Hey,I have discovered something about Girls.Look if they see a guy that they like,they will not approach Him,instead,they will be dying in silence.One thing girls should know,is that telling a guy that you like him is not a crime.Most the guy toast you first?or most we be doing the toasting?Look Girls to toast a lady is not easy as you think.Is more difficult for some guys than writing a final year exam.I think you Girls should help use out with the toasting at times.Guys what do you think?

Yeah, but there's not much value to it cos the best thing is when a man tells you first then you can compromise and the girl know inside of her that he luvs me but if a girl asks first that means the guy doesn't like her really so his mind will be with another girl he really fancies, at least his heart wasn't empty there will be someone else he likes

when i lady approach a guy, de guy will nt valve de freindship [color=#006600][/color]

See make we call a spade wetin dem they call am. It is about time nigar babes will realize dat if u don't make ur intension known to ur "guy" ur might just be losing out on a fulfilled life.

osteen that is the truth.You better tell when you love a guy and see if the love will not go stronger.

If u love someone, don't wait till tomorrow to tell him/her, maybe the next day will never come at all
owe no man anything, but to love one another:for he that loves another hath fulfilled the law. Romans 13:8

Good point.

Ye very true, but if a girl walks up to a girl and tells him she digs him
he will take advantage of her even if he doesn't like her. He will play along
have sex with her and move on, coz I believe that's the way the male mind works.

@Fluffy: u are not entirely correct on that.
There are many ways for a lady to tell a man she digs him. if after all the "signs" the guys still dosnt get it, then he's a loser and she should walk. Its not like the lady should walk up to him an go like:

"Unmm, i noticed you around - i find you very attractive - would you got to bed with me?" (i heard those lyrics in one stupid song on the radio in 1996)

a girl once asked me out some time ago, and it goes down as one of my most successful relationships

I pray it happen to me too.

hey sammie,
u must be a very lucky guy, i pray to meet a gal dat will toast me and later appciate her sha.as per d blocking thing,,it actually depends on d level of understanding of d guy coz to me a lady comin to me means litu or notin to me, it only shows how much she values me.

Can a girl try it with a guy here? Give it a try,

hmmmmmmmmmmm (really)?

u wont die in silence u will die in noise.

LADIES! If u love a guy, tell him. Take the burden off. Heavens wont fall

Hmmn! Anything new in being asked out by a lady?? Hell to the NO but the guy's maturity index matters, it is never helped if he is the type that hangs out a lot with his padis

Fluffy:

Ye very true, but if a girl walks up to a girl and tells him she digs him
he will take advantage of her even if he doesn't like her. He will play along
have sex with her and move on, because I believe that's the way the male mind works.

i agree with this post! give the guy the signs that you like him ( but don't let it all hang out) take time to gauge his responses and intentions, if from all indication you are both on the same page, same wave length i don't See how the relationship will not bloom!

Some girls cannot take rejection

could be exactly what she wanted as well so she isnt exactly being "taken advantage of" if that's what they both want anyway now is it?

intresting

blows your mind doesnt it

Good topic.

I discovered that the 3 most difficult words to slip off the lips of girls (even when they are neck deep into it) are ''i love u''. Though, I don't advice girls to hire a campaign manager to declare their undying love for any guy walking the streets but if at all they love someone and also feel they are compatible, by all means they should let him know.

Some people think that girls who tow this sensible path devalue their worth, but to me it is hell no. Infact, i have a secret (hush hush , please don't mention it to anyone ) any girl who sincerely tells me she loves me has already hit the bingo . Except i don't really like her physical appearance .

I'm tired (and most guys also) of girls who come back pleading and pledging their love months/years after u showed some form of interest. Girls should learn to identify what they want early enough and go for it. There is no crime in this

Honey_pot:

Good topic.

I discovered that the 3 most difficult words to slip off the lips of girls (even when they are neck deep into it) are ''i love u''. Though, I don't advice girls to hire a campaign manager to declare their undying love for any guy walking the streets but if at all they love someone and also feel they are compatible, by all means they should let him know.

Some people think that girls who tow this sensible path devalue their worth, but to me it is hell no. Infact, i have a secret (hush hush , please don't mention it to anyone ) any girl who sincerely tells me she loves me has already hit the bingo . Except i don't really like her physical appearance .
I'm tired (and most guys also) of girls who come back pleading and pledging their love years after u showed some form of interest. Girls should learn to identify what they want early enough and go for it. There is no crime in this

no kidding! !

Very serious . oops, just let out my all time secret on Nairaland

don't worry your secret is safe on Nairaland 

wait oh!    you will soon be receiving some Sincere I love loff you soon! 

Never, not on Nairaland , I don't see that happening. I wonder why there isn't any 'coupling' yet on Nairaland, 2 years after inception.

Maybe, girls here are tenaciously holding on to the last strand of the 'guy-should-speak-first' tatters and the guys are afraid of taking the bull by the horn. And this madness (childisness) of posting private messages publicly might be contributory to the paranoia too

@Ika6, kilode, why u dey bone me? long time!

Honey_pot:

Never, not on Nairaland , I don't see that happening. I wonder why there isn't any 'coupling' yet on Nairaland, 2 years after inception.

Maybe the 'couplings' are hoarding the info, dont you think?

kitaun:

@Ika6, kilode, why u dey bone me? long time!

me? bone you? nahhhhhhhhh! na you no wan yarn with me Eurphoria no gree you

_{God i hope she dont see this post!} how u dey?

Honey_pot:

Never, not on Nairaland , I don't see that happening. I wonder why there isn't any 'coupling' yet on Nairaland, 2 years after inception.

Maybe, girls here are tenaciously holding on to the last strand of the 'guy-should-speak-first' tatters and the guys are afraid of taking the bull by the horn. And this madness (childisness) of posting private messages publicly might be contributory to the paranoia too

word!

@Ika6, i will just pretend i didnt see the E part of ur post, lol