Sisters, hello to all of you just ask you if you wish you could have a big family and stay at home to raise them or having about 2 kids and bulding a carreer, of course our brothers can give their opinion because you are potential fathers, or already

Peace to everyone

Nayah
Can i love u again

MMM can you answer the question 

I would have 2 kids and build a career. Being a house wife bores so much as you will only be home thinking about raising kids but for a career, you will meet challenges, new people and you will have a fun life.

^^^^^^smdh

M M M:

Nayah
Can i love u again
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op if God gives me money my wife wouldnt work but will stay with my 3 kids at home

Nassiwa I think we feel the same way, I 'd love having children but not staying at home because I probably miss working , I know raising oyur children is a full time work too but I think I need to separate my work life from my family life

Nayah:

MMM can you answer the question 

which question

mmm talking about the topic
Claremont hello, I quite agree but you know some people prefer raising their children and be closer to them in order to not miss any sign of deviation

nayah

how many marks does d question have

Is dat ur questiòn our text or exam

mmm use your smart brain

^^
Hmmmm
Am waiting 4 u

Theres nothing wrong with staying at home with your babies and small children. They are as important as a career. Claremont, cavemen days??  

Taking a break from a career to raise kids, or doing both part time, could compromise these things well. But a full time mom with young kids is also an honor .In my opinion.

talina:

Theres nothing wrong with staying at home with your babies and small children. They are as important as a career. Claremont, cavemen days??

They are MORE important than any career.

claremont:

^^^^
It is only during the days of the cave men that women traditionally played the role of a full-time house wife. A modern lady should have strong career goals that motivate her, raising kids is not a career goal in my opinion. AN ideal lady is she who is able to balance her quest for career fulfilment, and the Herculean task of raising a family at the same time.

Men, during that time were more responsible and know what their duties were. But now, just because women have decided to also be the breadwinner, they (men) have thrown caution to the air, and think it is the womans' responsibility to work and raise the kids.

ha! don't let dayo hear you o. we have too many malenazis and male cabals around, a woman must work o. raising children is not a job.
she must bring home a huge bacon, i mean one that can choke him or else, she is in huge trouble from oga

ronkebp:

They are MORE important than any career.

@Topic
With all these broke azzed dudes we have littered everywhere, I don't think it is possible. They all marry women to support them, they are finding it difficult paying their rents or mortgages alone.

armyofone:

ha! don't let dayo hear you o. we have too many malenazis and male cabals around, a woman must work o. raising children is not a job.
she must bring home a huge bacon, i mean one that can choke him or else, she is in huge trouble from oga

Abi naaa, na to bring home very! very!! huge bacon, don't mind Dayo, what does his 'bachelor-self know", infact i think he has pinned a lady down or has repented from his ways. , that is why he does not post much amymore, if not he for don attack us, for hia!

^^ Dont count your chickens yet

I Dayokanu co-sign claremonts opinion.

Any human being who forsake a career is a waste to humanity and plain LAZY

^^^^^^^^^Toh!!!! ai sun dawo kenan!!!!

Armyofone, abunde kin fada!! kena !!! sai su yi magana, domin kudi!! baasu de hankeli!!! (armyofone hope you can read it ?

ronkebp:

^^^^^^^^^Toh!!!! ai sun dawo kenan!!!!

Armyofone, abunde kin fada!! kena !!! sai su yi magana, [size=18pt]domin[/size] kudi!! baasu de hankeli!!! (armyofone hope you can read it ?

I would be glad to oblige your request in bold.

So which hotel should be us?

Shebi o fe kin do e ni?

^^^^^ you see now, that is why i run away from you, shey you cannot have a decent converstaion without you harrassing a married woman?

No be my fault

ikebe e lo n da mi lorun

Shikishiki re lo wu mi mu ni

When you sef pack something meant for 2 ppl, you leave human beings like me with no choice

dayokanu:

No be my fault

ikebe e lo n da mi lorun

Shikishiki re lo wu mi mu ni

When you sef pack something meant for 2 ppl, you leave human beings like me with no choice

Sorry you tread too late, it is meant for one and only one, pele you hia, Tpia **** is enough for you, stop trying to cheat on her,

dayo, same ol' same ol' gotta give it to him.
Ronke, none at all eh, wetin girl go do if not to roll eyes. you know nigeria women are very hard working. stay at home and raise kids is a full time job, that's my take.
dayo is taking 2 or 3 jobs while wifey stay home with the kids.

ronkebp:

They are MORE important than any career.

Yes,  why I said taking a break from your career to raise kids, or only working part time is a good thing.

armyofone:

dayo, same ol' same ol' gotta give it to him.
Ronke, none at all eh, wetin girl go do if not to roll eyes. you know nigeria women are very hard working. stay at home and raise kids is a full time job, that's my take.
dayo is taking 2 or 3 jobs while wifey stay home with the kids.

Aint I lucky that you would be my wife? I wont marry any lazy woman thats why i am marrying a soldier

Old soldier never die

hahahahaha, i like that ol' soja no dey die. by the time i deal with you finish eh, you go know say that saying is real and khaki no be leather.

i know what I am getting into with you also Khaki can never be the same as your leather I beat up regularly

I agree with you Nasiwa being a house wife can be so boring, your mind can not think beyond your home, even if you studied your career and dreams are shattered because you are home, but doing two things at a go can be amazing and i love those challenges