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Today is on the 19th of July 2023,wow shouldn't I be grateful to be alive,this is my second account I've created on nairaland, although my first phone got stolen in a Keke months back in Warri.

Ever came across the topic? HELP I'M IN A MANIPULATIVE RELATIONSHIP..!, that was me with the username graciousheart1,after that Saga,I lost everything, Properties, Joint account with my Son's name,and haven't set nor heard from my little innocent Son.

Here I am in my mid's 20ths and I have been through a divorce already,mehn drank HYPO twice still didn't die?😩😩😩😩,had to fall back to "The Manor"(Family house, it's a very very big house and my grandfather had many wives although it's only 3 left,my grandma included,top floor just for the whole family)

Now here's the problem,you see that zeal I mean energy I had back then,the hustling spirit,self esteem and confidence I've lost it,my own is just that I wake up get daily bread,if I no see I check mama pot and eat anything and sleep, sometimes I cry my eyes out,some times I go deep into the forest scream till my voice shreak.

Talking to a woman I always look down and don't have anything meaningful to speak to a woman even for just 5 minutes,am always stuttering,mehn no meaning friendship between female folks,I hardly dress,e.t.c


Please my fellow nairalanders how can I live a single and peaceful meaningful life? Without this thinking and many many flashbacks?

Wtf

taylor89:

Can you be more specific on your own part in helping out?

Candidlady:
Wtf

Candidlady,yes ooooo the witch finally brought me to my knees ooo

People are really going alot and alot.
sha give up no join.

Mehnnnnnnn, you just have to pick yourself up and don't you ever think of giving up....... That's life for you....But being single isn't the cure to all your troubles bro.....You just gat to get something doing to set your mind free from all sorts of negative thoughts.

Sorry.

talented321:
People are really going alot and alot.
sha give up no join.

Am not after rabas now self, make I just get myself back,na I dey find difficult so