For Naija . . . . Helpless Girl Indeed.

No Punny No lift

Catch them young is my philosophy

I say yes. The more helpless, the better.

R U N for your life

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What kind of permission do you need to take from your wife again ? I tire for some men o

There is nothing wrong with helping out a girl by giving her a lift if you're comfortable with it and your intentions are good ie just to help her; but most guys see it as a "free fish in the net" opportunity and want to capitalise.

If you're genuinely trying to do her a favour, you dont need congressional approval to do that but if you have other things in mind then it's ''wrong''.

I'll press Ctrl+Ignore !!!

Mostly in Naija make I pull over to try help ham next thing cold pistol na him you go feel for back of ya neck. I dont do it!!!! Though depends on the neigbourhood and other circumstances. If I feel secure enough myself maybe. But very dangerous. In Lagos she'll get to the next bus stop and all of a sudden be ok and start making scene that you picked her up and f*cked her but dont wanna pay, though you promised N20k when you picked her from the hotel! Who wan help you know say na LIE?

I wouldn't take a lift from a stranger who is a man even if i was 'helpless' i would look for a woman with children or run for my life. Women no dey fear murder/rape/kidnapping nowadays lol. And hopefully I will marry a wise man who will think from all angles before giving anyone a lift e.g car jacking as shes getting in etc. As long as he is safe I will trust his judgement.

Ur concience serves u right

Most of the gals on road side dat pose like helpless person are fakes some are their just to hook up with a guy on a wheel

Not wrong, but not wise. So no, I would not do it.

If you're the type who picks up random women by the roadside for casual s.ex (some nigerian men are very fond of this habit), then continue until trouble happens.

If you're not the type who does such, then better not start what you cant finish because its your type who will do it and reap all the wahala that has been waiting for others who did it before you.

A word is enough for the wise.

Many of these girls are far more deadly than you could ever imagine and they're best handled by men of similar minds as them.

@Tpia
You put male as u'r statues but u'r comments is just 100% female. Why can't a married man help a lady in distress?.

Hmmmm, there's nothing wrong with it. A married dude gave me a lift from delta to phc cos he didn't want to drive alone. We didn't even know each other. We gisted, ate plenty snail and on getting to phc told each other bye bye. N̶̲̥̅̊o exchange of numbers. Best trip til date. So we all ought to be disciplined and have integrity as married men and single ladies, who will one day get married as well.

It is risky. Married or not married. It could be a trap to get you kidnap or attack by armed robbber or the girl could be an agent of darkness trying to seduce you.However, if you are in a christian gathering, you could take the risk. Watch and pray. God bless you. God2man.

God2man, ahah.

chines4:

Why can't a married man help a lady in distress?.

like i said, its a common habit with nigerian men.

the lady doesnt even have to be in any kind of distress.

Cases abound where seemingly helpless girls were given lifts by unsuspecting men only for the ladies to turn around at the point of being dropped off screaming "pay me my money, you do finish u no wan pay? Onlookers abeg make una help oooo"!!! If u like, lift "helpless" girls, no be person go advise u next time.

from my own experience in naija, most times giving lifts equals a s.ex deal.

its called lift and its no more or no less than that.

i rarely took lifts from strangers anyway - i can just imagine how happy the ever watchful detractors would have been to report to my dad that i was p.rostituting.

when they were already waiting for me to carry belle, i should now oblige them the more?

eni tan fe sun je ton fi epo para.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, you just have to be smart and consider the environment. An obviously married man helped me some time ago and I'm eternally grateful; saved me from trekking a long distance.

^^what about next time?

how will you get to where you're going.

just curious.

if helpless is
Her car is broken down,her cell phone is dead,miles to the next bus stop,has no money,very bad weather outside, no problem.

A man can also need help, and i think it would be more wrong to not offer assistance to someone just because he's male.

Married or Single,male or female not a wise decision.

The most I can offer anyone is money,that wud be done fast too,won't spend a minute listening to any sob story or let you in my car either.When its dark all men are black.I'd rather be cautions than sorry.

true, naija man must take advantage of any situation with their ever itchy long thomas

tpia@:

like i said, its a common habit with nigerian men.

the lady doesnt even have to be in any kind of distress.

tpia@:

^^what about next time?

how will you get to where you're going.

just curious.

Lost my way that day and could'nt have gotten a cab around plus i was'nt sure of the exact place i was directed to. I now know my way around there and would'nt be in that situation again.

hmm, ok.

people are grown so nothing is anyone's business really.

If you are married and your wife is not in the car?
Sorry, please leave temptation outside your car door. If you must, then she should sit at the back or something so there is no room for flashing.

It would look too weird if someone who knows you sees you and a girl in your car.
This is how rumors start and spread.

-thus saith wisdom

My answer to this topic is NO.Especially in our country,where evil is a daily occurrence.Married men should be careful enough and not be tempted to give such help to a strange girl you don't know very well.You see there is nothing wrong in assisting some one or a girl that is in need of help.but some wicked girls take advantage of the kindness shown to them and put these men into various troubles and embarrassments.The word of God says that: the heart of man is deceitful and desperately wicked .Some times ago,a man decided to help a young lady by giving her lift As the man parked his car at a nearby bus stop for this girl to alight and go her way,this young lady held the man on his shirt.shouting that this man had fun with her and refused to pay her.

^^^So you mean your answer to the topic is Yes.

Your example is just one of those reasons. "White Knights" in the area will believe the "helpless" girl over you if she decides to be evil.