Before you can succeed in anything in life you have to deal with people …

And if you want to deal with them in a way that will benefit you…

They must do what you want… without giving you any excuse…without you forcing them

Now I will be revealing to you how you can make people follow all your instructions without you forcing them…

And the way you relate with people will change forever.

Now let's go to the points…

Don't act desperate

The problem with many people today is that they act desperate when they need something from someone…

They behave as if the things are the only thing that will make them exist.

And once the person you are dealing with sees this, he will immediately know what you are up to.

And he will resist drastically without thinking of you anymore.

Even this applies to selling something to people, once the prospects know that you are acting desperately they don't even bother to look at what you are selling.

Stay calm and behave as if you don't want what they are giving you…which is money

But deep inside your heart, you know that you want it…

The same things in a human romantic relationship…once your partner knows that you can not do without them.

They will be using that as a tool to control you and do what they want.

But if you behave like you do nature people will listen and do what you want.

2. Don't Force people to do anything…

We believe that if we force people to do something they will do it…

But that is not true…

Once people discover that you are forcing them to do something, they will resist with full force.

And you will eventually lose their attention…

What can you do about this …

Is to let them know the reason they should do what you are proposing…

How it will benefit their lives…

And you must back it up with proof

And they will make the final. judgment by themselves.

Let them know that you are only giving them the information…

And they still have total control over their life.

This will let them know you are like friends to them.

If what you are selling is a great product let the products speak for itself by showing them the benefits, and proof to back it off

3. Don't try to control people.

You can try and control but it won't last…

And the best 3ay to control people is to let them know that you aren't controlling them…

Once they believe this

They will respect and be willing to listen to what you are about to say.

People make different choices every day yet they want to believe they are the one controlling the whole.

If you are selling something to someone…

Don't act like you are controlling them to buy…

A simple statement like this will help.

" I know that you have read all the benefits of this product but it is you that will decide whether to buy it now before the price increases… "

People are always happy to listen to what you are going to say when you acknowledge them as a controller of their life.

4. Give people what they want.

This is one of the tricks some people use in relationships to deal with their partners…

If someone in the is giving the other person what they want…

The other person will be willing to do anything for them…

Because they don't want to miss what they are getting in the relationship.

The same when you want people to do what you want, you must be ready to give them what they want.