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A relationship is a close connection between two people of the opposite sex, especially one involving romantic or sexual feelings.

The two feelings (romance and sex) that connects two people of the opposite sex in a relationship outside of marriage is what the Bible calls immorality, fornication and adultery. God warns against these feelings.

What relationship do you need as a single? This is a question that calls for urgent answer because the temptation to have a partner of the opposite sex outside the confines of marriage is intense. The relationship you need as a single is the relationship with God.

If put in proper perspective and given due diligence and seriousness, the relationship with God will occupy the desires of a single’s mind so that all other relationships becomes a distraction.

When a single has a relationship with God he/she avoids any relationship that involves the two feelings (romance and sex) that connects two people of the opposite sex because he/she will understand that the feeling and act of immorality makes him unrighteous.

The body of man was created to glorify God and be holy. The soul(mind) of man was created to love God and his commandments. The spirit of man(heart) was created to worship God.

God instructs man to flee from sexual sin because he hates it. If we love what God hates that means we hate God.

There is no way we can hate what God hates and love what he loves if we do not submit ourselves, the Body, Soul and Spirit, to him.

How can we submit ourselves to God?

1. By using our spirit to believe in him. Accepting Jesus as God is surrendering the spirit to him.

2. Confessing our sins to Jesus with our mouth and asking for his mercy. and forsaking them. Confessing with our mouth also that Jesus is our Lord and Saviour and his blood was shed for our sins we are surrendering the body.

3. By filling our minds with his Word from the Holy Bible we are surrendering the mind to him.

4. By praying for the Holy Spirit to fill us- Spirit, Soul and Body so that we are always Zealous and passionate about about Jesus and his lifestyle.

Further more, when we stop looking for love where it doesn't exist and start looking for it in God who is love himself we have two things:

1. Righteousness.
2. Peace.

These are the two greatest gifts that man needs and they are only found in the Christ never in Sin and relationships.

Submit yourself to Christ Now!