tensazangetsu20:
Poor people should just not be allowed to procreate. So much suffering is created. I wish I had something to send to you OP.

pocohantas:

pstemma1990:
Thanks sir, I get your point, but I'm speaking from my personal experience... He's not the one asking u to pay directly, but those people are his workers...

One even said if we want us to see us early, thst we should lodge in thier own hotel, and a room there is 35k and above... The truth of the matter is if u don't have money and u don't have anyone to help u, u won't see these big men of God... Especially because of the crowd....

Just like the Apostle Selman I made mention of, they are not asking u to pay for anything, but u can be going there for 4 months without seeing u, either he traveled, or he's busy or tired.... It's difficult to explain

Coldplay007:


Please pray for yourself, dont put your faith in any man of god, dont let them use their own marine spirits to compound your problems...do fasting and prayers for 40 days... pray for 30 mins or 1hr every 3 hours... 9.00am 12pm, 3pm, 6pm, 9am, 12am...make the midnight prayer at least 1.30mins ... make sure you speak in tongues for at least 3 hours daily... and use Psalms to pray..

fidelitystrs:
@Op please make sure you attend MFM (Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministry) your story is like what most that attend the church have pass through and have overcome.
Strong powers of your fathers house, foundational powers from your home. Save and buy prayer rain and prayer passport booklet you would battle with them and come out victorious.

Make sure you work hard for your money never forsake Jesus or backslide you are closer to your testimonies.

Stay blessed

pstemma1990:
Thanks to everyone who recommended mountain of fire...

The truth is I can't count how many times I attended their deliverance program with fasting.. At some point the pastor and deliverance minister referred me to their Abuja headquarter at Utako...

I'll be honest, the prayers and fasting help to some point.. But some of the problems still remained... If I should count the number of times I went for deliverance there, it should be more than 11 times..

pstemma1990:
I dey fear that church, make I no lie.

Iupacnomenclatu:
why do you fear the church?have you tried Mountain of Fire?

pstemma1990:
yes ma, I've tried mountain of fire few years ago...

I fear the church because when I was in the village I knew of one white garment prophet... He once invited to his church for deliverance, I was around 14 years then... What I saw with my eyes, if I tell u, u won't believe me... So I ran away..

So since then anything white, I dey fear, because of that first experience.

Iupacnomenclatu:
Look let me tell you something,if one prays for so long and nothing happens,then the next step is to seek prophetic guidance I mean divine instructions.The C&S church ministry is based on that;divine instructions;while they may not necessarily be the ony church whose ministry is based solely on prophetic guidance,I recommend them because I attended the church for several years.

I do not understand this phobia towards white garment churches but I think the problem is that the public cannot discern the authentic ones from the ones who use the church as a cover up to practice voodoo,and the body overseeing the white garment churches is not doing enough to weed out the name spoilers .Moreover,there are several sub denominations of the white garment church(Sacred C&S,Movement C&S,Unification C&S.the Celestial churches included and so many others ) but people see a particular sect and their actions and immediately assume that everyone in white is the same.

So my brother find an authentic white garment church,I'll recommend the C&S Movement Church, cos that's where I attended for years and I can confidently tell you there's nothing fetish about them.

Find their district headquarters closest to where you reside(you can goggle the address)approach their prophets,tell them your plight.They will pray for you and tell you the source of the problem so that you can know the direction in which you will face with your prayers.And who knows,the solution might be something very simple!!

I feel concerned about your plight,hence the long write up,I am sorry about that.but I do hope you get my point.

Graduate2015:
@op
I really feel sorry for your family.
I've been thinking how do I help you after reading your story.
I would like to offer you a job, #35/40k/month with accommodation and food.
You will be working as my mum's driver. My mum is in the village (Enugu state). she already have a driver but you will be a secondary driver. You will live in the house and do manly job like putting gen on at night, getting fuel, keeping compound in order as the other driver doesn't live with her.
You can try and if u dont like it you are free to leave.
Message me if you would like to take the offer

DeeBaDan:



Send a message to the WhatsApp contact on this profile. I may have something with a contact by August

Foodqueen:


Waoh! I feel more for your sisters.

I wonder what they are going through.

Can u relocate to lag. Can you work in a hotel

Graduate2015:
@op
I really feel sorry for your family.
I've been thinking how do I help you after reading your story.
I would like to offer you a job, #35/40k/month with accommodation and food.
You will be working as my mum's driver. My mum is in the village (Enugu state). she already have a driver but you will be a secondary driver. You will live in the house and do manly job like putting gen on at night, getting fuel, keeping compound in order as the other driver doesn't live with her.
You can try and if u dont like it you are free to leave.
Message me if you would like to take the offer

DeeBaDan:



Next time, learn to read more patiently

pstemma1990:
I'll have to skip some because they are too many... Let me just skip to when and how I came to Abuja

Hemeshemeheru:
Your story is touching. I wanted to feel sorry and help you but I hold back. Despite all your suffering or what you have gone through, you refuse to get sense. You just refuse to learn. The problem here is lack of wisdom.

You have a very bad family foundation. The worst you did was you tried to build your life on someone else church foundation. How and why will you try to build your life on someone church foundation? Being at the wrong place like dunamis and Christ embassy opening church branch and wasting many years of your life trying to be a pastor?

I know pastors who made money from other source but they live poorly because of their pastoring desire. Their desire to preach shattered them. They spend all their hard earned money in moving from one place to another in the name of erecting a church. They try to force their effort on God.

Must you be a pastor? You are now owing debt in the name of church or pastor work. Who will help you to pay the debt?

LodiDodi:
I have a revelation to share with you.

The origin of your problems isn't from the church, so the solution isn't there either.

You are an African, facing a peculiar African spiritual problem.

It is not something you can pray away in church or wish away.

Plus, the spirits punishing you and your family aren't necessarily bad, they are just vengeful because you and your household owe a debt.

Yes, in African spirituality, ignorance is not an excuse.

The solution to your problems may be as easy as just bathing in your village stream but if you don't know, you'd keep seeking solutions in the wrong places.

I am speaking from experience.

LodiDodi:
I have a revelation to share with you.

The origin of your problems isn't from the church, so the solution isn't there either.

You are an African, facing a peculiar African spiritual problem.

It is not something you can pray away in church or wish away.

Plus, the spirits punishing you and your family aren't necessarily bad, they are just vengeful because you and your household owe a debt.

Yes, in African spirituality, ignorance is not an excuse.

The solution to your problems may be as easy as just bathing in your village stream but if you don't know, you'd keep seeking solutions in the wrong places.

I am speaking from experience.

2goodbobo:
@op how come you write so
Well yet you never mentioned attending any school in your story? Why do I have the feeling that you are well educated beyond secondary school level

pstemma1990:
I get u point though, but from what I've learnt over the years, every other powers bows to the power of God almighty...

Going to the village to do it in a traditional way it's not the best option, because u will keep on going back to them (they may even ask u to serve them)

Thanks for ur contribution, but going to the River isn't an option... That was what my grandmother served, but yet all her children died...

LodiDodi:
Who is God almighty?

You ancestors communed with God almighty before the Europeans came to Africa with Christianity.

You are an Igbo man with Igbo ancestry, facing an ancestral challenge but you want to run away from it and instead seek help in the church. The church that obviously just wants you to generate money for them.

The forces that beseech you aren't evil as Nollywood and the christian teachings have made you to believe.

At least you know the solution to your problems. When you are really ready, you'll go back home.

pstemma1990:
we are all speaking from our experiences, I may not know it all, but I understand some of these things (altars and idol worship)

My grandmother was faithful to them, served them all her entire life, but they killed all her 11 children right before her eyes, before she died, she gave her life to Christ and told us to follow the light of God..

If someone like her would turn her back on the idol and alter after serving them close to 70 years, why should I go and serve them.... They didn't even pity her children..... I've come too far to go back, if God cannot help me, then let me die this way, thank God I'm not married..

LodiDodi:
Hahaha.

You are from Mbeke.

Do you know Umuelemai?

The bible you read says "my people perish for lack of knowledge"

Death is easy, if you die, you are still gonna come back and continue on the assignment left for you.

You are still in your 30s, so there's a lot of time for you to get back to your roots and raise your family name and lineage.

Your parents that have passed are waiting to reincarnate through your own family line and you are talking about death.

You alone can help yourself. No church can help you. You have even pastored a church and "God" couldn't help you.

African spirituality isn't idol worship. Wake up and see what's in front of you.