Shokoloko:

In response to the bolded, women typically know the kind of man they married.
Its not difficult to know if a man will stick with you or abandon you.
The problem is that women do not calm down and listen to their intuition.
If your husband will abandon you - your spirit will tell you. A woman in that situation should start to put her house in order because he will leave.

HarunaWest:
A man takes a woman abroad and enrolls her in an expensive nursing school program and you are here talking about intuition et al?

Stereo99:
Those men bleeped up by doing the dirty business themselves ,simps will keep learning the hard way .

USA is so big that you can put a bag on her head ,and all this gangsters go use her count as body

Shokoloko:

If you read carefully you will see that I am neither in support of ungrateful men or women. Women get betrayed as much as men do. Nobody says do not bring your husband or wife over, but allow them stand on their feet by themselves.

A similar thing happens here in Nigeria where a person will sponsor a fiance/ fiancee in school and then get dumped after the person graduates - I am against it.

I personally will not want my son or grandson to sponsor someone over here and start to fund school fees of the person. Why?

I once refused to matchmake girl with a young guy because I viewed her as someone who will be a chronic dependent, unwilling to do anything for herself.
In the same vein, I have also discouraged a girl from bringing a man over here because terms of in income, mentality, education they are not matched.

I am not in support of any of the parties. But the men should wise up and go to nursing schools themselves. At the root of this whole palaver is money.

Shokoloko:

You digress, my dear one.
Please read again

Shokoloko:

Young man, it doesn't work that way. What you see in movies is so different from real life. Those African-American gangsters will not help an African murder their spouse. Why should they get into trouble because of him?
How much will he pay them that their illegitimate business will not provide in one or two weeks for them?

Shokoloko:

Young man, it doesn't work that way. What you see in movies is so different from real life. Those African-American gangsters will not help an African murder their spouse. Why should they get into trouble because of him?
How much will he pay them that their illegitimate business will not provide in one or two weeks for them?

MALIGNANTGuest:
Who still copies this STORY and always pastes it on Nairaland? This is almost the Tenth time!

Shokoloko:
First off, these men are foolish. Why can't they go to nursing school themselves? Is there something that prevents them from being nurses and making the most money in the home?
While i understand that couples should sacrifice for each other, do they need a brain to tell them that you must stand first before helping others to stand otherwise you and everyone else will slip - which is exactly what happened here.

youngsahito:
why are the women Bleep**g ungrateful to their husband, did she travel to USA on her own or na her papa do visa and paid for flight. Why can't those selfish and greedy women try and help the family with their income rather than turning their husband to househelp and reduce them to nothing. But women will surely be women. Crazy set of stupid and wicked ideas plenty for their head. sora fun obirin!!!

akwesenana:
This shokoloko person decided to heap all the blame on men. My father sponsored my mum's education through nursing school. Years later, when he was retired and depending on meagre pension and she was earning big, she started showing attitude subtly. This are people who never dreamt of migrating.
Now the husband of my brothers friend is planning so that she joins him in US. She like to dey disguise but as a real gee, I don decode say she get very bad attitude. Goodluck to him.
Authority: Invest in your blood; children, siblings etc. If her father can't train her, don't marry her.

Franzinni:
here is the mind of a mordern woman ... The nursing you are yapping about... Everything women do as nurses the guidelines and protocols that women hold so dear was written and tested by men... Even the phone you used to type this rubbish was made by a man ... The roads you drive on by men the house you live in by men the internet you use to insult men ... Was invented and made available to you by men ... The softwares and apps by men even nairaland by men ... I wonder when women will finally get it .. you can't be a man even if you try why not be the best woman and help a man grow not compete with men becasue frankly men NOR SEND unah... When it gets to the point that men have had enough, they will result to war and at that point women will finally understand what a man is ... It's might be too late to turn back then becasue most men would have embraced the equality rubish that is being peddled by feminists.... Phew that said now let me go and read what the long story.

Hintona:


*Yawn

Shut up abeg!

What have black men contributed to the progress of humanity?
Don't try to covert the achievements of white men under the guise of "men"
Thief!