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Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 4:19pm On Apr 06, 2023
Hello sir
is it possible for me not to have access to my child because every steps being taking to address that has proved abortive, i would like to seek the opinion of the elders. What could make a spouse to prevent the other party from seeing his child under the Law and Child Right Act
Re: Access To My Child by SmileDance(f): 4:22pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
Hello sir
is it possible for me not to have access to my child because every steps being taking to address that has proved abortive, i would like to seek the opinion of the elders. What could make a spouse to prevent the other party from seeing his child under the Law and Child Right Act
Why is she keeping your child from you

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Re: Access To My Child by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:24pm On Apr 06, 2023
- if the spouse is a danger to the child
- if the court ordered the spouse to NOT have contact with the child
- if the spouse is a negative influence to the child
- if the spouse is abusive to the child

also remember, if you have a child with an unreasonable spouse, then that person can use any excuse to stop you from having contact with the child.
Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 4:26pm On Apr 06, 2023
A very complicated issues, like i have being in a relationship before the woman went away with my child, which i kept from her but she later discovered. but i did that because of series of rejection that i have suffered for disclosing that in the past
SmileDance:

Why is she keeping your child from you
Re: Access To My Child by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 06, 2023
Are you in Nigeria?
Re: Access To My Child by Pierohandsome: 5:03pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
A very complicated issues, like i have being in a relationship before the woman went away with my child, which i kept from her but she later discovered. but i did that because of series of rejection that i have suffered for disclosing that in the past
your statement is incoherent. Please clarify the bolded

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Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 5:05pm On Apr 06, 2023
Yes I'm in Nigeria
Mrmacdonald:
Are you in Nigeria?
Re: Access To My Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:24pm On Apr 06, 2023
SmileDance:

Why is she keeping your child from you

her reason doesnt matter unless if its coming from the courts

anything outside courts might be emotions, entitlement and tradition and culture beliefs

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Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 7:09pm On Apr 06, 2023
Please I would like you to explain this term "an unreasonable spouse" what parameters make a spouse to be unreasonable

MrBrownJay1:
- if the spouse is a danger to the child
- if the court ordered the spouse to NOT have contact with the child
- if the spouse is a negative influence to the child
- if the spouse is abusive to the child

also remember, if you have a child with an unreasonable spouse, then that person can use any excuse to stop you from having contact with the child.
Re: Access To My Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:18pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
Please I would like you to explain this term "an unreasonable spouse" what parameters make a spouse to be unreasonable


in simpe terms a person who make things difficult for no good reason

Usually a common thing on people who are now Exs

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Re: Access To My Child by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:22pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
Please I would like you to explain this term "an unreasonable spouse" what parameters make a spouse to be unreasonable

unreasonable spouse is someone who doesnt make any logical sense:
- he/she uses the child as pawn against you
- he/she prefers that the children suffer, just to spite you
- he/she doesnt want to go half way in divorce proceedings
- he/she would rather you die than divorce them
- he/she is bitter because you moved on after divorce
- he/she still wants to control you (using the children) even after divorce
...etc etc etc
Re: Access To My Child by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 06, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


unreasonable spouse is someone who doesnt make any logical sense:
- he/she uses the child as pawn against you
- he /she prefers that the children suffer, just to spite you
- he/she doesnt want to go half way in divorce proceedings
- he/she would rather you die than divorce them
- he/she is bitter because you moved on after divorce
- he/she still wants to control you (using the children) even after divorce
...etc etc etc
In other words an evil manipulating whor.e

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Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 7:39pm On Apr 06, 2023
Thank you very much I appreciate
MrBrownJay1:


unreasonable spouse is someone who doesnt make any logical sense:
- he/she uses the child as pawn against you
- he /she prefers that the children suffer, just to spite you
- he/she doesnt want to go half way in divorce proceedings
- he/she would rather you die than divorce them
- he/she is bitter because you moved on after divorce
- he/she still wants to control you (using the children) even after divorce
...etc etc etc

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Re: Access To My Child by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:21pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
A very complicated issues, like i have being in a relationship before the woman went away with my child, which i kept from her but she later discovered. but i did that because of series of rejection that i have suffered for disclosing that in the past

so she is keeping the child away from you because she just found out you had a another child before her? thats called being CHILDISH (no pun intended), as much as she has all the rights to be upset with you, using that child to punish you is very immature... as i wrote earlier, "using a child as pawn/to spite you" not knowing that she is hurting the child first and foremost.
Re: Access To My Child by frozen70(f): 9:02pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
Hello sir
is it possible for me not to have access to my child because every steps being taking to address that has proved abortive, i would like to seek the opinion of the elders. What could make a spouse to prevent the other party from seeing his child under the Law and Child Right Act

There must have been one or two ugly acts that leads to such denial

So let's hear the story from your side

You can decide to tell the whole story if you want
Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 10:08pm On Apr 06, 2023
Thank you very much Sir, when situation is like this what should I do?
MrBrownJay1:


so she is keeping the child away from you because she just found out you had a another child before her? thats called being CHILDISH (no pun intended), as much as she has all the rights to be upset with you, using that child to punish you is very immature... as i wrote earlier, "using a child as pawn/to spite you" not knowing that she is hurting the child first and foremost.
Re: Access To My Child by phidipe(m): 10:10pm On Apr 06, 2023
I can tell the story, but what is the way out if issue is like this

frozen70:


There must have been one or two ugly acts that leads to such denial

So let's hear the story from your side

You can decide to tell the whole story if you want
Re: Access To My Child by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:26pm On Apr 06, 2023
phidipe:
Thank you very much Sir, when situation is like this what should I do?

which country do you guys live in?
do you know where the child lives?
have you tried to go there?
what stops you from going to see your child?
have you tried to talk it out with baby mama?

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