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Sundaycomputer:
This life is a mystery

Bro, it is indeed!

Don't consider marriage if you aren't mature yet. Financial responsibility is a huge party of maturity.
You just got married and you are already begging? Do you not see that something is wrong?
Your wife is whom I pity.

Rather than paying to stay in the hotel you both are presently lodged in, you ought to have used that money to rent one room so you could have a roof over your head while working on earning to rent a bigger space with less pressure because it is not even certain you are going to raise the expected funds by January ending........count what you have remaining and go rent a room.

I can't believe I just read this.

Abizz:
Don't consider marriage if you aren't mature yet. Financial responsibility is a huge party of maturity.
You just got married and you are already begging? Do you not see that something is wrong?
Your wife is whom I pity.

I lost my job, we had the dates fixed by then and I had to leave were I was working to Makurdi. It's a long story. Thanks for the words.

Matinox:
I lost my job, we had the dates fixed by then and I had to leave were I was working to Makurdi. It's a long story. Thanks for the words.

Well houses are cheap in Benue state.
Obi local government, as at 2017 when work took me there briefly, single room self-con (tiled and gated) was 24k. That same year, a very standard two bedroom apartment cost my company less than 180k in the heart of Makurdi. Self-cons and single rooms are relatively cheap, like very cheap. Stop putting pressure on yourself, get a room. Lucky you, feeding won't be a problem because foods are extremely cheap as well too. Sorry for your job loss by the way.

You are putting pressure on yourself bro. You and your wife should go back to your parents house, and stop wasting money on lodging.

stacyadams:
I can't believe I just read this.

Honestly....like na by force

Biblically, your responsibility is food, clothing and shelter. For your family. Be serious so your wife doesn't divorce you. Move to your in-laws house so they will know the kind of man that married their daughter. No vex.

Cut your coat according to your size

Praisepriest:
Biblically, your responsibility is food, clothing and shelter. For your family. Be serious so your wife doesn't divorce you. Move to your in-laws house so they will know the kind of man that married their daughter. No vex.

Thank you

God will help you .. but you're not helping yourself

Funny you.You get money to rent a room.But na self contained be your taste.Oloju Kokoro.

Internet begging redefined...

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And some people take loans just to get married.
I ain't getting married when I'm not financially stable.
Imagine your wife come d cheat on you just to satisfy her financial needs inside the marriage were you never pay the money you borrow to do the marriage

Things are happening o, but all these stories looks like fiction.

I can't rely I just written this

abfelicity91:
And some people take loans just to get married.
I ain't getting married when I'm not financially stable.
Imagine your wife come d cheat on you just to satisfy her financial needs inside the marriage were you never pay the money you borrow to do the marriage

Anyone who takes a loan to fund a wedding ceremony should be arrested and beaten at the city centre to cure their foolishness.

Don't you have relatives and close friends? If your first point of seeking help is a public place, you seriously need to reconsider the so called relationships you keep.

In my candid opinion, this isn't a major issue that requires public support. You and your wife should contact your own people for assistance, unless of course both of you have been horrible to the people you know.

Op, you're a fool.

See stress..
You don't have a house and you did a wedding? Why the rush? Who you want impress?
Isn't it better if you're both single individuals trying to sort themselves out than a duo bearing each other's burden and responsibilities with zero resource?…

It's the audacity for me

Chummynoni:
You are putting pressure on yourself bro. You and your wife should go back to your parents house, and stop wasting money on lodging.

Best advise so far

Abizz:
Don't consider marriage if you aren't mature yet. Financial responsibility is a huge party of maturity.
You just got married and you are already begging? Do you not see that something is wrong?
Your wife is whom I pity.

He lost his job. Life happens.

May God make a way for you soonest

How about the family members from both sides of the union who came for the wedding? Are they also homeless and guests at the same hotel?

You guys have already started what was supposed to be a lifelong journey on a very very disastrous note.

No planning, nothing.

Na by force to marry?

Come on.

Matinox:
Bro, it is indeed!

Bro...I know it's late now but you should have sorted out accomodation before marriage. This is really waooo .

If you have reasonable family members and inlaws and you open up to them, they will likely have cut down the wedding expense or defer parts of it or spot you some cash to ensure the cart is not before the horse

This is very uncool bro

Abizz:
Don't consider marriage if you aren't mature yet. Financial responsibility is a huge party of maturity.
You just got married and you are already begging? Do you not see that something is wrong?
Your wife is whom I pity.

You took the words off me. Most times we blame our leaders for the situation the country is presently but if you look the other way, the ruled as well aren't helping matters.