Polygyny is making some sisters go crazy in their attitudes and actions. Recently a married sister told me that she would have gone deep into black magic to influence her husband against her co-wife if not for the several admonitions by her Ustaz warning her not to commit shirk. She then went ahead to narrate the story of a friend of hers who became the "Queen" of the house after seeking supernatural powers to secure preferential treatments over other wives. She said she would have emulated her misguided friend if not for the fear instilled in her heart against committing shirk by her Ustaz.
Just few days ago we heard of the true story of a sister in full jilbaab, who wanted to prevent her husband from taking a second wife. She carried some ritualistic food (ebo) to the junction of three major roads. As she was about crossing the road back she was hit by a car and died instantly!
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There was the story of a muslimah who decided to join the membership of witches in her area in her bid to fight spiritual battles with the incoming new wife of her husband and to punish her for coming to share her husband with her. The new wife was escorted with ruqyah prayers in the vehicle taking her to her husband's house immediately after nikah.
Perhaps the most pathetic was the case of the woman who used black magic to command the proposed wife of her husband to walk away into the bush and never to return. What the witchdoctors refer to as "alo ramirami". She decided to go for hajj to seek repentance but on getting to the masjidul haram in Makkah she couldn't see the Ka'aba then she burst into tears to confess her sins to her friends but it was too late as Allah didn't accept her repentance.
These are few examples of how some of our sisters are sacrificing their hereafter because they desire to have their husbands to themselves alone. Sisters should beware of this kind of evil obsession or possessiveness that can make them to commit shirk brazenly and end up in the hell fire. There is nothing to gain in this transient world that is worth losing your hereafter for. May Allah save us from the evils in our hearts and the evils of our actions. Amin.



Fuad-deen Olabisi Kekere-ekun.

Aamin.

Na'am.

May Allah grant us more understanding.

Bintdawood:
Polygyny is making some sisters go crazy in their attitudes and actions. Recently a married sister told me that she would have gone deep into black magic to influence her husband against her co-wife if not for the several admonitions by her Ustaz warning her not to commit shirk. She then went ahead to narrate the story of a friend of hers who became the "Queen" of the house after seeking supernatural powers to secure preferential treatments over other wives. She said she would have emulated her misguided friend if not for the fear instilled in her heart against committing shirk by her Ustaz.
Just few days ago we heard of the true story of a sister in full jilbaab, who wanted to prevent her husband from taking a second wife. She carried some ritualistic food (ebo) to the junction of three major roads. As she was about crossing the road back she was hit by a car and died instantly!
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There was the story of a muslimah who decided to join the membership of witches in her area in her bid to fight spiritual battles with the incoming new wife of her husband and to punish her for coming to share her husband with her. The new wife was escorted with ruqyah prayers in the vehicle taking her to her husband's house immediately after nikah.
Perhaps the most pathetic was the case of the woman who used black magic to command the proposed wife of her husband to walk away into the bush and never to return. What the witchdoctors refer to as "alo ramirami". She decided to go for hajj to seek repentance but on getting to the masjidul haram in Makkah she couldn't see the Ka'aba then she burst into tears to confess her sins to her friends but it was too late as Allah didn't accept her repentance.
These are few examples of how some of our sisters are sacrificing their hereafter because they desire to have their husbands to themselves alone. Sisters should beware of this kind of evil obsession or possessiveness that can make them to commit shirk brazenly and end up in the hell fire. There is nothing to gain in this transient world that is worth losing your hereafter for. May Allah save us from the evils in our hearts and the evils of our actions. Amin.



Fuad-deen Olabisi Kekere-ekun.

For the one that went to makka...how did you know Allah didn't accept her repentance...
Becareful not to earn Allah's anger by depriving His slaves of His Mercy with your words and actions.
No sin that can't be forgiven if you're still alive. Even shirk. As long as you're not dead and you repent sincerely before dead.. then there is hope

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Amin

Ameen.

Well done, and may Allah continue to strengthen us against the odds of this world and may we not die unless we are Muslim.

Alhamdulilah for the gift of Islam.

Sisters please be warned and be careful with your families and friends.

Any woman who goes against her husband marrying a second wife has drawn a battle against Allah.
2,3 or 4 wives is the will of Allah and all true believing women must accept this. May Allah continue to guide us. Amin

hamzeiy:


For the one that went to makka...how did you know Allah didn't accept her repentance...
Becareful not to earn Allah's anger by depriving His slaves of His Mercy with your words and actions.
No sin that can't be forgiven if you're still alive. Even shirk. As long as you're not dead.. then there is hope

You are indirectly encouraging more people to keep committing sin and it's a dangerous way to pass a message across.

Ignoramus will be encouraged by your comment.
They will be like let me commit all and any sins as long as I will repent later.

All sins have their own punishment whether or not you repented later on and it's only Allah that decide whether he wishes to totally forgive.

No how your sisters will lose jannah, since your god allah will transform your ladies to virgins each, so no how they will lose jannah

AntiChristian:
Aamin.

Na'am.

May Allah grant us more understanding.

Amin Ya Rabb

hamzeiy:


For the one that went to makka...how did you know Allah didn't accept her repentance...
Becareful not to earn Allah's anger by depriving His slaves of His Mercy with your words and actions.
No sin that can't be forgiven if you're still alive. Even shirk. As long as you're not dead.. then there is hope

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kaymart:

You are indirectly encouraging more people to keep committing sun and it's a dangerous way to pass a message across.

Ignoramus will be encouraged by your comment.
They will be like let me commit all and any sins as long as I will repent later.

All sins have their own punishment whether or not you repented later on and it's only Allah that decide whether he wishes to totally forgive.

So it's a lie then?.....it's just a make up story abi

Eifour:
Ameen.

Well done, and may Allah continue to strengthen us against the odds of this world and may we not die unless we are Muslim.

Alhamdulilah for the gift of Islam.

Amin Ya Rabb

kaymart:

You are indirectly encouraging more people to keep committing sun and it's a dangerous way to pass a message across.

Ignoramus will be encouraged by your comment.
They will be like let me commit all and any sins as long as I will repent later.

All sins have their own punishment whether or not you repented later on and it's only Allah that decide whether he wishes to totally forgive.

No bro, actually what he has written is the truth.

Allah's rahmah is vast and he has promised to forgive all sins, even shirk, if the sinner sincerely turns back to Him. Remember the story of the man that killed 99 people, and how he was eventually forgiven.

Sometimes as humans, we see some sins and think, ha this is so heinous, but that's our limitation. Allah is Al-Gafour and that's one of His seefaats, and he calls and encourages us to turn back to Him for forgiveness. He says in Surah Zumar (39:53) "Say, O My believing servants who have wronged themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah". Thus it is actually a sin to believe that Allah will not forgive ones sin if one sincerely repents.

Thus, that write-up about the sister that went to makkah, and whose sin was not forgiven is really problematic. In trying to discourage people from one evil, we shouldn't take away the opportunity of Allah's mercy from them either.

May Allah guide us to His mercy and forgiveness

Bintdawood:
Polygyny is making some sisters go crazy in their attitudes and actions. Recently a married sister told me that she would have gone deep into black magic to influence her husband against her co-wife if not for the several admonitions by her Ustaz warning her not to commit shirk. She then went ahead to narrate the story of a friend of hers who became the "Queen" of the house after seeking supernatural powers to secure preferential treatments over other wives. She said she would have emulated her misguided friend if not for the fear instilled in her heart against committing shirk by her Ustaz.
Just few days ago we heard of the true story of a sister in full jilbaab, who wanted to prevent her husband from taking a second wife. She carried some ritualistic food (ebo) to the junction of three major roads. As she was about crossing the road back she was hit by a car and died instantly!
.
There was the story of a muslimah who decided to join the membership of witches in her area in her bid to fight spiritual battles with the incoming new wife of her husband and to punish her for coming to share her husband with her. The new wife was escorted with ruqyah prayers in the vehicle taking her to her husband's house immediately after nikah.
Perhaps the most pathetic was the case of the woman who used black magic to command the proposed wife of her husband to walk away into the bush and never to return. What the witchdoctors refer to as "alo ramirami". She decided to go for hajj to seek repentance but on getting to the masjidul haram in Makkah she couldn't see the Ka'aba then she burst into tears to confess her sins to her friends but it was too late as Allah didn't accept her repentance.
These are few examples of how some of our sisters are sacrificing their hereafter because they desire to have their husbands to themselves alone. Sisters should beware of this kind of evil obsession or possessiveness that can make them to commit shirk brazenly and end up in the hell fire. There is nothing to gain in this transient world that is worth losing your hereafter for. May Allah save us from the evils in our hearts and the evils of our actions. Amin.



Fuad-deen Olabisi Kekere-ekun.

Aameen

Sisters need to be very careful with all these idealogies of nowadays.

We really still have a long way to go

The Garb really dealt with our idealogy

Lade18:


You could actually chose to be good and moderate with your words and approach

What I said has your hadith backup except if you want to claim that muhammad was not moderate in his words as the author of your glorious hadith

kaymart:

You are indirectly encouraging more people to keep committing sun and it's a dangerous way to pass a message across.

Ignoramus will be encouraged by your comment.
They will be like let me commit all and any sins as long as I will repent later.

All sins have their own punishment whether or not you repented later on and it's only Allah that decide whether he wishes to totally forgive.

Don't change the topic, the topic is who told you Allah has not forgiven her......as long as an individual bis not dead..every sin Can be forgiven by Allah. Do not make people loose hope of Allahs mercy as that might drive you to Allah,s wrath.
Allah said to Him Self that MY Mercy shall overcome my Anger...
Take the corrections and stop the argument.

hamzeiy:

Don't change the topic, the topic is who told you Allah has not forgiven her......as long as an individual bis not dead..every sin Can be forgiven by Allah. Do not make people loose hope of Allahs mercy as that might drive you to Allah,s wrath.
Allah said to Him Self that MY Mercy shall overcome my Anger...
Take the corrections and stop the argument.

Try Stop committing sins simple...