jaeyking:
Is your sister older than you or younger

If she is older, let her leave the house and go and meet, maybe na wetin dey make her talk anyhow

If she is younger, then you no be man or deserve to be called senior

Thats my two cents

jaeyking:
Is your sister older than you or younger

If she is older, let her leave the house and go and meet, maybe na wetin dey make her talk anyhow

If she is younger, then you no be man or deserve to be called senior

Thats my two cents

Sunshinehappy:





I am a female and my sister is my older sister. She is way older then me, 12 years. I am the last born.

Rokiat:
Lol poster this is how most women live, they hardly get along. Be it mother and daughter, sisters, friends, in-laws, as soon they live under the same roof and for too long there are bound to be problems.

Sunshinehappy:



Hmmm
I can surely say it’s better to live alone than be in a house with a nagging person.

Sunshinehappy:
My mom and my sister are always at loggerhead and it is making me sick. The house has become unbearable for me. My sister is always complaining about our mom, using all sorts of words on her and my mom on the other hand is always crying and being sad. I can’t remember the last time that I saw my sister smiling or happy. She doesn’t smile or show happiness and if someone else smiles or shows happiness, she doesn’t join in.

I have spoken to my sister severally about the way she talks to our mother, I told her to talk to her with respect and be careful what she says to mom but it still hasn’t changed anything. I spoke with mom to just obey her and not cry but still the two of them continue.
I’ve tried talking to them privately but still nothing.
My sister says that my mom likes taking the little we have to help people who turn out being ungrateful to us, she also accuses my mom of being the kind of person who gives to other people while neglecting herself. She says our mother is always looking for other people’s problems to solve when we ourselves are still managing and we have no help from other people. When my sister is talking and my mom jokingly responds, my sister stops talking and cuts her off or sometimes with her a hears responds or sometimes just suddenly shut down and walk away. I feel sorry for my mo. I pray for peace and love in our home all the time.

What do you think I should do now?

Rokiat:


Is there a father figure in the home?

MrBrownJay1:


- how can you ask your mum to OBEY your sister?!
- your mother is who she is, you cant expect her to become someone different, and as long as she aint doing anything criminal, let her be herself!
- no matter how old/wise you think you are, you should always respect the person who raised you..
- your disrespectful sista needs to either change her ways or move out to her own place.

Sunshinehappy:


Well I just wanted peace that’s why I said that. She has refused to change her ways. She quit her job because they weren’t paying well at all and doesn’t have money to rent her own place not to talk of getting basic necessities. I am the one even paying for the place we are in and everything. How do I ask her to leave now?

Sunshinehappy:
Well I just wanted peace that’s why I said that. She has refused to change her ways. She quit her job because they weren’t paying well at all and doesn’t have money to rent her own place not to talk of getting basic necessities. I am the one even paying for the place we are in and everything. How do I ask her to leave now?

Sunshinehappy:


That’s the problem, no father figure. My dad passed away since 2012. My sister and I have been together since then. No uncle or if there is an uncle then we don’t really know him. My mom tried introducing us to a family man that we can take as an uncle or elder family person but my sister said she doesn’t see any other person as her father apart from our dad. She doesn’t have a friend or husband that I can at least explain to. She’s always indoors. She doesn’t regard anyone as an elderly family person.

Sunshinehappy:


That’s the problem, no father figure. My dad passed away since 2012. My sister and I have been together since then. No uncle or if there is an uncle then we don’t really know him. My mom tried introducing us to a family man that we can take as an uncle or elder family person but my sister said she doesn’t see any other person as her father apart from our dad. She doesn’t have a friend or husband that I can at least explain to. She’s always indoors. She doesn’t regard anyone as an elderly family person.

Sunshinehappy:
My mom and my sister are always at loggerhead and it is making me sick. The house has become unbearable for me. My sister is always complaining about our mom, using all sorts of words on her and my mom on the other hand is always crying and being sad. I can’t remember the last time that I saw my sister smiling or happy. She doesn’t smile or show happiness and if someone else smiles or shows happiness, she doesn’t join in.

I have spoken to my sister severally about the way she talks to our mother, I told her to talk to her with respect and be careful what she says to mom but it still hasn’t changed anything. I spoke with mom to just obey her and not cry but still the two of them continue.
I’ve tried talking to them privately but still nothing.
My sister says that my mom likes taking the little we have to help people who turn out being ungrateful to us, she also accuses my mom of being the kind of person who gives to other people while neglecting herself. She says our mother is always looking for other people’s problems to solve when we ourselves are still managing and we have no help from other people. When my sister is talking and my mom jokingly responds, my sister stops talking and cuts her off or sometimes with her a hears responds or sometimes just suddenly shut down and walk away. I feel sorry for my mo. I pray for peace and love in our home all the time.

What do you think I should do now?