Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?

Nlfpmod.

Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

The worldly couples will avoid this thread like a plague. SMH.

Which one is missionary for goodness sake? Nah missionary school?

Treasure17:
Which one is missionary for goodness sake? Nah missionary school?

It's mommy and daddy style. Lol..

Going by religious reasoning, pornography is a sin. I agree and some extreme practices in it should not be tried at home.

Having said that, the world keeps evolving. Humans keep discovering new ways of life. Sexual exploration is part of these new ways of doing things. I am sure even missionary style was discovered by Humans at certain time because I am not sure God taught Adam and Eve how to have sex.

Some of the styles practiced in Porn are actually not bad and moderate new ways of sexual pleasures.

In as much as the married couples are comfortable with the moderate styles and the styles are medically safe, I see no reason why married couples cannot enjoy themselves to the fullest.

Everything is not religion and spiritual.

sex is sex, I don't see anything wrong with any style couples chose to use as far as both parties are cool with it. God permits sex but didn't say we should do it in a particular way. You know how Adam and eve dey take knack?
What I may not agree with based on principle of God is anal sex.

culf:
sex is sex, I don't see anything wrong with any style couples chose to use as far as both parties are cool with it. God permits sex but didn't say we should do it in a particular way. You know how Adam and eve dey take knack?
What I may not agree with based on principle of God is anal sex.

Ok. Your opinion.

Blessedmercy8:


It's mommy and daddy style. Lol..

It's left for God to determine the unworthiness of any sexual styles. Using our moral compass on things like is unnecessary and besides one or two different styles is not a bad idea just to keep the whole stuff exciting.

Treasure17:

It's left for God to determine the unworthiness of any sexual styles. Using our moral compass on things like is unnecessary and besides one or two different styles is not a bad idea just to keep the whole stuff exciting.

Hmm... So when you do doggy or what do you people call it, what are you implying? That you are now dogs? Isn't it?

Ride on

Blessedmercy8:

Ok. Your opinion.

yes!

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm... So when you do doggy or what do you people call it, what are you implying? That you are now dogs? Isn't it?

Ride on

Honestly when we reason beyond religion and look at it from Science perspective, if humans had not evolved from apes, we will be having sex like apes today.

It's the evolution of humans by developing bigger brain that made humans to even develop missionary style of sex

Helpout12345:


Honestly when we reason beyond religion and look at it from Science perspective, if humans had not evolved from apes, we will be having sex like apes today.

It's the evolution of humans by developing bigger brain that made humans to even develop missionary style of sex

So after evolving they now want to regress back to animal nature because of sex?

We are just fond of doing the wrong things. That's a typical human being for you. Always doing the opposite.

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm... So when you do doggy or what do you people call it, what are you implying? That you are now dogs? Isn't it?

Ride on

Lol. Not implying anything. These are things some people enjoy in their marriages. Stop making things up.

Treasure17:

Lol. Not implying anything. These are things some people enjoy in their marriages. Stop making things up.

Na so!

Blessedmercy8:


Na so!

It's essential to keep the marriage going. Break up dey happen cause of this self.

Treasure17:

It's essential to keep the marriage going. Break up dey happen cause of this self.

Even with it, breakup still dey happen. So? It is not styles that keep marriage, Sir.

Blessedmercy8:


So after evolving they now want to regress back to animal nature because of sex?

One major animal way is in the acting of the porn itself. Animals have sex in the open with strangers, just like pornography is filmed with the crew present, the nudity of the actors are in the open and actors are having sex with strangers.

But every new styles in porn are products of human imagination and all must not be discarded.

I agree the porn industry can be more regulated to preserve certain morals in the society but I don't believe we should discard every discovery from the imaginations.

Nothing wrong if married couples apply some of the new discoveries from the industry to their sexual life.

Helpout12345:


One major animal way is in the acting of the porn itself. Animals have sex in the open with strangers, just like pornography is filmed with the crew present, the nudity of the actors are in the open and actors are having sex with strangers.

But every new styles in porn are products of human imagination and all must not be discarded.

I agree the porn industry can be more regulated to present certain morals in the society but I don't believe we should discard every discovery from the imaginations.

All these to justify styles of sex? Ok o. Your opinion.

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?

Nlfpmod.

So like this now, you will not give your husband Mouth Action??

He can’t suck/lick your plate as well??

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?

Nlfpmod.

no verse in thr bible talks of which position is accepted by god. if there was sinful position then sex would be sinful in two ways 1 outside marriage and 2 the position it was done

Unfortunately the bible never said anything about a glorifying sex position or sinful position

Blessedmercy8:


Even with it, breakup still dey happen. So? It is not styles that keep marriage, Sir.

Forget story, the life span like 70% of marriage is sex oo, don’t write Good sex with styles off from the equation.

Should this even be an issue?
We Christians too they make our life hard like mad.
I’ve seen so called Christian couples who have refused to kiss in the public because it’s meant to be “private”
Simple have sex with ur spouse the way your libido carries you that moment and move on and focus on more pressing issues of life.

Who still Dey do missionary sef

Op, how many rounds does the Bible ask us to have??

ZIMDRILL:


no verse in thr bible talks of which position is accepted by god. if there was sinful position then sex would be sinful in two wats 1 outside marriage and 2 the position it was done

Ufortunately the bible never said anything about a glorifying sex position or sinful position

Op, show us in the Bible where it’s stated.

Bringing sodom and Gomorrah is wrong cos bible told us they involved in homosexuality and incest and other acts and not because of sex style.

You need to apologize to your married group in your church for trying to mislead them

Blessedmercy8:
The worldly couples will avoid this thread like a plague. SMH.

You’ve no right to call anyone “worldly” because your righteousness is like a filthy rag. You’re only saved out of Grace.

Treasure17:
Which one is missionary for goodness sake? Nah missionary school?

Missionary journey which almost killed Paul

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination. She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points.. One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

Dem tell una make una dey use una brain, but una no wan listen.

Jesus Christ told you lot, over 2000 years ago, that yout marriages - including your sex styles- are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - meaning they are not important at all. Instead what is is whether you obey the actual teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, or not.

culf:
sex is sex, I don't see anything wrong with any style couples chose to use as far as both parties are cool with it. God permits sex but didn't say we should do it in a particular way. You know how Adam and eve dey take knack?
What I may not agree with based on principle of God is anal sex.

Why do you say anal sex bad?

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm... So when you do doggy or what do you people call it, what are you implying? That you are now dogs? Isn't it?

Ride on

How do you know there's a style called doggy? Ndi holy

Aguiyimba:


How do you know there's a style called doggy? Ndi holy

She even said “what do you people call it”
Lol

Las las na self righteousness go kill this OP.

Na overly religious people I fear pass for this life... Funny thing is they talk and preach about what they themselves don't do in private.

Imagine saying other sex styles are sins as if there's a verse in the Bible where God specifically told couples to even do missionary styles..

Iliveforever:


She even said “what do you people call it”
Lol

Las las na self righteousness go kill this OP.

See, I've been ignoring you since you began taking this whole thing personal and acting like a deranged animal all over the thread but I won't have you throwing curses around my thread.

If you're not sensible enough to make your points without cursing, then quietly leave this thread.

For the records, I said it was my opinion and never stated it as matter of facts or that it's in the bible. Just stop disgracing yourself already cos from all indications, it shows you practice all the styles. Champion of nonsense!

Mr Righteousness has come made a sensible contribution to which I see reasons and I quite agree with him because he made a lot of sense and because we learn every day I'm not discarding anyones submission on this issue. Learning from everyones opinion. So stop with the campaign without election already.

If we check now, he's not married but here crying more than the bereaved.