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My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Pojomojo: 8:48pm On Dec 18, 2022
MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE...

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.
Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one,

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A
pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.
But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!
I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you
my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.
May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you in Jesus.

Copied!

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Osobi32(m): 8:56pm On Dec 18, 2022
Chai..... What a wonderful advice from a loving father. God pls bless and guide every single man out there looking for a wife..... Keep us away from wolf's coz they are always lurking around looking for an innocent man to destroy.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by SWATMan: 9:14pm On Dec 18, 2022
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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by SWATMan: 9:15pm On Dec 18, 2022
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What are some things you realize as you get older?

No women is perfect.

If I choose a Submissive woman, I must accept that she depends on me.

If I choose a beautiful woman, I have to accept expenses too.

If I choose a working woman, I must accept that she cannot handle full household chores.

If I choose a housewife, I must accept that she doesn't earn.

If I choose a great woman, I have to accept that she is tough and firm.

If I choose a Brave woman, I must accept that she has thoughts of her own.

A woman has her “Good things" that defines who she is and makes her unique. Don't give a woman any reason to think you are going to settle down with her even if you didn't confess it. When you cohabitate with a woman she gets the impression that you want to spend your life with her.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by NastiLord: 7:13am On Dec 19, 2022
A billion dollar advice.
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by fman(m): 8:06am On Dec 19, 2022
Ancient advice in a modern world!!

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by nnamdi640: 8:26am On Dec 19, 2022
Most women can hid there truth Identity for long. Above all this is a good advice any good parent will give their children when it comes to choosing a partner. Again don't marry a lady because of the shape of her breast or her ass.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Kiddogarcia(m): 8:52am On Dec 19, 2022
Fortunately for people like us.
There are girls with yansh,brezz and sense too bruh.
Na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement tho

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by CodeTemplar: 10:40am On Dec 19, 2022
Woman matter is complex matter.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by DontBullshitMe: 10:57am On Dec 19, 2022
This is the 5,345,876th time I will be reading this.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Karlifate: 11:03am On Dec 19, 2022
Interesting read. wink

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Rickmann: 1:47pm On Dec 19, 2022
Pojomojo:
MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE...

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.
Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one,

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A
pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.
But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!
I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you
my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.
May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you in Jesus.

Copied!

Wow..the most priceless gift a father could have given a son.

I pray God gives me a loving wife and a wonderful mother to our kids.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Tayorshd2(m): 2:13pm On Dec 19, 2022
It's well but in this recent years or days where can you find such because social media has turn all our girls to olosho,

Also breaking many marriages between a year ,

Marriage don't last anymore,
Girls are not submissive anymore
Infact some lady like d one have mistakenly preganted now once told me we have 50/50 chance authority in a home ..

May God help us
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by faithfull18(f): 2:24pm On Dec 19, 2022
Tayorshd2:
It's well but in this recent years or days where can you find such because social media has turn all our girls to olosho,

Also breaking many marriages between a year ,

Marriage don't last anymore,
Girls are not submissive anymore
Infact some lady like d one have mistakenly preganted now once told me we have 50/50 chance authority in a home ..

May God help us
Lol, mistakenly pregnanted indeed.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Tayorshd2(m): 4:25pm On Dec 19, 2022
faithfull18:

Lol, mistakenly pregnanted indeed.


My brother is well
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Kooldon(f): 7:11pm On Dec 19, 2022
Different strokes for different folks

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by jeromestarks: 7:18pm On Dec 19, 2022
You father didn't mention virgins because most girls in his time are virtuous women in waiting. If not, he would have advised you to marry a virgin.

Things have changed now. Girls don't have respect for their body anymore.

Be wise, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Emmanuel909090: 7:55pm On Dec 19, 2022
Nice
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Pojomojo: 6:00am On Dec 21, 2022
undecided
fman:
Ancient advice in a modern world!!
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Pojomojo: 6:02am On Dec 21, 2022
Tayorshd2:
It's well but in this recent years or days where can you find such because social media has turn all our girls to olosho,

Also breaking many marriages between a year ,

Marriage don't last anymore,
Girls are not submissive anymore
Infact some lady like d one have mistakenly preganted now once told me we have 50/50 chance authority in a home ..

May God help us
angry
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by lavylilly: 4:28am On Jan 29, 2023
wink
Rickmann:


Wow..the most priceless gift a father could have given a son.

I pray God gives me a loving wife and a wonderful mother to our kids.
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by efficiencie(m): 12:37pm On Jan 29, 2023
Pojomojo:
MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE...

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.
Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one,

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A
pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.
But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!
I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you
my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.
May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you in Jesus.

Copied!

To cut the long story short:

virgin & submissive & wise = wife
not (virgin & submissive & wise) = problem

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Pojomojo: 3:00pm On Feb 01, 2023
undecided
efficiencie:


To cut the long story short:

virgin & submissive & wise = wife
not (virgin & submissive & wise) = problem

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