The most beautiful gift God gave us is “change”. The fact that everything around us keeps changing is such a blessing because it’s the reason why we evolve and become better.

I learned this sad and heartbreaking truth about women in my 30s and it completely changed my perspective about life, relationships and even marriage.

Men, do you know women are not capable of seeing us as “human beings “ “a person” “an individual” ? It’s basically impossible for a female to see a man as a human being with emotions, needs and desires. Women are already programmed to see men as a “tool” to whatever their destination in life may be, or whatsoever their fantasies may be. They are programmed from birth to lean on men, to use men to their own advantage. They don’t care about whatever a man needs, it’s all about how to exploit every man that comes their way till they get to a point where they feel they have reached their desired destination in life. This is the reason why no matter what you sacrifice for a woman she will never be loyal to you because of it, if she’s loyal to you it’s not because of your sacrifices it’s because you’re still on track to getting her to her final destination in life so she won’t destroy whatever she has with you yet till you prove to her that you’re now incapable of taking her to her life’s destination.

MEN, WE ARE TOOLS TO WOMEN.

A woman will use your car, your house, your clothes to package herself for a better man that will be impressed by all you have done and giving to her, your sacrifice mean nothing to her, she’s on a journey and you have served your purpose.

You see these girls don’t care about your looks or height or your fat belly, all those things are just games women play to make you see her as a trophy, they pretend to care about these things to bruise your ego as a man, so that when she finally agrees to your advances you will see her as superior because she has made you feel like she’s managing you, and that’s when she starts to exploit you and use your resources to package herself for a better male option.

Don’t ever forget this truth about women, they are incapable of genuinely loving a man without expecting anything in return, you are just a tool in their game of chess.

Lastly, before you ever get married to any woman, tell her to sign a “prenup” with you, meaning if you both ever divorce she will get nothing from you, she only has access to whatever she came into the relationship with, all your properties remains with you, do that and come back to this thread to tell us if she’s still interested in marrying you.

Op, you deserve a bottle of cold chilled beer!

Bad advice.

You said nothing but fact

Fact

In as much as I see pains and heartbreak written all over your write-up,every point you made here are in tandem with reality.Being a man is a huge and probably the biggest task nature gave to humanity,more so being a man in Nigeria.

toobusy:
In as much as I see pains and heartbreak written all over your write-up,every point you made here are in tandem with reality.Being a man is a huge and probably the biggest task nature gave to humanity,more so being a man in Nigeria.

You are right boss..Being a man in Nigeria means having ENOUGH MONEY.

Most men acquire their assets in the marriage not before. So prenup is most times useless