We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

You want to get her pregnant without her consent? ....

When you re ready for pregnancy, inform her, only her know when she's ovulating, if you continue to have sex with her outside this period, your penalty go just dey go throw-in... the fertility test you mentioned is also a good idea...

U don't know her mind. U don't know if she take anything to prevent her taking in. She fit dey reason say make u marry her b4 she take in

Truly, the heart of a man is desperately wicked. Op is one of them

You're really naive
You want her to get pregnant without telling her? Then you're not ready
When you're ready you will tell her and she will stop whatever she was using

Dgamezzz:


We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

Are you marrying a wife or you're acquiring a baby producing animal??

Why would you want to divorce her if there are no kids in the future??

Besides, you have not taken into consideration, that your inability to get her pregnant could come from you, your previous kid not withstanding.

Na your type dem dey call "kolomental".
You should have the discussion first as she might also be working on ensuring she is not conceiving.

Wawelexy:
You want to get her pregnant without her consent? Iwo lo gbon ju....

When you re ready for pregnancy, inform her, only her know when she's ovulating, if you continue to have sex with her outside this period, your penalty go just dey go throw-in... the fertility test you mentioned is also a good idea...

I knows when she is menstruating and her ovulation time. Her cycle is 28

ufuosman:
U don't know her mind. U don't know if she take anything to prevent her taking in. She fit dey reason say make u marry her b4 she take in

as far as I know she is not taking anything but I might be wrong though

Sweetvie:
You're really naive
You want her to get pregnant without telling her? Then you're not ready
When you're ready you will tell her and she will stop whatever she was using

She is not ready

complexBoss12:
Are you marrying a wife or you're acquiring a baby producing animal??

Why would you want to divorce her if there are no kids in the future??

Besides, you have not taken into consideration, that your inability to get her pregnant could come from you, your previous kid not withstanding.

I only have 1 sibling my wish is to have many children 5 in total and I will be very devastated if she cannot conceive after the wedding. I want to marry a fertile woman to avoid divorce in the future

Dgamezzz:


She is not ready

she not married
Of course she won't be ready until you do needful. You expect her to get pregnant without marriage?

Dgamezzz:


We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

Please discuss it with her and if she is also wondering about it, both of you should go run test, I'm sure if you meet a gynecologist within three to four months everything would be ok having follow the advice by the gynocologist .

Sweetvie:
she not married
Of course she won't be ready until you do needful. You expect her to get pregnant without marriage?

She will not be the first woman to be pregnant before marriage neither the last. If she becomes pregnant I love her and I will still marry her.

correctyourself:


Please discuss it with her and if she is also wondering about it, both of you should go run test, I'm sure if you meet a gynecologist within three to four months everything think would be ok having follow the advice by the gynocolonist .

Thanks I will try but I don't want to hurt her feelings

Dgamezzz:



She will not be the first woman to be pregnant before marriage neither the last. If she becomes pregnant I love her and I will still marry her.

Then tell her ur plan... You can't expect to take in for you when she knows nothing she is not stupid... Not all "fiancee" lead to wife

She is aborting your kids without your knowledge.

Sweetvie:
Then tell her ur plan... You can't expect to take in for you when she knows nothing she is not stupid... Not all "fiancee" lead to wife

I don't think she is ready , I will not tell her my plan but I will talk to her about fertility test. If we conduct fertility test and everything came out fine, i will not impregnate her before marriage.
I don't know if you are a man or woman but I guess you are a woman. Please forget about the pregnancy let focus on the fertility test. Assuming you are in a serious relationship and your fiance want both of you to conduct a fertility test how would you feel about it please?

Berrityga:
She is aborting your kids without your knowledge.

Lies from the pit of Hell

GboyegaD:
Na your type dem dey call "kolomental".
You should have the discussion first as she might also be working on ensuring she is not conceiving.

NoOoo he shouldn't
He thought he's wise... The lady might be using contraception pills secretly just to be safe?... all his bullet just dey Misfire

Richy4:



NoOoo he shouldn't
He thought he's wise... The lady might be using contraception pills secretly just to be safe?... all his bullet just dey Misfire

I don't know how some people will think in this age and time others don't think about themselves too.

Dgamezzz:


I don't think she is ready , I will not tell her my plan but I will talk to her about fertility test. If we conduct fertility test and everything came out fine, i will not impregnate her before marriage.
I don't know if you are a man or woman but I guess you are a woman. Please forget about the pregnancy let focus on the fertility test. Assuming you are in a serious relationship and your fiance want both of you to conduct a fertility test how would you feel about it please?

Hmmm
Ok. On a woman part, i will feel somehow insulted but it not unreasonable
But as a nurse... It a normal thing to do all test before marriage

Sweetvie:
Hmmm
Ok. On a woman part, i will feel somehow insulted but it not unreasonable
But as a nurse... It a normal thing to do all test before marriage

Thank you so much

Dgamezzz:


Thank you so much

Always welcome

I pity your woman, na una dey give marriage bad name!

why marry in the first place, you can have kids without marriage because obviously you just want kids not marriage.

culf:
I pity your woman, na una dey give marriage bad name!

why marry in the first place, you can have kids without marriage because obviously you just want kids not marriage.

I want both because it is very important for me and my family

Dgamezzz:


I want both because it is very important for me and my family

I don't think so, I think you just want kids because what you're doing is wrong.
my friend had his baby 5 years after marriage, not talking about courtship. my bros own pass my guy own but both marriages were awesome, no pressure because both couples want marriage first not just kids, but from your writeup if madam no born sharp sharp marriage go end.
Marriage is not about producing kids, kids are added blessings from God. Marriage should first be about companionship and should be enjoyed with or without kids.

culf:


I don't think so, I think you just want kids because what you're doing is wrong.
my friend had his baby 5 years after marriage, not talking about courtship. my bros own pass my guy own but both marriages were awesome, no pressure because both couples want marriage first not just kids, but from your writeup if madam no born sharp sharp marriage go end.
Marriage is not about producing kids, kids are added blessings from God. Marriage should first be about companionship and should be enjoyed with or without kids.

I respect your opinion if kids are not important to you good for you , to me marriage and kids are both important and I can never imagine marrying a woman who cannot bear more kids for me. Hence why I think fertility test is very important for us to know whether we are compatible or not. Hopefully we are even if we are not it will not be the end of the world , we will both move on with our lives hopefully we will find someone else whom we can bear children with.

OP, the children man

Dgamezzz:


I don't think she is ready , I will not tell her my plan but I will talk to her about fertility test. If we conduct fertility test and everything came out fine, i will not impregnate her before marriage.
I don't know if you are a man or woman but I guess you are a woman. Please forget about the pregnancy let focus on the fertility test. Assuming you are in a serious relationship and your fiance want both of you to conduct a fertility test how would you feel about it please?

Even with fertility test,it's still not a guarantee for pregnancy. Couples can be okay medically and still not get pregnant either for a long time or might get pregnant if they both end up with someone else.

Truly, the heartless of a man is desperately wicked