pankere

Dog wey don determine to lost
no dey hear the whistle of him oga❗️❗️


Just write her off & let her go and
face her destiny. If she comes back, good.
If she doesn't come back, then it's her
fate.

She is probably over 21years and legally
an adult ❗️❗️❗️


A few years back, a 16 old son ( last born) of a
friend, without warning just left the
parents home and left a note, telling
them not to bother looking for him as
he has gone a far place from home and
they should expect him back in 6 months.
Na so him put him parents for high
jump ❗️❗️

jamesversion:
Instead of you to manually reset her brain, you dey type English dey explain. God no go allow me born girl.

You’ll have 5 girls

Iliveforever:


You’ll have 5 girls

Blah blah blah....

I will have no girl child.

Bye.

Its youthful exuberance, and the hormones doing them jigbijigbi.....las las, them go dey alright.

Keep praying for her, I hope she doesn't stray too far and lose her life in the end.

Op, the question you should ask is "what have we (family) been doing wrong"