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Hello
Can someone tell me what my bf means when he says:

1. Stay away from me
2. Focus on your things

BabyOku2022:
Hello
Can someone tell me what my bf means when he says:

1. Stay away from me
2. Focus on your things

It means EXACTLY that! ...
What's there to explain again? ...

Stop pestering him and get something doing with your life! ...

Pestering him?But we have been 2getha almost 10 months now,I really helped am a lot yet he complainin abt my onye oshi hustle.then he will b same person askin me 2 help am with onye oshi money...
Why he doin all these 2me while he admitted before he shuldnt treat me the way he been doing n Im nice n dont deserve all these.
But He said is all cos he is frustrated cos everyone want money from him n now he doesnt do runs like b4 so is hard for him

you are not trying to understand whats going on in the life of this frustrated man, and he therefore needs time to focus on his own hustle without you pestering/asking him for anything...so he advises you to do exactly what HE needs to do....aka stay away from you and focus on his own hustle.
remember, just because you guys are in a r/ship or you helping him, doesnt mean you dont annoy and/or frustrate this man.

Well I know exactly why he is frustrated,thats why ive been helpin him for quite a long time cos felt compassion for his situation.and yet still promised 2 help am again 2 go back 2 street deals so dat He can get enough chedda 2 help his family,stand on his feet n our rship to work out too by movin to better place n gettin married.
But at same time I also have my feelings,wanna be treated d way I deserve cos Im not old,im cute and he knows it