toba:

bump. im still available for grabs

better wake up from your dreams

Hehehehehe. . interesting thread. . .
I was laughing hard reading you guy's specifications for husband/wife. . .

okay mine. . .

u are sooooooooo late!!!!!!!!!

1. Must be muslim. . . (Hijab great. . .scarf at least for a start. ,  should be willing to learn more about Islam. . .should be aspiring to be better)

2. Beautiful (Dark or light skin. . .I'm game. . .!. . .Not too short tho  )

2. Smart and Brilliant

3. Good halal dress sense

5. Self confidence


4. Good command of English language. . . (O nessecary gan. . !  )

11. Should be understanding too

13. Most importantly. . .friendly!!!!! (I have to marry a "friend" not a wife  )

CLASSIC 

6. Well, I used to be crazy about programmers like me, but now I'm indifferent. . . but I just love programmer ladies. . . )

so your children can become gurus abi 

7. Family oriented. . .

expatiate please!

8. Good cook - even though very few girls cook better than me. . hehehe (see me boasting sha. . . )

seriously 

9. Not too "lepa" (thin)and not too fat. . 

10. Should be able to take initiative or leadership of a process in my absence not waiting for me to speak all the time. . .

Independent woMAN .

12. Should be very very ready to be a globe trotter

pity those children nahhhhhhhh. well, many nija peeps see dat as igbaladun. dr shld b no problem wv it.



Anywayz,  .will update the "Terms of Reference" for my future Umu Abdul Basit [/b]when i remember

u aint letting her av a say in d name   





[b]#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

as if any1 cares 

olawalebab:

Javalove, i pray you get a lady that will meet all your criteria

Amin ooooo my brother. . .amin e po. . .and you too   

deols:


u are sooooooooo late!!!!!!!!!

I know. . .i know. . .i "nairaland" less these days. . .

CLASSIC 


[

color=#770077]so your children can become gurus abi  [/color]

Yes na. . .but i'm not hell bent on that anymore o jare. . .

expatiate please!

By family oriented, I mean someone who puts our family (emi, owun ati awon omo) first and not self, and not her job. . .she should be ready to make sacrifices for the peace and tranquility of the home, she should be a source of happiness to the entire household by her attitude. . that way, I won;t get tired of her. . .I will always long for her presence and company. . .she should me more of a friend than a wife. . .She should show more love to the kids than to me. . . Same applies to me too. . .

seriously 

Yep. ,  abi o fe try mi ni. . .

Speak deols,  .speak. . .

Independent woMAN .

Kind of. . .

pity those children nahhhhhhhh. well, many nija peeps see dat as igbaladun. dr shld b no problem wv it.

Nothing will happen to the kids insha Allah. , 
And if quitting my job is what will make the family nice, pas de problem. . .
These kinds of issues are discussed by "two" and not one. . .

u aint letting her av a say in d name   

Lol. . .you are one "to the last detail" kinda girl eh?. . .Okay, thats my wish. . .of course the woman that carried the baby for a little over 270 days must have a say. . .

#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

as if any1 cares 

I smell beef. . .



Now take this. . . .



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

Nothing will happen to the kids insha Allah. ,
And if quitting my job is what will make the family nice, pas de problem. . . Grin
These kinds of issues are discussed by "two" and not one. . .

interesting apart from d bolded. .

Amin ooooo my brother. . .amin e po. . .and you too

my brother that is a good prayer you just made for me

deols:

better wake up from your dreams

was i talking to u? why dont u just ignore me? i said im not becoming a muslim.

so u read dat from my post

yes i did. may be not here but some where else

okay, i was only hopn for d best 4 u sha. .

toba:

was i talking to u? why dont u just ignore me? i said im not becoming a muslim.

so wu were u talking to u definitely ddnt mean Olawalebabs . . dat wld be too hmmmmmmmmn!!!!!!! LOL.

why do u want to know who i was talking to? are u jealous that i could be taken away by someone else?

deols:

interesting apart from d bolded. .

Kilode. . .? I can always get another job na. . . so u can't sacrifice ur job ehn?




#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

oh la la

mukina2:

oh la la

what's wrong with this one. . .?


#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

dey dia dey ask me

U muslims have refused to find me a wife abi? wait and see what im going to do in this section

mukina2:

dey dia dey ask me

u don't bother posting ur own "terms of reference"oooo cos i already know. . .

toba:

U muslims have refused to find me a wife abi? wait and see what im going to do in this section

Lol. . .upon all the wife-able posters in the christian section. . . anywayz, if you are serious, i can arrange mukina2 for you. . .no jokes



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

javalove:




Lol. . .upon all the wife-able posters in the christian section. . . anywayz, if you are serious, i can arrange mukina2 for you. . .no jokes



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

My bro, im willing and ready to take up the challenge. can i give u my email? Do u have her Facebook contact for me to go after her on facebook?

toba:

why do u want to know who i was talking to? are u jealous that i could be taken away by someone else?

someone else? are u saying there is some1 already? tell me about her plsssss

javalove:

Kilode. . .? I can always get another job na. . . so u can't sacrifice your job ehn?




#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

na so job plenty ?? ow d'u do ur trotting then ?? I am dedicated to my job for their sake too.

Seriously, any sacrifice is worth the while God help u!

deols:

someone else? are u saying there is some1 already? tell me about her plsssss

yes and No

toba:

My bro, im willing and ready to take up the challenge. can i give u my email? Do u have her Facebook contact for me to go after her on facebook?

Go and take shaádah in a mosque closest to you. . .then come back. . .

deols:

someone else? are u saying there is some1 already? tell me about her plsssss   

na so job plenty ?? ow d'u do your trotting then ?? I am dedicated to my job for their sake too. 

Seriously, any sacrifice is worth the while  God help u!

Well I'm just saying. . .one person has to quit his/her job cos one thing I can never do is live far apart from my wife. . .if my job pays the family more, I keep it else i lose it. . .BTW I was self employed before leaving naija,  .

We can always trot when we want to. . .enough holiday cities. . .Mumbasa. , Zanziber. . .Vic. falls. . .etc,  lol. . .aye dun je ju iya lo"



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

mukina2:

if u open that ur rabbit mouth ehn?. . . just seal ur lips up on this thread ooooo



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

toba:

yes and No

toba, i know u more than u thnk I do. Stop trying to be elusive  

Go and take shaádah in a mosque closest to you. . .then come back. . .

soon he'll do dat IA  

Well I'm just saying. . .one person has to quit his/her job [/b]cos one thing I can never do is live far apart from my wife. . .if my job pays the family more, I keep it else i lose it. . .BTW I was self employed before leaving naija,  .

really   In ds era?? d level of trust must be truly strong o. Me will neva do dat for any reason. wat happens if d oda partner loses his job, dies or worse, settles for divorce. #just saying#

We can always trot when we want to. . .enough holiday cities. . .Mumbasa. , Zanziber. . .Vic. falls. . .etc,  lol. . .[b]aye dun je ju iya lo"

dat sounds good  

javalove:

if u open that your rabbit mouth ehn?. . . just seal your lips up on this thread ooooo



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

ah! ah! why now she's bn active on ds thread from d start and u want her to just seal it up now ki lo de nan?

javalove:

if u open that your rabbit mouth ehn?. . . just seal your lips up on this thread ooooo



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

just nor find my trouble now oh

deols:


ah! ah! why now she's bn active on ds thread from d start and u want her to just seal it up now ki lo de nan?

na serial player he is scared

deols:


ah! ah! why now she's bn active on ds thread from d start and u want her to just seal it up now ki lo de nan?

Yap. . .have you noticed that since I came, she has not been responding well. . . . . . It's not her fault. . If i were her, I would feel the same way too. . .

mukina2:

na serial player he is scared

I've never heard this before in my life. . .Hajia Mukinatu. . please explain or forever seal your lips . .



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

mukina2:

just nor find my trouble now oh
na serial player he is scared

hmmn!!! now I get it

deols:

toba, i know u more than u thnk I do. Stop trying to be elusive  

smdh. im already a complicated fellow. my hrt has been broken twice in the last 5 days by 2 diff pple

toba:

smdh. im already a complicated fellow. my hrt has been broken twice in the last 5 days by 2 diff pple

u sure are very complicated. How did u manage to give ur heart to two diff pple in just five days? and esp to dose wu might break it. I seriously smih for u!!

what if i told u u are the im talking about?

javalove:

Yap. . .have you noticed that since I came, she has not been responding well. . . . . . It's not her fault. . If i were her, I would feel the same way too. . .




I've never heard this before in my life. . .Hajia Mukinatu. . please explain or forever seal your lips . .



#Javalove. . .unless otherwise stated. . .!

ta! i stopped posting on this thread some pages back when it was getting complicated
i fear you shiooor serial player
you sure you want me to explain? yeye

@ deols
nor mind am oh

@ toba
don't you think its bout time you bought shock absorber for your heart? #justsaying