My opinion is:

1). Apologize to him. Greetings is not affection.

2). If u feel unsafe, u want to record the calls or unwittingly record his verbal instructions. Some bosses will never respond to sure mails. They will even see it like some subtle trap. My current boss is a professor. I struggled with same issue when I began working with him. At some point, even to seek clarification, I will share it via email just to get feedback via phone calls.

Some bosses are that way. Most big men do not have time to stress up compiling instructions that they would just call you on phone to inform. I suggest you should try to be comfortable around his style.

If u have ever been a victim of his denial of such instructions, kindly seek to share ur opinion with him in a humble tone via face to face talk, no text or mail cos it can be perceived as evidence gathering

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Being principled without being disrespectful is a special skill at work.

You already know the said superior wanted you to do something against the laid down policy, which means you are principled and honest. Next is portraying such in a respectable manner which you lack.

Saying, "I'm sorry" , sometimes doesn't mean you are a weakling.

It's not only in corporate organisation but also in every facets of life.

Some unions become shadow of themselves because none of the parties want to sound Simps or weak. You already see what the results is nowadays, divorce, separation etc.

The above claim does not consider cheating or abuse, take note, it only means some union could have been saved if the parties could imbibe the spirit of correction with love.

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Herdamorlar:
My immediate boss changed his attitude towards me after I told him to send a confirmation mail on what he asked me to do that is against the company policy (though I later did it without the mail after he shouted on me?).
All my colleagues in the office advised me to apologise and move on but I don't see anything I did wrong that warrant me to apologise. I know this will affect me during my appraisal coming up next month.
Please what do you think I should do and is there any polite way to tell your boss for confirmation mail? Because I know he will still ask me to do the same thing again tomorrow

Just apologize to have a peaceful working environment. It has nothing to do with who's right or wrong

Herdamorlar:
My immediate boss changed his attitude towards me after I told him to send a confirmation mail on what he asked me to do that is against the company policy (though I later did it without the mail after he shouted on me?).
All my colleagues in the office advised me to apologise and move on but I don't see anything I did wrong that warrant me to apologise. I know this will affect me during my appraisal coming up next month.
Please what do you think I should do and is there any polite way to tell your boss for confirmation mail? Because I know he will still ask me to do the same thing again tomorrow

OP you did the right thing, ignore those clowns saying obey your boss, when it is obvious it can put you in trouble, your boss should know better but he is just being selfish, you have actually did no wrong

[quote author=Herdamorlar post=123941544]My immediate boss changed his attitude towards me after I told him to send a confirmation mail on what he asked me to do that is against the company policy (though I later did it without the mail after he shouted on me?).
All my colleagues in the office advised me to apologise and move on but I don't see anything I did wrong that warrant me to apologise. I know this will affect me during my appraisal coming up next month.
Please what do you think I should do and is there any polite way to tell your boss for confirmation mail? Because I know he will still ask me to do the same thing again tomorrow[/q

Check if he is the type that can deny or throw you under the bus when the chips are down. Always make sure you have strong evidence especially mail that you can pull out showing all he instruct you to do.