And the fact is a lot of these infertility issues are because the highest percentage of the sperm of these men are not longer viable due to age, work, stress, smoking, e.t.c.

If most of these TTC women sleep with 22-25 yrs old young men, they would conceive instantly.

Twenty-one years is enough to birth a grown adult. Nothing dey the marriage again. The man wants fresh meat. He would’ve impregnated someone outside if children were the only issue. He doesn’t want her anymore.

poshestmina:
Ivf ?
Surrogacy?
Adoption?
divorce

FIXED
after 21 yrs of trying, the guy is just fed up of the marriage na

GboyegaD:
Thought you knew better.

let us be honest, its obvious the man wants out after 21yrs. why stick with someone you dont want anymore? didnt he try for 21yrs?

iHateFraudsters:


You guys and useless prayers.

Which story God wan change??

Why the same God no change her story for 21 years (2 decades) !!

In order to balance this world, we must have opposites.

Not all women must have children, not everyone must be happy on earth, not everyone must be rich

E.t.c

Hey, not everyone prayer works. But people filled with holy spirit can move mountain with their prayers. Mine will work for her.

Shapeaso:
■ Hey, not everyone prayer works. But people filled with holy spirit can move mountain with their prayers. Mine will work for her.

1. God said He does not answer the prayers of sinners; the petitions of the unrighteous is an abomination to Him. So, it matters nothing what a person claims to be filled with nor does it matter how , when or where the person prays, so long as he or she is not righteous, God will not answer any prayers said, not even prayers seeking forgiveness of sins.

Kobojunkie:
1. God said He does not answer the prayers of sinners; the petitions of the unrighteous is an abomination to Him. So, it matters nothing what a person claims to be filled with nor does it matter how , when or where the person prays, so long as he or she is not righteous, God will not answer any prayers said, not even prayers seeking forgiveness of sins.

Are you trying to say that i'm not righteous? Speak for yourself.

Shapeaso:
Are you trying to say that i'm not righteous? Speak for yourself.

All I did was state God's Truth regarding answers to prayers. According to God, He answers all --- not some---- of the prayers of the righteous; God delights in granting the heart desires of the righteous. What
▪︎ that means is that if God does not currently answer every single prayer of yours, you are not righteous.
▪︎ It also means that like everyone else, if isn't God that answers any of the other prayers you have previously thought were answered by Him as God is not a liar.

So, I guess I should ask you then. Are you holy and also righteous?

Kobojunkie:
All I did was state God's Truth regarding answers to prayers. According to God, He answers all --- not some---- of the prayers of the righteous; God delights in granting the heart desires of the righteous. What
▪︎ that means is that if God does not currently answer every single prayer of yours, you are not righteous.
▪︎ It also means that like everyone else, if isn't God that answers any of the other prayers you have previously thought were answered by Him as God is not a liar.

So, I guess I should ask you then. Are you holy and also righteous?

YES and are you holy and righteous too?

Shapeaso:
YES and are you holy and righteous too?

None, not yet!;

Shapeaso:
Hey, not everyone prayer works. But people filled with holy spirit can move mountain with their prayers. Mine will work for her.

Tell me another story pls

Kobojunkie:
None, not yet!;

Ok

Oga why not just take a second wife?

I guess you don't want her anymore.

JeffreyJunior:
Nnaa, I'm yet to have dinner so I don't have the strength to argue with you now.

Hahaha😂
Run o.
Kobo wey arguments dey high😂

mymadam:

This may surprise you and many others. I sincerely profess here and now that I am prepared to marry the woman immediately. If anyone has her contact info, please kindly shoot me an email. My word is my bond. Thank you 🙏🏽

I won't tell you to slow down.

And here's the empathy we were anticipating all along.....

MrBrownJay1:
the man doesnt want you any longer, go your merry way, abeg, let him find a fruitful wife to bare him some children... not everybody want to have several wives at home.

Saga16:

I won't tell you to slow down.

I fully understand. Thank you 🤝🏽

mymadam:

This may surprise you and many others. I sincerely profess here and now that I am prepared to marry the woman immediately. If anyone has her contact info, please kindly shoot me an email. My word is my bond. Thank you 🙏🏽

u won marry ur mama mate

mytime24:
u won marry ur mama mate

Sweetheart, will you marry me? 🤷🏽‍♂️

MrBrownJay1:


FIXED
after 21 yrs of trying, the guy is just fed up of the marriage na

let us be honest, its obvious the man wants out after 21yrs. why stick with someone you dont want anymore? didnt he try for 21yrs?

Not with him wanting out. I'm referring to his new wife having kids.

GboyegaD:
Not with him wanting out. I'm referring to his new wife having kids.

its a man's desire to have children, thus why some try their whole life... i cant blame a man for seeking that kind of pleasure in his life, by any means necessary.

That woman really loves the man , I feel for her and it is so painful, the man should consider her request and live with her

The woman was ready to accept the child outside wedlock from the husband.
Yet the husband wanted divorce.

culf:
I feel bad for the woman. This is why it is very important to ask your partner their reason(s) for marriage before saying I do. Its a big mistake to marriage someone that his/her only reason for marriage is to have children.

Omoh what are u saying?
Without children marriage is so empty that u can't make any meaning out of it. Childlessness can dissolve any marriage

CSTRR:
The man shouldn't have divorced her, after the woman has made a reasonable compromise.

That is very wicked on his part.

Well, there's a God in heaven.

You won't understand, it is not easy for the man as well. Staying with her for 21 yrs shows the man never wanted to end the marriage. He must gone through alot of pressure all these yrs. But he is now becoming afraid, he got 9 yrs to retire, when him want take train the children.

Nairaland needs to sanction some comments. So many insane kids roaming around this site

mymadam:

This may surprise you and many others. I sincerely profess here and now that I am prepared to marry the woman immediately. If anyone has her contact info, please kindly shoot me an email. My word is my bond. Thank you 🙏🏽

Lol

She's 49 years o

Rubbiish:

Omoh what are u saying?
Without children marriage is so empty that u can't make any meaning out of it. Childlessness can dissolve any marriage

That's for you ooo bro. Some marry for companionship, like me, that doesn't mean that if God bless one with children, one won't be happy but it wasn't the main reason for going into marriage.

They are couple that marry and have agreement that no baby until when they feel like. marriage is never empty without children, never, though it is good to have children for those that like having kids.

Kriss216:

Lol
She's 49 years o

49 is OK. What do you think? 🤷🏽‍♂️

culf:
I feel bad for the woman. This is why it is very important to ask your partner their reason(s) for marriage before saying I do. Its a big mistake to marriage someone that his/her only reason for marriage is to have children.

if not because of having children, 90% of Nigerians men wouldnt get married.

JeffreyJunior:
Nnaa, I'm yet to have dinner so I don't have the strength to argue with you now.

Dis is washing mennn

MrBrownJay1:


if not because of having children, 90% of Nigerians men wouldnt get married.

you're right though I'm among the remaining 10% that will still marry irrespective...