Coming to America is a test , you would be tempted , yes I was, if you are a guy it would be a woman, I had nobody except God, I live with people but I faced all insults from woman and man because you are not part of America, they used me for their rise, I do not mind because I believe I am going higher, I was set up by woman inorder to chase me out of the house but I kept quiet when they where condemning my acts and lying and twisting my speech, if I had exchanged words my time at that house that welcome me to America will be shorter before I get a job and this makes people even end up taking return back to Nigeria, so my advice for you as a guy coming to America be careful with friends girlfriend and wife it is not the way we do it in Nigeria, here the woman have different background and ethics but over their their is just one we home, trouble with a woman in America is like carrying her problems and adding problems to your settlement , journey that can take one year may end up with more years .