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Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by afbstrategies: 9:26pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:I suspect gambling or addiction that has to do with sniffing something. That’s why I don’t mess with those things. Sorry you found yourself in this mess. It’s hard to help someone who’s not telling you the truth. Kpele! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Abagworo(m): 9:26pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
He's a bet addict. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Chuksyno(m): 9:26pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Check very well, your husband must be a gambler, probably into visual leagues. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by SpecialAdviser(m): 9:26pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:Ok then. I know someone with this perfect description. Please don't quit. Don't be harsh either. Just find a marriage counselor. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by jericco1(m): 9:27pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
This is so painful |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by yusufmurry: 9:27pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Autobot05: Don't mind her. They are always fast just for the title that she is married. He used gambling money to marry her and she things all will be rosy. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kswine(m): 9:28pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: This Guy!!! SMH 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:29pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: You took a vow with him but you didn’t birth him. You birthed a baby and that’s the only person besides yourself that you need to take care of since he isn’t taking care of you. If you stay, he’ll never take you seriously or change. Separate from him immediately until he learns to be a man. If he doesn’t learn, move on. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by clockwisereport: 9:29pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Go to his browser and check his history. That will inform your decision. Your hubby is a chronic gambler |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Please do. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Unrated900(m): 9:34pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: The stain is gonna affect you too |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Kobojunkie: 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Kswine:1. Stop thinking that by attacking me you can somehow change the Truth as declared by Jesus Christ in what is HIs Gospel. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Unrated900(m): 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Erickymania: U be woman abiiiiii Na una dey give bad advice |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:36pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
somehow:This is very sacrosanct |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by grandstar(m): 9:41pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me I would have advised you to divorce him and remarry but it is unscriptural to do if he hasn't hasn't been adulterous. Give him an ultimatum to change his ways or you would leave. Give a timeframe but no exact date. Let him know that any decision to stay for the time being will be conditional on him starting a Bible study. I would advise you both to start a Bible study with Jehovah's Witnesses. Their study has helped to change the lives of many spouses and marriages for the best. Men who were previously wife beaters, alcoholics, drug addicts, gamblers and so on were compelled to change their ways ( Read 1 Cor 6:9-11). During a jailbreak in one country, the warders observed that those who were in a progressive Bible study with Jehovah's Witnesses did not attempt to escape. The Word of God is powerful (Read Hebrews 4:12) We do not preach prosperity gospel which makes no sense as the Great Tribulation and Armageddon draws ever closer. Is it when destruction is coming you start accumulating wealth? ( Read Jeremiah 45:1-5). To start a bible study, visit jw.org and make a request. You can also attend our meeting. To find the nearest Kingdom Hall, visit jw.org Please, do not delay (Read 2 Cor 6:2) |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Xcelinteriors(f): 9:44pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Truly love is not enough. Men like this will always trap you with "love" and they are always very useless. The only thing they can offer is sex and "I love you" My dear sister, get yourself a job and leave him for good because he's never going to change. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by betshopagent(m): 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Yoruba women, una dey try. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Imagineers: 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
I am indeed soory for you please accept my sympathy I keep telling my daughters, there are only two types of men in this world. The first one has his brain on his shoulders while the second one has his brain between his legs You are married to a man who has his brain between his legs. Go out to make money. Your post reeks of entitlement. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
lilyheaven:things we do for love.....no one can imagine! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by sdbaba: 9:48pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Yes go with all your things because if you leave them behind he will definitely sell them all to foster his addictions. When he has cleaned himself up, he can come and re-marry you properly from your family house again. Dearlove2me: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by cloud(m): 9:49pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
For better for worse. That's the oath you took on the day you decided to settle down with him. This generation of marriages seem not to understand the implications of those words and take everything to be mere formalities. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by eroticecstasy: 9:49pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: It's either he excuse you or you excuse him, you can't and will never achieve anything if you're with that devourer. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Emmani360(m): 9:50pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
DearGorgeous:I seriously doubt someone this lost will have reasonable people that would still be close to him. It's one thing to be a chronic debtor and a different thing to be an arrogant chronic debtor cos how would he now behave towards friends that refuse to lend him money. As for you the complainant, I really just hope you didn't see all this signs before you married him. A girl that finds it easy to borrow money from different people is a huge red flag i never ignore in this my life cos no matter how much you provide for such person, he/she will still find a way to be in debt. If you saw this side of him and still married him just to get married then I can't advise you but if you were oblivious of this his nasty character then my sister, it's not too late to reevaluate the whole marriage of a thing. If you walk out, it might be enough shock for him to get his shit together and try and win you back if he truly loves you but if that doesn't happen then you can focus on your life and make good of your dreams cos it's not yet late for you to have a better life. As for us guys, the country is hard, make sure you can meet up to your own obligations before you decide to add someone to yourself cos it's easy for this borrowing of a thing to spiral out of control and before you know it, you are borrowing to pay debts. life is not a race between you and anybody |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by nedekid: 9:50pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Na wah. Unfortunately, you married a chronic onigbese, also one that cannot handle money ie finances. Possibly he gambles too. This really is even the problem Nigeria as a country has. People that cannot handle money, but get political positions. Billions is them kept under their care. That is why you will see a politician ruling poor folks yet using the little funds available to buy landcruisers, prados, hilux for convoys. One of my paddies has all the characteristics of your hubby, guess what? He is preparing to run for senate 2027. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by jessylaurel(f): 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Leave his sorry a** madam. He borrows money and you his lovely wife sort out his debts. Let me laugh first. Don't tell me you still make love after staving you food. Anyway I know one thing is they no fit advise woman wey dey in love continue with your inherited struggles . 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Duru009(m): 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
You wanted to marry, you see your Life...... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by IamtheTruth1(m): 9:52pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: It's obvious it is an addiction issue. Your husband has serious addiction. I can place my money on bet9ja... Gambling. That thing ruined people. The moment you don't know when to stop. You are gone. You spend your cash.you borrow and borrow and thr cycle continues... It's up to your husband to stop. Strong thing need do am make e eye clear. Me way dey advice you is currently fighting an addiction. It's not easy man. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
jaxxy:Another great response |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by rampantlover: 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Listen to the other side before passing judgement. We all know how women are. |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by jessylaurel(f): 9:54pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:Don't leave any pin or a trace of where you're going because the people he's owning will come for u. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Melagros(m): 9:56pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
DearGorgeous:You said the truth 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by jessylaurel(f): 9:57pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
IamANigerianMan: LOL...did I hear you say pray? Just imagine she's your sister will you tell her to pray. Even if she do dry fasting he won't change. You can't change a man that doesn't want to repent. 2 Likes |
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