That woman married her enemy. I'd like married men here to please make excuses for why a man will treat his wife and kids like this.

It would be good to know how much "earning well" the man is really earning.

Romanoff:
That woman married her enemy. I'd like married men her to please make excuses for why a man will treat his wife and kids like this.

It would good to know how much "earning well" the man is really earning.

Were you on the road? There seems to be some errors or omissions in your comment

UnusualEmissary:


Were you on the road? There seems to be some errors or omissions in your comment

No I wasn't jor. I'll make corrections, thanks for drawing my attention to the errors.

Romanoff:
That woman married her enemy. I'd like married men here to please make excuses for why a man will treat his wife and kids like this.

It would be good to know how much "earning well" the man is really earning.

He is earning 65k and has an allowance and has other sources of earning money the 30k sends is sometimes from the extra money he makes.

Jozilinn:
He is earning 65k and has an allowance and has other sources of earning money the 30k sends is sometimes from the extra money he makes.

Hmmm.

What is the cumulative source of his income?

Because if the man has other bills like paying two house rents, clothing, hospital visits, electricity, school fees, that 65k small o.

So it would be nice the woman is in on the man's finances so they can both plan their life accordingly.

Romanoff:


Hmmm.

What is the cumulative source of his income?

Because if the man has other bills like paying two house rents, clothing, hospital visits, electricity, school fees, that 65k small o.

So it would be nice the woman is in on the man's finances so they can both plan their life accordingly.

They don't pay rent oh, the children are attending government schools,you think if the matter wasn't like this I would have brought it here, no now I understand how hard it is even if a man is earning 100k,at least he should consider some things now

Jozilinn:
They don't pay rent oh, the children are attending government schools,you think if the matter wasn't like this I would have brought it here, no now I understand how hard it is even if a man is earning 100k,at least he should consider some things now

It's still good to know how much the man earns. I don't get how couples go about not knowing how much each person earns so they can plan accordingly.

65k+20k+x= how much? I no no wetin dey happen for naija again o! I no understand! It is well....I just pity the innocent kids being brought into this world by the irresponsible adults! So aunty will work for 30days to earn 20k? Maids are now earning 40 to 60k, better tell her to re-channel her energy.

sisisioge:
65k+20k+x= how much? I no no wetin dey happen for naija again o! I no understand! It is well....I just pity the innocent kids being brought into this world by the irresponsible adults! So aunty will work for 30days to earn 20k? Maids are now earning 40 to 60k, better tell her to re-channel her energy.

Exactly. Rechannel the effort and restrategize.

She should not abort

Let her look for another job


Explain her predicament to the husband's relatives.

sisisioge:
65k+20k+x= how much? I no no wetin dey happen for naija again o! I no understand! It is well....I just pity the innocent kids being brought into this world by the irresponsible adults! So aunty will work for 30days to earn 20k? Maids are now earning 40 to 60k, better tell her to re-channel her energy.

okay no problem i will thank you