Godsown0:

Once debè always debè

Ficklemind:


Are my course mates my enemies? Does the picture mean I’m into them or they are into me? Don’t I take pictures with female friends too? Because he doesn’t feel comfortable with it doesn’t mean others will too.

Maybe you should check my previous post and see that I don’t flirt with random guys.

Have you received any money or gift from him since you guys separated??

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

send him a text or WhatsApp message saying "please stop calling/messaging my wife/fiancee, you're causing problems in our relationship and I might be forced to involve your wife in the matter"

Block him

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Stop Posting and Advertising Urself for sometime...or Block him for sometime if he Persists

You don't want to block him abi and you're here disturbing us, abeg shift in Kiriku's voice

Ficklemind:


This is so out of line. Have not even seen this guy in years, we don’t talk on phone neither do we VC or anything close. Now I know have been out of line.

Block him. Do it now. Don't let the sun set today on this matter.

Mademan7:

Have you received any money or gift from him since you guys separated??

No, I haven’t

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Can you just block him and move on?

He is trying to control and emotionally blackmail you.

Sixfeetbelle:


Block him. Do it now. Don't let the sun set today on this matter.

Blocked already

Mindlog:
You unconsciously still want the interaction, reason you don't want to block him and the talk of not wanting to "offend" him , when you are ready to severe all forms of communication.....you will know what to do.

one reason I can't leave nairaland. I remember how I was advised harshly till I borrowed sense never regretted it. Keep doing the good work

Mindlog:


Have you blocked him?

Sure I have

Ficklemind:



Blocked already

nairaland is goated. Congrats sis

Mindlog:
You unconsciously still want the interaction, reason you don't want to block him and the talk of not wanting to "offend" him , when you are ready to severe all forms of communication.....you will know what to do.

Some of you can easily block God from their life, but not the so called Ex. Very unfortunate.

Both of you! Mainly you!! Are not serious.

Block him and save yourself unnecessary pain. After all he's moved on .

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

I won't suggest that you cut off contact with your ex. Put him where he belongs in a decent way. This is what I'm saying because you never know when you'll need your ex. An ex saves me from this hide-and-seek game CBN is playing. My ex-girlfriend sent me cash in the form of raw currency, which I used for days even though I had to pay her back, I was unable to access my three accounts. People entered your life on purpose.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Block and delete his number olodo

DriveByKiller:
why are you deceiving yourself?

You're hypocritically pretentious and deadly.

See your whoring lifestyle below

* You still chat with your ex
* You still chat and send pictures with a married ex too
* You take pictures with random males
* They hold you romantically in this pictures

* You upload same to your status.

But you want us to believe you don't play any part in your ex's behaviour and honestly need our advice.

Thunder scrap your labia majora!

You don’t have to call me a names because I lack the understanding of not blocking my ex.

I never made mention of sending my pictures to him on my write-up.

I was a student, taking pictures with my male course mate is not a sin the last time I checked.

Holding hands is not a sin either.

It my status, I upload pictures from events with both females and males I took pictures with with no hidden agenda.


If you want to give advice, please do it politely .

Tell him you don't feel comfortable and that he should stop. If he refuses...BLOCK HIM

Prvntn bta dan cure they said.

advanceDNA:


U are still asking her.?..no be ur gender...??
U like to keep a men's attention even though u want nothing to do with them....u even enjoy it more when u are married cos it makes u feel good guys are still after you even though u are technically of the market...
.
. this thread is just a bragging thread and making herself feel good.....she's not here for any advice...

Kini big deal? Even your gender do it so what's new?
Since you want to be a sexist!I

You are not ready

Nazgul:
If you know what's best for you, better severe all ties with that guy, cos if you foolishly leave your communication lines with him open as you're currently doing, he'll keep flattering you until you fall one day and boom! Okafor's law would be activated.

Once okafor's law is activated, you wouldn't know what you're doing to yourself, because you're enjoying the moment. You feel you love him, and just can't let him go. He'll profess geninue love to you, because he badly missed your coochie and wants to keep drilling it. And you'll foolishly believe him.

Then you'll start having issues with serious guys who want a future with you because of him. You wouldn't be able to be completely honest with them, time after time, they'll keep seeing undeniable proof that you still keep contact with your ex, and one by one they'll walk out of your life because of a guy who's happily married.

At the end of the day, when your body must have depleted and every shred of beauty gone, your so call ex lover leave you to your fate and hopp back to his beautiful wife and kids. He'll post their pics on social media and thank God for the wonderful family he has.

You would have aged quite a bit and unfortunately discover that as the years went by, your admirers kept diminishing until you literally have almost no serious guy asking you out anymore.

You would want to go back to him, but at that point he'll be the one who would block you. He'll tell you he has given his life to Jesus Christ and wants to focus on his home, by becoming a good father and husband. You'll be depressed, suicidal, hateful and bitter because your illicit affair with him costed you a handful of potential suitors and a possible happy home.

A word they say is enough for the wise.

Bro you get time o. See as you calm down dey advise person wey logic dey far from. Anything that has to do with logic always count women out. Let her enjoy herself in peace.

Please, block him and move on with your life.
Someone who could not consider you fit for marriage six years ago will still use you as spare and dump you.
The young man is simply playing with your emotions. Avoid him completely so that God can give you your life partner.

Nobody is a kid here , you can as well block him except you want to be a side hen ,he will only pipe and swipe you ,abeg don't go and scatter somebody's home ,I know women supporting women na every every .

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

FashionCookie:

Kini big deal? Even your gender do it so what's new?
Since you want to be a sexist!I

Sexist?? because i said u women pretend alot is sexist? No vex

Just come out clean with us; you need someone to tell you that it's okay & he means no harm by being jealous of seeing you with other male companions or sending you photos of your old self you don't even remember?

Abi no be wetin you wan hear be dat?

Ma fren, if you don't block that MF right away on all avenues he's still able to communicate with or monitor you, that'll be you courting disaster. Even if he was your first love, saw you through school or bought you a car or even paid your rent for a couple of years that doesn't give him the right to stir up old feelings now that he's married.

Remember that you'll also be married one day (if that's your desire) & you'd hate for your husband to flirt with his ex who'd be probably finer & sexier than you after one kid.

Be properly guided please.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Block him.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Just politely tell him to stop. He had moved on, even married. You have your own life to live. If he doesn't respect your boundaries, then you have to block him everywhere