With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.

In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?

Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bq2Gbeb9qjY

Zigzagman:
With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.

In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?

Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bq2Gbeb9qjY

This isn't new. It has been happening since time immemorial. Most women across the world can not keep calm when they start making more money than their man.

It is well known that women don't want to share their money with their husbands. Know this and know peace.

slow news day

This is true for so many men in Nigeria.

Nice2023:
This is true for so many men in Nigeria.

A man isn't loved unless he provides something to his family

Zigzagman:


A man isn't loved unless he provides something to his family

Chris Rock best said it:

" Only women and children are loved unconditionally. A man is loved on the condition that he provides"

Dimaya:


Chris Rock best said it:

" Only women and children are loved unconditionally. A man is loved on the condition that he provides"

exactly. so true

Zigzagman:


A man isn't loved unless he provides something to his family

make una hustle o!

so dat if madam abuse you, una no go vex

we haff heard

can we move on to how men can earn more money so that they will stop threatening their women

Dimaya:
we haff heard

can we move on to how men can earn more money so that they will stop threatening their women

Una neva leave this topic alone?

Zigzagman:
With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.

In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?

Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bq2Gbeb9qjY

interesting assertions

Zigzagman:



Una neva leave this topic alone?

long time bro

Dimaya:


Chris Rock best said it:

" Only women and children are loved unconditionally. A man is loved on the condition that he provides"

A man is expected to provide; a woman is expected to keep her youth, beauty and take care of the home. Children are expected to make their parents proud and care for them in future.

Each party has something expected of them.

All these half truths peddled to sell a delusional ideology.

@OP:

The major stress comes from the fact that he wants to eat his cake and have it.

When he is the major provider, he thinks it gives him the right to be in control of the house/wife and exempt from domestic chores and housekeeping which the woman peacefully accepts.

When she becomes the major provider, he frowns if his wife treats him same way and starts to postulate theories. He still wants to enjoy the privilege of the major provider while not bringing in the money. So he wants a beast of burden who is fine with bringing in most of the money, allow him control and exempt him from domestics.

Marriages whose dynamics are not based on money but mutual respect, love, equity and understanding need not experience this change Irrespective of who brings in more money.

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bukatyne:


A man is expected to provide; a woman is expected to keep her youth, beauty and take care of the home. Children are expected to make their parents proud and care for them in future.

Each party has something expected of them.

All these half truths peddled to sell a delusional ideology.

@OP:

The major stress comes from the fact that he wants to eat his cake and have it.

When he is the major provider, he thinks it gives him the right to be in control of the house/wife and exempt from domestic chores and housekeeping which the woman peacefully accepts.

When she becomes the major provider, he frowns if his wife treats him same way and starts to postulate theories. He still wants to enjoy the privilege of the major provider while not bringing in the money. So he wants a beast of burden who is fine with bringing in most of the money, allow him control and exempt him from domestics.

Marriages whose dynamics are not based on money but mutual respect, love, equity and understanding need not experience this change Irrespective of who brings in more money.

You have a point